How to Organize Your Book of Shadows/Grimoire
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A great recommendation on how to do so! Remember, though, this is only an opinion: always follow your intuition and include what feels right! There may be topics on this list that are not applicable to your practice and/or don't interest you, and that is okay. Each book of shadows/grimoire is unique item that should be personal to you and you alone.
Are you just starting a relationship with a deity? Or have you been working with a deity for a while, but feel as though you’re stuck in a rut? Or do you just want to take the time to research your deity a little bit more? Despite being called the “Newbie” Devotee Challenge, this challenge is perfect for both beginners and well-seasoned devotees! This challenge is perfect for helping you reflect on both your deity, and your practice.
Tag all posts with “newbie devotee challenge” so we can all see your hard work! And please reblog this post if you plan on doing this challenge!
Day 1: Name the deity you will be working with for the remainder of this challenge. Give a quick overview of your relationship with that deity.
Day 2: What initially drew you to that deity? (Did they call you? Did you call them? How did you discover their identity? Etc.)
Day 3: Does your deity have any alternate names or epithets? If they do, what are they, and what do they mean? What does the name you call your deity mean?
Day 4: What symbols/animals/plants/etc. are associated with your deity? Start out by listing the ones that you know. Then, do a little research to see if you can find more. In a separate list on the same post, list those ones, too. Make note of which ones you think fit and don’t fit your deity.
Day 5: Describe your favorite story/myth that involves your deity. Discuss why this one is your favorite, and if this story/myth somehow influences your practice.
Day 6: Describe your least favorite story/myth that involves your deity. Why is it your least favorite? (Is it because it shows a different aspect of your deity that you don’t see often?) Try to turn that negative into a positive, and use this as a learning experience.
Day 7: Discuss your UPG for your deity. What inspired those UPG? Afterwards, do a little research and try to find other popular UPG. Do you agree or disagree with that UPG, and why?
Day 8: Describe what you have placed on your altar for this deity. If you don’t have an altar yet, discuss what you would put on the altar if you had one. Is there anything “missing” on your altar/are there items you wish you could add? What are they, and why do you want to add them?
Day 9: Discuss your daily/weekly/monthly/etc. worship “schedule.” What do you do for your deity? What offerings do you give? How often do you pray? And so on. Are you happy with how much/little time you give your deity? If not, what could you do to change that?
Day 10: What method(s) do you usually use to contact your deity? (Tarot, godphone, etc.) Why do you like using that method?
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Low Effort Magic 🌙
I have a hard time doing something that involves magic every day, even though I've been on this path for quite some time.
Practicing magic a lot is by no means mandatory but it does help (in my opinion) to get better at it and it just helps with everyday problems. So here are some low effort activities you can do everyday that will hopefully help those of you with similar problems!
Write words like "protection", "healing" or whatever you want into your drink with a straw or spoon before you drink it. Or draw sigils in it.
If you feel super exhausted for no apparent reason, open a window and scream or, if you like it, put on some angry punk or metal music to banish whatever is feeding on your energy. While you're doing that, keep in mind that you want to banish. Otherwise you're just playing angry music. Yelling "Fuck off" also does the trick.
When you eat or drink something, try to pinpoint at least one magical property of each ingredient in your drink/food. It can also be one that has no historical evidence but is personal to you. That will help keep you in the magic mindset and also helps you to get all if that info into your long-term memory.
Open the window, stand in front of it and breathe in the air deeply with your eyes closed while you remind yourself that tge wind is part of nature and that you're connected to it. It doesn't have to be a half hour meditation, 5 seconds get the job done as well.
Offer everyday activities to your deities. For example: cooking for Hestia, standing up for yourself for Loki, practicing magic or **self care time** for Freyja, disposing of trash the correct way to your local nature spirits, etc
Take a shower or a bath, or just wash your face or brush your teeth with the intent of cleansing yourself from all that negative energy that has built up over the day.
That's all for this time. If you like it I'll do another one. :)
Tips for Witchcraft in the Dorm
If you're in a situation where you have a roommate that may not be open to your craft, you're in the broom closet and being in college makes it even harder to practice, you're starting your witch journey while in college, you couldn't take a full sized altar to school, or you're like me and attend a private Christian college (ugh) that makes you feel the need to be discreet, this post is for you!
If you have an altar: Find a way to downsize your altar. For some this isn't a huge thing, but I'm the kind of gal that liked to go all out with my space. The best way to do it is to find a box or container that can be moved easily and has all your essentials, and only take what can fit. If you can't fit certain tools, it's best to find substitutions. A small bowl that can hold water will work just as well as a crystal ball. Putting herbs in bags will allow more room than jars.
Alternative to candle magic: I know the urge to put tape over that fire alarm is real but I'm unfortunately a goody two shoes. Luckily wax burners exist and you can get all the fun of candle magic minus the flame. I like to draw sigils into my wax before melting it for spellwork; and you can get all sorts of different colored wax. If you need unscented wax, you can buy white wax and dye it.
Some discreet types of magic to look into:
Tea. Tea. Tea. I cannot stress how useful tea magic is. There's loads of information about it right here on Tumblr! Most dorms allow ectric teapots and tea is easy to store.
Knot magic. Here's a great post about it. Absolutely any kind of spell can be done with a knot and it's super easy to implement into everyday activities.
Moon magic. Guys, the moon is awesome. Work with it. Moon water is a great manifestation tool and corresponding anything with the moon phases is an instant boost. It's also free and super easy.
Sigils. Really fun to learn and really easy to draw in a couple journals, on a foggy window, in your tea as you stir it, or on your skin. I recommend Pinterest if you're trying to find tutorials.
Runes. I like to cast physical runes but there's lots of ways to use these in everyday magic. Each symbol has their own meaning and there's an abundance of information on them. Similar to sigils, I like to draw them on things.
Extra tips:
Learn the correspondences for each day of the week. Doing little things for each day will keep you connected to your craft as you get through college.
Anything can be a chalice. Cleanse that cup and you're good to go.
Astrology is your friend.
I'm here for you. College is hard. Dorming can be a pain too.
I hope this helps someone. Reblog if you can. Love you all!
How to pray to the chthonic gods 🪦 🌒
Position
When praying to underworld deities, we should direct our prayers downwards. An example of this is seen in the ninth scroll of the Iliad when Althaea prays to Haides and dread Persephone by kneeling and beating her hands on the ground. Whereas women wore their hair up or covered for ouranic rituals, they wore their hair down in chthonic rituals. The prayer should be murmured.
Offerings
Chthonic Theoi received special nighttime offerings of black animals, unmixed wine and special libations of milk and honey. Animal sacrifice was always done in a holókaustos--a sacrifice where the entire animal was burned and none of the meat was saved for human consumptions.
Homer in the Odyssey writes Circe advising Odysseus how to perform a libation to the dead:
"Draw near then, as I bid you, hero, and dig a trench two feet square, then pour a libation all around to the dead, first of milk and honey, then of sweet wine, thirdly of water, sprinkled with white barley meal."
Prayer format
The format is the same as when praying to any other theoi: Invoke the god, introduce yourself, make an argument as to why they should listen to you, and make a request .
Who are the underworld deities?
- Haides, King of the underworld
- Persephone, Queen of the underworld
- Hecate, Goddess of magic
- Thanatos, God of death
- Hermes Athanatus Diactorus, the chtonic aspect of Hermes in which he guides souls to the underworld
- Nyx, primordial Goddess of the night
- Hypnos, God of sleep
- Charon, ferryman of the dead
- Cerberus, guardian of the underworld
- The Furies, goddesses of vengeance and retribution
Sources:
- http://hadesandtheafterlife.weebly.com/respecting-hades.html
- http://baringtheaegis.blogspot.com/2015/03/how-to-pray-to-khthonic-gods.html?m=1
- https://homericist.tumblr.com/post/677291374969815040/there-are-three-main-parts-to-prayer-in-ancient
Fool: what is something new you are doing or want to do?
Magician: what is a magical way to enhance my day? Or, how can I be more like the magician?
High Priestess: what are my thoughts on divination? What about intuition?
Empress: what part of myself do I want to grow/nurture?
Emperor: what part of my life needs me to take authority? How can I?
High Priest: what are my personal traditions? How is my spirituality unique to me?
Lovers: what relationships mean the most to me?
Chariot: what part of my life needs me to be more combative/ warrior-like?
Strength: what part of my life should I face with courage?
Hermit: what do I need to do alone more often? What do I need to do with others more often?
Wheel of Fortune: what do I think about luck, fate, and/or fortune?
Justice: when do I need to focus on legality vs fairness? Or, What may cause me to seek justice/retribution?
Hanged Man: what have/will I sacrifice for -x-? What am I never willing to sacrifice? What will I easily give up?
Death: what is something personal I want to end or change? What is something that will end or change no matter how I feel? How can I accept it?
Temperence: what part of my life needs more patience? What part needs more balance? How can I achieve both?
Devil: what is a primal desire I have? Should I grant it to myself? Why or why not? How can I get what I want?
Tower: what can I learn from the current or recent chaos/disaster in my life?
Star: what do I hope for? How can I get it?
Moon: what part of my life is best kept private? Why?
Sun: what makes me happy?
Jusgement: what part of me needs reflection? What is a fair assessment of that part?
World: what parts of my life have been fulfilled? What parts are still lacking?
I enjoy journaling. It’s almost like therapy, but you’re figuring it out by yourself. You’re trying to figure out your own issues by putting it on paper, sometimes it’s for self reflecting or for figuring yourself out. This is very similar to shadow work.
What is shadow work?
Shadow work is addressing your shadow self, the side of you that you bury deep down and avoid. It’s your unconscious mind, and it is important to uncover this side of you in order to achieve your highest self. There are multiple ways to do this, but the most known (and most effective in my opinion), is journaling. I thought I should share 100 prompts that really make you think.
1. What was one time you remember feeling wronged as a child? How did you react? Has this affected you into adulthood? How?
2. Think about one time where you’ve felt betrayed. What would you say to the person who broke your trust?
3. Write about a time you felt let down by someone you’d previously looked up to.
4. What’s one trait you see in other people that you wish you had. Why do you not possess this characteristic yourself?
5. Do you often find yourself over-thinking what you’ve said or how you’ve acted? What usually triggers this?
6. What were your parents’/guardians’ core values while you were growing up? Do you hold these today or do they differ? How so?
7. What are your core values as a human being? What’s the most important to you? What are you morally passionate about?
8. What tends to trigger envy for you? Why do you think this is?
9. What are the first signs that your mental health is dipping?
10. When are you hardest on yourself? Why? Where do you think this stems for? Why do you put yourself under so much pressure? Why are you so reluctant to be kind to yourself?
11. How do you react when you’re angry? Is this similar to other people who have been in your life since childhood? Why do you think this is?
12. What triggers you? Can you identify where this came from?
13. How do you perceive failure? What is your definition of failure? How does it make you feel? Are you afraid of it? Why might this be? How did your parents/guardians react to failure?
14. What situations make you feel less than or not good enough? Why do you think this is?
15. What is your relationship with your parents and/or siblings like? How was it as a child compared to now? Why do you think this is?
16. What parts of your parents/guardians growing up do you see in yourself now? When did these begin to become apparent?
17. What toxic traits have you recognised in your parents? How did it make you feel when you realized that your parents weren’t perfect? Do you also possess these traits yourself?
18. What are your toxic traits? How do these present themselves? How do you project these onto others?
19. What aspects of yourself would you like to improve? Why? Has anyone in your past ever made comments suggesting that you should? If so, how did this make you feel?
20. How do you feel about who you are as a human? Why?
21. How often do you forgive yourself? What kind of things do you feel you need to be forgiven for? Why is this?
22. Write about a time where you messed up and needed forgiveness. Did you ask to be forgiven? Did you apologize? How did it play out?
23. Do you form obsessive or unhealthy attachments easily? Why do you think this might be; do you have a fear of change/abandonment/rejection? Or, on the other hand, do you find it difficult to form emotional attachments; do you struggle with commitment or get restless staying in one place for a certain amount of time? Where do you think this stems from?
24. How do you fill your time when bored? What gives you enjoyment? What self-care do you regularly practise?
25. What negative emotions do you tend to avoid? Why might this be?
26. What negative emotions do you actually feel quite comfortable sitting with? Why might this be?
27. Write about one person you’ve never forgiven. What happened and why did you not forgive them? Was it warranted? How has this event affected you going forward? Do you think you could forgive them now? How did you move on from this?
28. How do you carry the weight of your past trauma? How has it affected you?
29. How did you process emotions as a child, teenager, and young adult? How do you process negative emotions now? Has this changed over time?
30. How do you enforce boundaries? How do you feel when people overstep them? How do you react?
31. What is the biggest lie you consistently tell yourself? Why?
32. What misconceptions have you noticed about your harbor? Can you think about where these started?
33. What are your preconceptions about femininity? Why do you think this is? Where did they come from?
34. What are your preconceptions towards masculinity? Where did these come from?
35. What does the term ‘Shadow Work’ mean to you?
36. What are three main goals you want to achieve with your shadow work?
37. Did you have any heroes growing up? Who did you look up to and why?
38. How were you taught to deal with emotions as a child?
39. How do you deal with negative emotions now?
40. What’s the most hurtful thing you’ve ever done to someone else?
41. What’s the most hurtful thing you’ve done to yourself?
42. How have you moved forward from hurting someone else?
43. How do you plan to move forward after hurting yourself?
44. What’s the biggest promise to you that someone else has broken? How did it make you feel? Why?
45. What’s the biggest promise you’ve broken to yourself? Why? How do you feel about that?
46. Have you ever broken a promise to someone else? Why?
47. When you really think about it, is there any area of your life you’re in denial about?
48. What do you constantly lie to yourself about?
49. What do you lie to other people about? Why?
50. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told and why?
51. Have you ever had your heart broken? Write about this time in your life.
52. Have you ever broken someone else’s heart? Was it unintentional or intentional? Write about this.
53. Do you ever find yourself manipulating people in an attempt to protect yourself?
54. What’s a question you had as a child that you never got a real answer to? Do you have that answer now?
55. What is something that you’ve always wanted to confront someone about? Why haven’t you? Do you plan to? Why?
56. What is the meaning of life to you?
57. What was the last argument you had about? Was it resolved?
58. How do you feel about confrontation? Why do you think this is?
59. Do you ever have physical reactions to emotional feelings? Write about these. Why do you think this happens?
60. What’s your favorite way to self-soothe? Describe your perfect self-care day.
61. What family patterns am I repeating?
62. When was the last time I truly felt at peace? Where was I? Who was surrounding me?
63. In what situations do I feel less than others, equal to others, or better than others? Why do I feel that way?
64. How do I define failure?
65. What has been my biggest personal failure and why?
66. When was the last time I felt jealous of someone else? What do they have that I want?
67. What is your ultimate dream? Are you currently living your dream? What steps can you take to make it happen?
68. What is your favorite book of all time and why? Movie?
69. Are you doing what you love for a living? What is your dream job?
70. Make a list of 10 things that make you smile.
71. What do you wish you could do everyday?
72. Write down your own bucket list.
73. Write about someone who inspires you.
74. What’s an embarrassing moment you can look back on and laugh now?
75. List 10 of your favorite things, can be anything.
76. Write down your top 10 travel destinations.
77. How do you spend your time alone?
78. What are you the most grateful for in your life?
79. Do you care what other people think of you? why?
80. What excites you about the future?
81. What are some new hobbies you would like to try?
82. How do you want to be remembered?
83. What do you want to accomplish today and tomorrow?
84. What is your favorite song and why?
85. What motivates you?
86. What are your top priorities in life?
87. What are 5 physical features that you love about yourself?
88. What gift do you think you were born with?
89. What holiday or event do you look forward to every year?
90. How would you describe yourself to a stranger?
91. What life lessons have books taught you?
92. Which fictional character would you most like to be, why?
93. What is your favorite place?
94. Is there anything that has changed your outlook on life?
95. Can you keep a secret?
96. How would you change the world?
97. Are you good at organizing your time?
98. What would you do if you could travel into the past?
99. Where in your life do you need to be more fearless?
100.What would you change about your high school experience?
Put the gorgoneion (gorgon’s head) on your grimoires, books, desks, altars, shrines, doorways, etc. You may sculpt one or simply draw one to seek protection. The Gorgon’s gaze will keep away negative spirits and dangers that seek to harm you.
Updated 8 January 2022
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Some fun and totally harmless ways to worship some of the gods!
Zeus:
Climb a tree and screech like an eagle
Throw a stick at someone you hate
Drink milk from the gallon you coward
Hera:
Point out how your life is going better than that nosy aunt's marriage
Wear ridiculously vibrant dresses and thick eyeliner and only speak in peacock
Make fun of the neighborhood Karen
Poseidon:
Make someone step in water with socks on
Step in water with socks on
There are many benefits to being a marine biologist
Æügh
Hades:
It's time you went through an emo phase
Train your local dogs to bark at the neighborhood Karen
Lose your 50/50 to Qiqi
Hestia:
Cosplay as Guoba
Arson
Eat your teacher's apple, it's probably plastic but eat it anyway
Demeter:
Stalk the vegan teacher
Stalk vegan booty
Learn about the chemical properties of green onions
Athena:
Make Kokomi crit
Arson (2)
Spend money on Ovid's book. Then burn it.
Ares:
Arson (3)
Learn about the properties and history of battle axes
Make Kokomi crit (2)
Artemis:
Buy a shirt saying "MILF, Man I Love Fishing"
Cosplay the Lorax
Become the Lorax
Apollo:
Learn how to use a shotgun, though you probably already know that if you're a white American
Make friends with crows
Become a crow
Hephaestus:
Socialise
Learn how to build a tank
Build a tank
Aphrodite:
Shove sea water down Karen's throat
Be gay do crime
Arson (4)
Dionysus:
Be gay do crime (2)
Get drunk on vodka
Blast Cult of Dionysus on four big speakers at the middle of the night
Hermes:
Commit tax fraud
Commit theft
Be gay do crime (3)
Helios:
Chug a questionable amount of monster down
Stare directly into the sun
Arson (5)
Selene:
Be gay do crime (4)
Sing Bohemian Rhapsody at the top of your lungs every full moon at the middle of the night
So the fandango
Hecate:
Arson (6)
Adopt a dog despite your parents saying no
Adopt a weasel
I need everyone to read how Socrates described the etymology of Hades’ name. This is, in my opinion, one of the most beautiful descriptions of the God in antiquity