Hard pill to swallow, maybe, but sometimes you are the problem. You may not have been initially, but people around you can only have so much endurance for understanding why you're "like that" and how you got to where you are now. Even if you were the one who was victimized, hurt, or abused to begin with, your behavior affects those around you. There's a point at which personal responsibility needs to kick in, or you will become toxic. You can become toxic even if you never become an abuser yourself. If other people are constantly having to help dig you out of the holes you made but you keep slapping their hands away, you cannot expect them to have an indefinite amount of patience and energy to keep trying. If you're not putting in the work to recover from what damaged you; if everyone else in your life is consistently the only one making a real effort to effect change for you--you're the problem.
Several of my ceramics pieces were accepted into my school's end of the year show, I'm so happy! What a wonderful end to a semester abroad.
Some happy hugs for a change
FLORENCE PUGH as YELENA BELOVA in THUNDERBOLTS* (2025)
Goro Takemura (aka I just started playing Cyberpunk and I have a new husbando)
Weird art is best art
a helpful flow chart for all aspiring game devs out there
They/Them, Biq Queer, Social Worker by day Artist by night, also doing witchy sh*it I post original art occasionally, and mostly reblog fandom stuff ✌🏻
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