One Thing I Really Like About My Relationship With My Boyfriend Is That We Can Express Negative Feelings

one thing I really like about my relationship with my boyfriend is that we can express negative feelings about each other's actions without assigning blame or requiring apology. I mean like for morally neutral things like "it drives me crazy when you leave a wet towel on the floor instead of hanging it up"

cause now like instead of "oh I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to drive you crazy, I'm terrible and unsocialized" or "um well that's dumb, who cares" it's like

"it does? I didn't know that. how come?"

"because it will mildew and I keep tripping over it and I don't know whether you intend to reuse that towel or whether it needs to go in the wash"

"okay so usually if I intend to reuse it I hang it up, and if it needs to go in the wash I drop it on the floor. I guess because I thought I shouldn't put it in the hamper because it would get all the other dirty clothes wet and then THEY might mildew before we do the laundry."

"that's valid. what if we have a specific place to hang wet towels that need to be washed? how about this one hook here"

"perfect!"

no hurt feelings, nobody being made to feel shitty and sloppy on one hand or uptight and bitchy in the other hand. just, we're partners right? let's workshop this

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5 months ago

I love you so much, Kei, my dear friend. I wish you all the best. Our cult needs you. (Cult of the Lamb)

Tenma from memory.

I Love You So Much, Kei, My Dear Friend. I Wish You All The Best. Our Cult Needs You. (Cult Of The Lamb)

ignore how my legs tensed up and vibrated im extremely nornal about this man. thank you for the gift! i will be thrre for our cult shortly.

I Love You So Much, Kei, My Dear Friend. I Wish You All The Best. Our Cult Needs You. (Cult Of The Lamb)

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7 months ago

It's not normal to send people death threats over fiction 👍

If you're so bothered by a piece of fiction maybe you should go to a therapist and talk about why it bothers you

Not send death threats

Authors and artists are real people, not machines for you to abuse


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5 months ago

I’ve noticed that at the beginning of the genocide, people were more focused on donating and spreading the news compared to now.

Now, everyone in Gaza who once had money has run out of it.

Now, after more than 450 days of war...

Now, after everyone in Gaza has lost many relatives and friends...

After all the calamities that have befallen the people of Gaza, people are starting to lose interest, and donations have decreased.

Winter for them is harsher than last year. At least last year they had winter clothes. This year, they’ve lost them due to constant displacement.

All eyes on Gaza, speak up about them.

You can donate to Islam through this link or that link.

Islam has only received $15 this week.

@a-shade-of-blue @90-ghost @rainy-fog @northgazaupdates2 @genericusername37 @beefbologna @cipher-of-the-round-table @lonniemachin @something-writing @goth-claudia @paandaan @nerdytextileartist @lgbtiqrefugeesblog @fearfylsymmetry @soopertiddies @inthecornerofyourbedroom @aurorae-return @depressedthembo @moronicprincess @the-mold-under-your-bed123 @nyenye @linz-creations @koschei-the-ginger @koscheiy @cyclopsboxhead @flowerkith @mbookcovers @sweet-honey-bunnies @dorawnfredread @mysticfandeer @anarchafemme @junipersramblings @palhelp @erectiledisfigurement @vague-humanoid @plomegranate @rainbowywitch @chronicsheepdeprivation @danielladadasworld @win-rrar @shizukateal @sweetsweethate @hexxling @heydreamchild @knavewoods @katherine-isabella @variouscontent @appsa @just-a-small-town-queer @beefbologna @crowlore @genericusername37 @seasonofprophecy @stuffandthangs @irregularbillcipher @torajira @alarming-frequency @an-elegant-void @an-alarming-number-of-bees @neechees @butchniqabi @fluoresensitive @khanger @autisticmudkip @beserkerjewel @furiousfinnstan @xinakwans @batekush @appsa @nerdyqueerr @butchsunsetshimmer @biconicfebfem @stopmotionguy @willgrahamscock @strangeauthor @bryoria @shesnake @legallybrunettedotcom @ree-duh @neptunerings @explosionshark @dlxxv-vetted-donations

@vague-humanoid @buttercuparry @malcriada @sar-soor

@northgazaupdates2 @feluka @dirhwangdaseul @jdon @ibtisams @sawasawako @memingursa


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5 months ago
In School Mode, Sakura Says She Wants To Put An End To Her Attraction To Him, Insinuating She Will Instead

In school mode, Sakura says she wants to put an end to her attraction to him, insinuating she will instead want to date Naegi. The argument that she can't be with Aoi (or any character that isn't Kenshiro, for that matter) loses weight here. Clearly, she isn't dating him as admitted here OR knows she can not be with him forever and she fully has the potential to move on.

“You shouldn’t ship Sakura with Aoi because Sakura canonically has a boyfriend!”

1. Sakura and Kenshiro have mutual interest in each other, that doesn’t mean they are dating. Kenshiro is never referred to as Sakura’s boyfriend.

2. Kenshiro is literally dying, it’s completely understandable that Sakura moves on and is able to fall in love again. Even if he wasn’t, Hope’s Peak has changed Sakura and she’s discovered new parts of herself.

3. I can ship whatever I want. #Sakuraoi4ever


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3 months ago

Not “Only my reading of canon is correct” or “Interpretations are subjective and all valid” but a secret third thing, “More than one interpretation can be valid but there’s a reason your English teacher had you cite quotes and examples in your papers, you have to have a strong argument that your interpretation is actually supported by the text or it is just wrong and I’m fine with telling you it’s wrong, actually.”


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4 months ago
Thanks, Cere. I Got Really Excited When I Saw This.

Thanks, Cere. I got really excited when I saw this.


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3 months ago

You're absolutely right about that person using AI btw, they're probably young but it's frustrating af to see that piece get high praise despite all the obvious AI tells

Yeah, I was hesitant to say anything at first, but then I saw the hand (which, as said, has two knuckles blending into one finger...something like that is almost always a tell for ai) I don't even know why they're using ai and passing it off as their art when they clearly can draw (they've posted traditional art). I hope one day they just post their own art, I'm sure it'd do fine on tumblr...


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2 months ago

Last Song - Bat Country by Avenged Sevenfold.

Last TV Show - The last show I watched willingly was probably an episode of DanDaDan.

Last Book - Probably a book about Hanzi?

Last Movie - I haven't watched a movie in a while. The last one I watched may have been Halloween Kills.

Favorite Color - Orange.

Sweet/Savory/Spicy - Out of these, I like sweet things most, but savory can be good. Salty is my real favorite.

Relationship Status - Single.

Last Google - GameCube. I was looking for a photo of a GameCube controller because of a conversation I was having.

Current Obsession - Guilty Gear.

Looking Forward To - Receiving a controller that hopefully works and I don't have trouble with. Fingers crossed.

@murmurmurl @krumbkkyu + anyone who may want to join.

10 things for 10 people you'd like to know better

I was tagged by @lampambivalence. heheheh. now i have friends on tumblr who will tag me in ask games. heheheh. hehehehehhh.

Last song - For Elise by Saint Motel (its on my discover weekly!)

Last TV show - Love is Blind s7, my partner n I LOVE that shit.

Last book - Sorcery and Small Magics by Maiga Doocy. Haven't finished it yet but I like it a lot

Last Movie- Companion. Good Movie. :3

Favourite colour - porple. Fave is lavender yes im basic i know.

Sweet/savoury/spicy - savory but it must have spice to it yummee

Relationship status - Taken! We celebrated 3 years in March <3

Last google - "miitopia black hair" (wanted to make my dnd character. he has dreads. miitopia fucking sucks.)

Current obsession - oh. uh. definitely not british youtubers dan and phil. no. nope. uh. dont look at me. (also its always pokemon 24/7)

Looking forward to - moving in with my partner and living with them for the first time <3 2 weeksssss

I am tagging @mars-ipan @local-space-gay @stellamity @hannihilatorr (and anybody else who would like to participate pls just go for it) (no pressure to play @ those i tagged)


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5 months ago

Can you draw Korekiyo for me.... sorry, I am very V3 (and specifically Korekiyo) brained currently...Or Miu...

Can You Draw Korekiyo For Me.... Sorry, I Am Very V3 (and Specifically Korekiyo) Brained Currently...Or

never apologize for liking v3 itsfun and nice and u should always have fun


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