Quick Protip: If Someone Is Crying Or Freaking Out Over Something Minor, Eg Wifi Not Connecting, Can’t

quick protip: if someone is crying or freaking out over something minor, eg wifi not connecting, can’t find their hat, people talking too loud, do NOT tell them how small or petty the problem is to make it better. they know. they would probably love to calm down. you are doing the furthest possible thing from helping. people don’t have to earn expressions of feelings.

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11 months ago

I've seen a few of these polls around before but the way they're phrased has always irked me, so

+ feel no need to specify how you voted in the tags or replies, I'm just curious about overall trends on here

+ this is specifically about how you engage in actual sex, not fantasies, fiction, masturbation, etc

+ having said that, define sex vs eroticized physical intimacy however you want, I'm not about to try and define sex and turn everyone in my notes into kinky diogenes

+ everyone be real niceys or you get instablocked. if this post suddenly becomes unrebloggable it's probably because people were not being real niceys.

3 months ago

It’s weird that we keep trying to armchair diagnose asshole behaviour with mental health labels and in doing so throw people with mental health conditions under the asshole bus when we could just call a guy an asshole and leave it at that

It just seems far more straightforward, you know

9 months ago

Your parents are not "narcissists". They're typical authoritarian assholes who treat you like their property because society allows them to.

Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.

Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.

And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.

So stop blaming mental illness and start blaming society's normalization of abuse. Stop acting like someone has to have a mental illness in order to do something cruel when ordinary people have been doing atrocious things since forever.

11 months ago

2/3 of the Vees | Breakfast AU (Part 4)

Having a mental breakdown listening to their friend scream for 2 days gay

2/3 Of The Vees | Breakfast AU (Part 4)

Previous part

|1| - |2| - |3| - |4| (you're here) - |5| - |6| - |7|

They can't hide from it, they can't do anything. Vox is rethinking everything he knows about Alastor. He can't think of that silly deer guy with stupid radio voice and this monster who right now torturing his friend as one person. This isn't Alastor this is The Radio Demon and Vox just fails to accept that this is the same personperson. Because Vox wasn't around when Alastor used to kill overlords.

Valentino tries to drink himself to death to stop this nightmare at least for himself. Anyway fuck this guy, I'm not sorry for him

Drawing them kinda fun you know, i like their design

1 year ago

I wonder if when vox sleeps his dreams play across his face?

I Wonder If When Vox Sleeps His Dreams Play Across His Face?

You mean like this?


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6 months ago
*through Tears* Ladies And Gentlemen, They Got Him
*through Tears* Ladies And Gentlemen, They Got Him
*through Tears* Ladies And Gentlemen, They Got Him
*through Tears* Ladies And Gentlemen, They Got Him
*through Tears* Ladies And Gentlemen, They Got Him

*through tears* ladies and gentlemen, they got him

9 months ago
Some Sketches Of Vox’s Life After He Lost Everything, As He Tries To Get His Life Back Together (and

Some sketches of Vox’s life after he lost everything, as he tries to get his life back together (and eventually his fellow Vees)

The sorta context is here ~


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3 months ago

You're not immune to being the bully btw. You're not immune to being in the wrong

3 months ago
❌do Not Reupload❌

❌do not reupload❌

I don't break hearts, no that's not me

I don't break hearts-

I d e s t r o y them 🩷💔🩷

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