Absolutely
I do recall the time when my wife's anxieties changed to arousal and being turned on and she told me she was ready and wanted to be shared. I also very nicely recall her anxieties greatly changing to arousal and her then telling me that she needed big black cocks for her white pussy.
We've had those conversations, especially early on. Guys started coming to her mind that she had previously thought some about, but had dismissed, as well as guys that she started seeing in a whole different light. It then took a little additional time for Naomi to feel confident and comfortable enough to start telling me about it as well. She has said many times since then how liberating, exciting and sexy it was to be able to openly have those discussions.
Certainly among many other pleasures and memories in our kinks, I have some very nice images in my mind of watching Naomi getting out of the car and walking to the hotel entrance, looking sexy and slutty as hell to meet her BBC date at his room. All followed a couple hours later and even more sexy, watching as she walks out and back to the car looking quite a mess after being a sexy whore for that black cock.