I don't need to explain why guys should be aloud to cry. It's natural and helps with letting out the negative stuff
PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry
animation of charmander makin some pancakes
Just learned that lalaki doesn't only mean "man", but also translates to "will grow bigger/taller". The only difference is the pronunciation:
Lalaki - man
Lalaki - will grow bigger/taller
I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.
People are not just “good” or “bad”.
People are not a list of labels.
People are complex, situations are complex.
I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.
I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.
I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.
I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.
Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.
Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.
Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.
Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up.
Be sincere. Use your best judgment.
Tagged by: @isappho
Shuffle any of your playlists and list the first five songs
Join Us For a Nite - J.T. Machinima
We Raise Our Cups (Hadestown)- Amber Gray
Joutsenete- PMMP
Pneunomonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcaniconiosis - Dasu
Waterloo (Swedish Version)- ABBA
I just pulled the playlists at the top (ones I made myself, if I didn't everything would be from musicals (^~^;)ゞ
Hngggg... I don't know anyone...
Uh... I'm sorry I tag you but I only really know my sister and isappho... Feel free to do it if you want to!
Tagging: @maplespagetti @basement-prussia @apathetic-marmalade @
tagged by @existentialvoidofexistence
shuffle any of your playlists and lists the first five songs
xanny by Billie Eilish
all the good girls go to hell by Billie Eilish
Natural by Imagine Dragons
Every Breath You Take (feat. StarGzrLilly) by J2
COPYCAT by Billie Eilish
this playlist isnt even that billie eilish heavy i have no idea why so many of her songs got shuffled in tbh
tagging: @otakuchild223 @izzthelizz @multishipping-goodness @autonomy-is-a-right @ghiblibutch @mintedpotters @lesbiam-lucy @stormydodie @bi-lesbian @spooky-systems anyone else who wants to!
フラワー
So I’ll cut to the chase on this since a lot of people are dying, drowning, and screaming for help in Cagayan and Isabela, Philippines. A lot of them have also been stranded and are standing on their rooftops as we speak.
I’m here to post a collection of donation drives that I’ve gathered online. If we can’t help them physically, we can at least make sure they have monetary assistance, food and clothing once they’re evacuated.
This is how Cagayan looks, from recent photos (not mine)
TW: screams and shouts for help
DONATION DRIVES
Please feel free to add on this post for any other ways to help.
For context:
The Philippines has been hit by three consecutive typhoons this month alone: Quinta, Rolly (Goni internationally) and Ulysses. It’s been hitting nearly the same areas, which has made them even more vulnerable now that they’re still recovering from the previous typhoons. Our mountain ranges couldn’t shield us from this due to heavy quarrying and deforestation.
That said, these aren’t the only places in need of assistance. But these are the places in urgent need of help. And we’re trying to do as best as we can with what little we have.
I’ll update this post from time to time for full transparency.
[November 14, 2020 3:13 AM GMT+8]
And that's today's coverage on the effects of European colonialism
y'all will circlejerk yourself to the mysticisms of faeries and elves in european countries for centuries and take it as fact but the second native americans ask you to respect our spirituality and culture suddenly you're all aetheists