Spouse Persona Chart??

So, my SP is a celebrity, and I won't give any info on him beyond that, but I see a lot of y'all with celebrity SPs, and I just want to say: they are no different than a "normal" SP. Everybody is a human being no matter what. God/the universe created us all equal. They just happen to have jobs that make them popular. This is your reality, you can have anything and anybody you want 😉💜

Spencer how are you so sure about your sp? isnt he a celebrity?

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For the longest time, I struggled with the concept of being able to have a relationship with celebrities.

I had limited beliefs about that word until last week, when I realized that it was just a title. We are so used to titles like police officer, teacher, mom, sister, brother, etc., but why do we give so much power to the word celeb? Celebrity is just a title just as much as the other words I just wrote; the only difference is that they're well known and have a lot of money; that's it!

So to answer the question, I don't question the how or why; it's none of my business. I also relate to the times when I met my favorite celebs when I was younger. I never asked how or why; I just knew I was going to meet them.

I also redirect my brain to the time when my friend and I met Ariana Grande, (during this time she was on victorious) and my friend ended up being close friends with her; she even follows her on Instagram. So yes, it's very possible. Either you want to be friends or have a romantic relationship, always remember that they're just human beings at the end of the day; they think, they feel, and they'll die just like us. They are not untouchable.

Another example is that my friend at the time was a huge Vanessa Hudgens fan; she ran a fansite and a fan Instagram.

She always knew that Vanessa was going to see her fansite one day and that she'd have a connection with her.

Vanessa now follows her account; she has met Vanessa so many times, and Vanessa knows her personally.

*Also a lot of celebs do not like other celebs, they love normal people like me and you. most celebs treat other celebs like co-workers

Why do you think Selena Gomez hangs out with the most normal-looking people? Why do you think Ariana, at the start of her career, gave her phone number to her fans, tweeted out her locations, etc.? They hate talking about fame and work. Most celebs actually hate being celebs, but they love their work so they suck it up.

My sp lives a boring life outside of his work; he doesn't even have social media, and he's very private, so I know for a fact that dating him would be very easy for me since he has dated fans in the past.

So, like I said in the SP post, deprogram your thinking and get rid of your limited beliefs and you'll have that celeb sp.

Why manifest by a “certain deadline?” You have everything you want NOW.⏱️

Why set limits on yourself to manifest this desire “in a week”or this desire is “bigger so I’ll manifest it in a “month” like what? Do you not know how stupid you sound. If you truly knew about the law, you wouldn’t be saying stuff to yourself like this. If so, the only reason is that your desires should never take more than 3 days to manifest. PERIOD. IF NOT, don’t get discouraged. But Neville Goddard specifically quotes “that for this world, the realization is 3 days” Keep a mindset like that. YOU ALWAYS MANIFEST IN 3 DAYS OR LESS. YOU HAVE ALL YOUR DESIRES RIGHT NOW BECAUSE YOUR CHOOSING TO HAVE FAITH IN THE LAW, AND THE UNSEEN. NEVER, like I don’t ever want to hear you guys say “oh to manifest a dollar will take me 2 days, but a million dollars will take me 3 months.” If that’s your mindset, and your dominant belief you have, which is to put unneeded limiting beliefs on yourself. No desire or manifestation is “big or small” instant results is 100% real even if it’s not in the 3D yet, remember that’s not our goal we want to have it in our imagination since that is truly the only real reality. Happy Manifesting!💝💝

HOW TO DEAL WITH DOUBTS WHEN MANIFESTING SP

Manifesting a specific person is super easy!! However it’s the most common subject on manifesting communities and forums, why is that? Misinformation around this type of manifestation is CRAZY specially on tikt0k. So the first thing you’re going to do is get off that damn app please :)

Now we can proceed! The base for manifesting is the same with everything you want to manifest, and it is also applied when talking about a specific person situation.

1. HOW DO I START MANIFESTING A SP?

Assume your desire is yours already. Yes, it’s that simple. As I said, the fundamentals for manifesting anything are all the same, and that also includes your SP. He or she is yours, you’re in a relationship, h00king up or whatever you desire with this person.

2. HOW TO DEAL WITH THE 3D SHOWING ME OTHERWISE?

Ignore it. I know it’s hard, I know it’s frustrating and I know it may take time to deal with the 3D. But that’s it, just ignore it, it’s the old story, affirm and affirm and affirm. It also helps to keep a mental diet, whenever you think something that doesn’t align with your desires, flip the thought and affirm you’re just thinking of the old story and it’s all fake and you’re together.

3. WHAT ABOUT A 3RD PARTY SITUATION?

Hey so… this is YOUR reality. Why are you even thinking about a 3rd party when you are the one that gets to decide where they stand in your world? You want to get rid of them? Affirm it. No matter who SP is with, he’s always thinking about me. I am the only one for SP. SP wants a relationship with me and only me.

4. WHY IS IT TAKING SO LONG?

It’s not. Manifestation is instant and time shouldn’t be something you’re always relying on. Why would you keep checking how many days have passed since you started your SP manifestation journey if you already have him or her? Duh. I know it can get frustrating, but just keep affirming and stop giving it that much importance tbh, that’s how you act when something is already yours.

5. AVOID OVERDOING IT!

You don’t need a million techniques or dozens of different manifestation coaches for it to work, it’s a law after all, and it’s impossible for you to get it “wrong”, this will just make you worried and more obsessed with looking for it in the material world, when you should just know within yourself that the 3D has no choice but to conform to your assumptions.

Feel free to send me asks, I’m always willing to help out! I know better than anyone how lonely it can be to deal with manifestation alone <3 Happy manifesting and omg you and your SP look so good together!

if you only take one piece of advice from me,

i would like it to be to stop being so hard on yourself.

for a while i kept wondering why every single time I do a challenge or a routine where I’m consistently affirming for something, things would start to get bad.

& for the longest time, many of us in a way were taught to dismiss our “negative” emotions for the sake of getting into “the state”.

when those “bad” feelings come up, we tell ourselves

“that’s a bad thought. you can’t think that way. it is not aligned with your manifestation.”

ahh yes. so enjoyable to dismiss our own feelings. this appears to be a job fit for either an obedient pet or robot, and last time I checked, everyone on here was neither.

i kept trying to understand why things kept getting worse and worse when I doing “all the right things” by the book.

& then I realized it was because I was trying to force myself to become this perfect person so that I could therefore have my desires, so that I could therefore be fulfilled. why did I expect myself to be perfect, but my person and my friends didn’t have to be..?🤔

how is never allowing myself to be human and then throwing a bunch of “I’m the hottest and I love myself” affirmations having the ideal self-concept? It’s not. a true high self-concept to me is being genuinely nice to yourself, and allowing yourself to feel the things that you feel because you are, once again, not a robot. I genuinely was waiting for my every single insecurity to disappear as an indicator of a good self-concept. Not allowing myself to BE HUMAN. that’s why these shitty feelings kept popping right tf back up over and over again, no matter how many times I decided I was going to “ignore it.”

i believe letting yourself feel those scary emotions are propelling you towards your desires, as you are genuinely letting go of the old self this way. cry it out. whatever the emotion is that won’t go tf away, let yourself feel it. then you can reparent yourself and remind yourself that you are only human, so it is normal to feel this way sometimes, but guess what? you are still hundred percent getting everything you want regardless. you will not stay sad about these things forever once you realize that they are not stopping you from getting what you want. they’re literally just trying to find their way out of your body.

and for those manifesting an SP.. would you criticize your SP for feeling sad? or would you soothe them and love them anyway? why can’t you get the same treatment?

be kind to yourself, always <3

LOA in a nutshell + troubleshooting

What do you want?

Now that you know what you want, how will it feel once you have it?

Persist in that feeling. Sustain the state of the wish fulfilled.

3D conforms

Troubleshooting:

"What if I don't know what it feels like?"

Persist in knowing it'll happen. I did this when I've never fallen in love before, I did not try to conjure feelings of being in love because how the hell would I know.

"Nothing's happening."

You didn't persist enough. Random but I made a script of my dream man on May 6th, 2021. Met my bf on May 17th that year and that's when I literally had a fling in between not working out. You think if I had stopped affirming, ruminated on rejection, not finding anyone, and thinking LOA is a scam would get me to where I am today? Again, persist.

"I been at it for X amount of days/months/years"

The problem here again is persisting. I know because if you truly had your desire, the 3D wouldn't affect you, you wouldn't be counting the days and the more you don't have it (which needs to stop honestly and will only reinforce your lack).

"How do I generate belief or get to the state of the wish fulfilled?"

There's so many methods out there and no real straight answer. Affirmations, visualizing, SATs, subliminals, scripting, been seeing the term "vaunting" or "rampaging." Vision boards. I think affirmations is the most simple and bare bones way, it doesn't require as much focus and effort as say, visualizing or scripting if you're lazy about writing (or typing). It's a personal journey in finding what works for you.

"Why's it so hard?"

You're making it hard when you look to the 3D for confirmation. When they say YOU are the confirmation, it's because it all starts with you, you decide whether you have it or not. Now, I know literally there's no physical or tangible 3D evidence so you're probably like "well how am I gonna tell myself I have it when I clearly do not." WELL! That's why use your imagination. Instead of waiting for the 3D, you need to allow yourself to experience the feelings associated with your desire or just know you have it. You want a partner because you want to feel loved, beautiful, etc? Well either allow yourself those feelings and dwell in it through your imagination or if that's too hard, just knowing and feeling certain it'll happen is fine. Honestly, it all starts in allowing yourself to have your desire before it's even there yet (in the 3D).

Final thought:

You have to live from your imagination. Successful people got to where they are today because they ignore all odds and 3D circumstances. We say persisting, but you know, it's all the same in having a dream, staying determined, don't give up, keeping your eye on the prize, being stubborn.. LIKE FORREAL, do you think the Scrub Daddy guy gave up on his business because no one wanted to invest on Shark Tank?! Do you think people of this community got their desires by dwelling in lack and victim mentality?

That's all I gotta say. 🫳🏻🎤

hi love,

Do you have any advice for celebrity sps? Mine is at the peak of his career, and of course even though I'm really happy for him i get conflicted over seeing him doing so well in the 3D "without me" while my 3d is still catching up, and not just love wise, but success wise too.

I'm happy and envious and anxious about the version of him in the reflection at the same time, like I'm missing out on celebrating and spending time with him. I don't mean to feel like my imagined ideal version of him who is actually interested in me and wants me isn't real or is somehow inferior or not enough compared to the reflected version of him, but sometimes I feel like theres this unknownness because of the reflected version of him. like the reflected version is out of reach, and it makes me question if my ideal imagined version of him is really the real one real and mine while the reflected version isnt in my social sphere and etc. I know i have him and he's mine, not just in the 4d but 3d 5d all ds, really, since there isnt separation and creation is finished, but sometimes I see or think about the shadow of him in the 3d and feel like since that version of him is seemingly out of reach and happy doing his own thing, enjoying his success, with plenty of people "closer" to him to choose from near or in his industry to date. Almost like if the 3d version of him is seemingly so well off without me and not near me, how could I possibly expect the 3d to reflect my imagined version of him soon, or at all? I sorta question if my imagined version of him is indeed the real and only relevant version given how seemingly different and distant the "two" ver of him are.

If you have any advice about this, feeling like there's a lot of distance or difference between your imagined celebrity sp and the reflected version of them, I'd appreciate it. Sometimes I struggle with feeling like the version of him in my imagination is truly real and overrules whatever version of him my senses are seeing in the 3d. I've also never dated before so it's hard for me to imagine spending time with him or going on dates due to both my seeming lack of physical experience and him being an a-list celebrity since i like privacy.

Any posts or advice you have to recommend about feeling and truly accepting your imagined version of anyone or yourself is the real deal, not whatever is in the reflection while the reflection catches up, would be really helpful. Hopefully this ask isn't completely redundant compared to others you've answered or pinned

Hiii ❤️

Your imagined version of him is the real one. The “celebrity SP” you see in the 3D is just an old reflection of past assumptions—he has no free will apart from what you assume about him. The only reason he seems distant, out of reach, or busy without you is because you’re still holding onto a perspective where he exists separately from you. But he doesn’t. He’s already yours, because you are the operant power.

Think about it: your imagination is the only reality. The version of him you imagine—the one who loves you, prioritizes you, and wants to be with you—is the one that will solidify in your 3D once you stop wavering. The only reason the “celebrity version” feels different is because you’re seeing the world from an old perspective where you two are not together yet. But that’s not the truth. The truth is you already have him.

The key is to stop giving the 3D version of him more weight than your assumed version. If you see a headline about him or a picture that triggers you, remind yourself: That’s just an old reflection. He’s mine. I already know the truth. Don’t entertain doubts about “if” it will happen. Instead, shift into knowing it already has.

As for struggling to imagine dating him because you’ve never dated before—forget the “how.” The mind doesn’t need experience to create. Just focus on the feeling of being loved by him, spending time together, and knowing you are the one he adores. If you don’t know how a date with him would go, imagine the emotions—his attention on you, his voice, the feeling of being with him. Let your imagination take the lead.

Let go of the version of him that feels distant and claim the version that is already yours. Every time you feel doubt, remind yourself: He is mine. I am the only one in control here. The more you persist in this assumption, the more 3D will reflect it back to you.

change your life challenge

Hi Spencer here, I wrote on Twitter about wanting to do a change your life challenge.

Anyone is more than welcome to do the challenge with me! and please give me updates.

The whole point of this challenge is to change your life, mindset, appearance, and self concept.

This is my version but i highly suggest you make your own

but you're free to use mine!

A year from now, your life will be completely different.

You will have your apartment, you will have the SP, you will look different, and you will be content; but you have to have discipline

I don't care if one person does it with me, but I don't like to gatekeep, and I love helping people.

Morning: The first thing you do when you wake up is tell yourself:

"I don't care about the old story; the old story can't hurt me; the old story is irrelevant and dead."

spend the next 10 mins doing your routine. you can affirm script just decide or swift your awareness to one topic of your choice.

you can do beauty, mindset, and self concept and then go about your day. if you feel like thinking about something just say

"I don't care about the old story; the old story can't hurt me; the old story is irrelevant and dead."

For money I want you to throw away everything you know about money and create your own opinions about money.

Tell yourself, "Money is so easy; money is never that serious."

Every time you look at your wallet or bank account, try not to get upset about what you see! The goal is to be content with what you have, but in the back of your mind, know that you can get endless amounts of money.

We are also not going to affirm for a certain amount of money. Just tell yourself that "I always receive money in my bank account."

When you affrim for a certain amount of money, you're going to be hyper-focused on the number.

Afternoon:

For self concept I want you to affirm " My mind is a friend to my body'

"I have the power to create the life I want." "I am becoming a better version of myself one day at a time."

Then take a break and go on with your day. I also want you to stop consuming information on Twitter and being online. Be anti-online and create a self-care routine. I suggest taking a 3-day break on Twitter and then come back; Twitter isn't going anywhere.

night time: i want you to sit in a quiet room and write down a goal list of your choice and either script, visualize, innner convos, and spend any hour doing it. think in the past tense and do not give the old story life.

for beauty affs :

"Every day I notice improvements in how I feel about myself."

"My attractiveness increases every single day."

"Everyone notices and appreciates my good looks."

and that's pretty much iit! the goal is to build a routine and stick with it. enjoy and give me updates. kisses xoxoxo.

𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏

Everything is an illusion. As simple as that. Nothing is real. Everything is just what you say it is and everyone is who you say they are. We all have our own realities which we are in control of and everyone has a different reality. I am who i say i am in my reality and you are whoever you say you are in yours. Through the power of a persisted in belief or assumption or maybe just a thought, i can manifest and make anything i want a reality and so can you.

Everything is just thought transmission. You simply pick something you want to make a reality, say and think as if it is your reality until your 3D (Your reality/life) pushes it out. And it does not matter who needs to move, speak, create an other action in order for this desire to become reality because nobody in your reality but you has free will so everything is controlled by you and your thoughts.

No one in your reality has free will because everything is you. Everything is your creation and nothing exists outside of you. Everyone in your reality is your assumptions, and the version of them you created. As in my reality everyone is who i've allowed them to be through my own beliefs and thoughts. No one can act upon free will in your reality, they can only think, speak, act through you, through your thoughts and the state your embodying.

And there's no escaping this, even if you are saying you are allowing the people around you to act with free will it's actually impossible to do so because at the end of the day your thoughts and beliefs are still creating the versions of everyone around you.

Hoodwink the law with this information, tell yourself everything you desire has become true because it will if you decide it to be. everything can switch with the snap of your fingers because the world is quite literally your oyster. Nothing can stop you, whatever you decide and constantly repeat to yourself in assumption will have your whole world shift to reflect what you have decided. So rig the game. Get what you deserve. Your desires are for the taking.

the way you manifest.

everybody has a different way of manifesting. some like to script, some like to affirm, and some like to just visualise their desires. however, some methods seem to work for some but don’t really work on others. why is that so?

the law of assumption.

now, the reason behind why everybody seems to have their own way of manifesting or why certain manifestation methods and techniques you cannot seem to be successful with can still ensure other people success is because of the LAW. once again, it's called the law of assumption — and it operates with BELIEF. what you assume or believe to be true, has to be true.

everything is an assumption.

in practice, this means that these methods and techniques seem to "function" well for some because they ASSUME that they will function well for them. on the contrary, the methods and techniques that you believe won’t help you manifest, eventually won’t help you. another example is that you might believe affirming might not work for you but works really good for others. the result: everyone can manifest with the use of affirmations except you.

no preassigned meaning.

it is important to not that with the law, nothing actually is the way it is and nothing is promised to remain the way it is… not unless you say otherwise. in this reality, things aren’t factual, forever or fixed. they don’t have any meaning attached to them. YOU give them meaning first.

the creator's rules.

if you know how the law works, you know that you can use it to your advantage. you can decide how you want to manifest by coming up with your own rules and correctly applying them. you can even influence the way a method or a technique will function for you. and not just methods and techniques! here are some examples for rules you could have:

rule one · i always manifest within 2 days.

rule two · manifesting is easy for me.

rule three · i can manifest even if i feel sad.

loopholes in manifesting.

now, what are loopholes in manifesting? a loophole is an ambiguity or inadequacy in the law or a set of rules, according to its official definition. in more simple words, they are subjective rules you have set up to simplify manifesting. you could almost say they are "cheat codes", coding the way you manifest.

you know, there are rules to manifesting. actually, there is only one: your assumptions create. for an assumption to manifest, you need to believe in it. now, i'm not saying you can’t have doubts, but there has to be at least a little belief in there, somewhere. now, see how i said "somewhere"? what i mean is that somewhere within the process of manifesting, there needs to be BELIEF.

1 · belief in assumption. you can believe in having your desire and manifest it.

2 · belief in method. you can believe that doing a method xyz times makes you manifest your desire.

3 · belief in self. you can believe that you always manifest your desires.

this is why many people who robotically affirm can manifest. they have the assumption that they either don’t need to believe their assumptions to manifest or that simply doing the method guarantees them their desire. other loopholes could be that only desirable thoughts of you manifest or that affirming once is enough for you.

the best way to manifest.

knowing all of this, it is clear to say one thing: there is no best or perfect way to manifest. technically, they are all the same. since manifesting is personal, it is your decision to decide which methods work for you or not, which techniques get you better or quicker results. and remember, all methods and techniques are all equally accessible to you. you don’t have to do anything beforehand. you don’t have to prove yourself to be worthy or deserving for a method to work for you. again, YOU are the creator.

manifesting is personal.

in conclusion, we all manifest similarly but still differently — and that’s alright! each one of us is an individual and the way we apply the law is personal. that being said, feel free to come up with your own rules! make the law work for you the way YOU would like it to and remain faithful to your rules. that way you can make manifesting a lot more easier.

with love, ella.