“Fuck You My Child Is Fine.” Your Child Is Emotionally Attached To Unstable Social Outcast Characters.

elliot smith and dostoyevsky kinda night

Gustave Caillebotte

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ME WHO JUST STARTED AND GETTING INTO THE SHERLOCK HOLMES: *cries*

Netflix rejects my entire 2014-2018 personality just like that.

one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

is it maturing when, you realize that Reva is not actually a bad character.

The clouds looking so beautiful 😍

Quatre Vases de chrysanthèmes, 1893, Gustave Caillebotte