as a fujoshi understander, as some of you may know, i have an answer for this. it’s because traditional yaoi isn’t about gay people or gay culture, really. i do not subscribe to the notion that they generally fetishize gay people. i believe this is a grave misunderstanding. traditional yaoi is an experiment involving the removal of the female victim from the sexual regime of heterosexuality, so that women feel more comfortable eroticizing said regime. they are negotiating their place in a patriarchal sexual culture. if they can be accused of “fetishizing” anything, it is heterosexuality. if you find heterosexual norms hot, then yes, homophobia is compatible with that desire. they’re putting two men in a heterosexual relationship. they’re creating a fantasy where men are sexually subordinate to the oppressors of women, and the limitations of said regime remain intact. it is both subversive and regressive.
can these handmaidens at least try to be a little less like men
Meanwhile most men have skid marks in their underwear
I hate the weird smell insecurity (idk what else to call it) that's being pushed on women rn. All of the whole body deodorants that are being advertised, the videos about """female hygiene"""", how you need to smell good down there, and "how to smell like a SNACK 😍 all day long". Perfumes, body mists and scented lotions are a huge deal rn, which says to me that companies have found yet another way to make women overly self-aware and paranoid about how they are perceived, as well as a new way to exploit them consistently for money. It never ends, the creativity is insane. If its not one thing its another.
Trans men will always be a female ❤️ trans women will always be male ❤️ there you go
“You will never be a woman” lmao it’s nice to be affirmed as a trans man. Transphobia failed successfully
If you identify as female, why are you taking the perspective of a male?
random 2000s lesbians on abandoned 16 year old flickr account you mean absolutely fucking everything to me
A woman on tiktok makes a video about how b*tch is a slur:
the comments:
It’s clear you struggle with it.
“You will never be a woman” lmao it’s nice to be affirmed as a trans man. Transphobia failed successfully
crazy how every time a female character gets cliche misogynistic writing we have to explain to people again that fictional characters are not real and do not choose things for themselves.
Common father experience
dad: "you forgive your mom way easier than you ever forgive me"
me: "she raised me and you were consistently hostile and absent"
dad: "wooooooooooooow"
If you want to know why we live in a rape culture, it's because men believe that rape is just sex a woman wasn't crazy about.