parents are so crazy because they can say the most fucked up shit to you when your brain is forming and it sets the tone for your whole adult mind set and then they forget about it the next day
As long as you know your intentions are pure, never stress yourself about anything or anyone. You have to trust that you will always end up being where you’re meant to be and that it’s never your loss respectfully.
john james has this simple neutral color of his art, but it look so heavenly
the older i get, the more i need time & personal space to be as boring as possible
one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become
Your reality always reflects your mindset. If you believe that the Universe is working in your favor, you get matching circumstances. You get a harmonious reality. You start to achieve your goals with ease. You start attracting magical things.
sometimes I'm just nastasya filipovna because I'm born with this body, mind and soul. and i need a prince myshkin to love me beyond my flaws, my rotten body, my sins, and mistakes for being born this way.