It's Like We All Collectively Forgot As A Society That Friendship And Just Connection In General Takes

It's like we all collectively forgot as a society that friendship and just connection in general takes effort. Even if you meet someone you immediately click with, it takes hanging out about 20 times (!) to become friends. And guess what, some of those 20 meetings might be awkward or unimpressive.

We all want to reap the benefits (having a friend circle, having a partner, getting married) without doing the work (going to events, interacting with people, learning to handle conflict maturely, dating). Myself included. If I could, I'd never leave the house or go on another mediocre date again... except, that's part of the process.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, the cure to the loneliness epidemic is touching some grass and building tolerance for tedious in-person interactions.

More Posts from Obituaryobliterater and Others

2 months ago

“this fic was written by AI”

“this Fic Was Written By AI”
1 year ago

I wish I was less obsessed with this but like I need 1000+ fanfics and art pieces.

DEAD GIRL DETECTIVES ⁉️

DEAD GIRL DETECTIVES ⁉️

Their names r charlie and edith btw im obsessed with them

1 month ago

i love when ppl say “that’s so you” it feels good to know i exist and have a vibe

1 year ago
For Those Not In The Know, This Is One Of The Amanita Mushrooms Referred To As A Destroying Angel. Never,

For those not in the know, this is one of the Amanita mushrooms referred to as a Destroying Angel. Never, ever, ever, ever forage with an app. Especially for mushrooms.

2 months ago
Another Meme I Had To Make About Dead Boy Detectives

Another meme I had to make about dead boy detectives

4 months ago

But let things go. You have one life, it no use to torture yourself forever

bitch this is all you’re gonna get. this life, this face, this body. you better not ‘maybe in another universe’ your way out of everything. sit your ass down and face this. go make tea and have a picnic and read a goddamn book. kiss your loved ones, send that damn text, and hug your siblings. this is all you’re gonna get.

3 months ago

harrowhark nonagesimus is the character of all time. she weighs 6 stone soaking wet. she doesn’t sleep. she’s 200 dead babies. she puppets her dead mum and dad. she’s a nun. she’s in love with a frozen corpse. she gets a headache when people talk about sex. she wants to die. her bodyguard is in love with her. her weird colleague is in love with her. she gave herself a lobotomy. she’s being piloted by the soul of the planet earth. she loves bones. she wants to live. she makes soup. she watched god have a threesome. she looks like a ferret. this is all canon

1 month ago

a non-exhaustive list of butch literature

a (very ad-hoc) list of butch reading and writing, (mostly) by butch authors. books I've read myself in bold; take the rest with a grain of salt. additions, addendums, and commentary welcome :)

(you can find my list of femme literature here)

general/literary fiction:

mrs s by k patrick

stone butch blues by leslie feinberg

boulder by eva baltasar

running fiercely towards a thin high sounds by judith katz

tipping the velvet by sarah waters

a crystal diary by frankie hucklenbroich

godspeed by lynn breedlove

cha-ching! by ali liebegott

the ihop papers by ali liebegott

greasepaint by hannah levene

lucy and mickey by red jordan arobateau

the bull-jean stories by sharon bridgforth

development by bryher

notes of a crocodile by qiu miaojin

america is not the heart by elaine castillo

the slow fix by ivan coyote

the swashbuckler by lee lynch

old dyke tales by lee lynch

sci-fi, fantasy, and horror:

gideon the ninth by tamsyn muir

the unspoken name by ak larkwood

vermilion by molly tanzer

metal from heaven by august clarke

scapegracers by ha clarke

the unbroken by cl clarke

fire logic by laurie marks

the seep by chana porter

these burning stars by bethany jacobs

feast while you can by mikaella clements and onjuli datta

non-fiction, memoir, and autobiography:

hijab butch blues by lamya h

gender failure by ivan coyote and rae spoon

fun home by allison bechdel

butch is a noun by h bear bergman

female masculinity by jack halberstam

burning butch by rb murtz

when we were outlaws by jeanne cordova

leaving isn't the hardest thing by lauren hough

odd girls and twilight lovers by lillian faderman

another mother tongue by judy grahn

boots of leather, slippers of gold by elizabeth lapovsky and madeline davis

the persistent desire ed joan nestle

persistence: all way butch and femme ed ivan coyote and zena sharman

dagger: on butch women ed lily burana

1 year ago

i need to steal charles rowland’s gender like i need air to breathe. not even joking. i need it so bad.

I Need To Steal Charles Rowland’s Gender Like I Need Air To Breathe. Not Even Joking. I Need It So
  • localbutchcyborg
    localbutchcyborg liked this · 1 month ago
  • anxious-piece-of-bread
    anxious-piece-of-bread liked this · 1 month ago
  • hornedmart3n
    hornedmart3n liked this · 1 month ago
  • fucko9000
    fucko9000 liked this · 1 month ago
  • platedhart
    platedhart liked this · 1 month ago
  • xexpaguette
    xexpaguette reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • wondering-oak
    wondering-oak liked this · 1 month ago
  • stilltender
    stilltender reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • troopingfairy
    troopingfairy reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • knifeyrat
    knifeyrat liked this · 1 month ago
  • moooggy
    moooggy liked this · 1 month ago
  • thedusterrr
    thedusterrr reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • thedusterrr
    thedusterrr liked this · 1 month ago
  • kenchi-konch
    kenchi-konch liked this · 1 month ago
  • squisim
    squisim liked this · 1 month ago
  • forestdwellingwolf
    forestdwellingwolf liked this · 1 month ago
  • cybertransgal
    cybertransgal liked this · 1 month ago
  • dyk3pr1ncess
    dyk3pr1ncess reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dyk3pr1ncess
    dyk3pr1ncess liked this · 1 month ago
  • ghostghoulkas
    ghostghoulkas reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • barbaralimao
    barbaralimao liked this · 1 month ago
  • waitingxunderground
    waitingxunderground liked this · 1 month ago
  • goblinenergy
    goblinenergy liked this · 1 month ago
  • pearldiver09
    pearldiver09 liked this · 1 month ago
  • hvit-fjaer
    hvit-fjaer liked this · 1 month ago
  • simplytemonade
    simplytemonade reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • bellascarousel
    bellascarousel reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • bellascarousel
    bellascarousel liked this · 1 month ago
  • silicon-lullabies
    silicon-lullabies liked this · 1 month ago
  • guavajagular
    guavajagular liked this · 1 month ago
  • himluv
    himluv liked this · 1 month ago
  • un0riginaluser
    un0riginaluser reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • un0riginaluser
    un0riginaluser liked this · 1 month ago
  • mslanna
    mslanna reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dangerousprincedonut
    dangerousprincedonut liked this · 1 month ago
  • incompetentmedic
    incompetentmedic liked this · 1 month ago
  • askanaroace
    askanaroace reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • tolerance69
    tolerance69 liked this · 1 month ago
  • givesyouapieceofimaginarycake
    givesyouapieceofimaginarycake reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • crankyfacedknitter
    crankyfacedknitter reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • sanzako
    sanzako liked this · 1 month ago
  • albi-mander
    albi-mander liked this · 1 month ago
  • littrallobsessions
    littrallobsessions reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • mavratt
    mavratt liked this · 1 month ago
  • lightfulonion
    lightfulonion reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • rangerofthesouth
    rangerofthesouth liked this · 1 month ago
  • its-fjori
    its-fjori liked this · 1 month ago
  • edelfliss
    edelfliss liked this · 1 month ago
  • st0r-fruit
    st0r-fruit reblogged this · 1 month ago

They/Them 2004 🫀🌈 Butch

177 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags