your partner still loves you even when they are away.
your friends still loves you even when they are away.
they will sill love you even if they have other friends.
they weill still love you even if you are not okay.
they will still love you even if they don’t reply immediately.
they will still love you even if you don’t reply them immediately.
they will still love you even if they can’t talk in a exact moment.
they will still love you even they are not around you 24/7.
they will still love you even if you don’t love some things about yourself.
MAYBE
they fell asleep.
they are busy.
they don’t feel okay to talk right now.
they had to immediately leave for some reason.
they are studying.
they are working.
they are practicing a hobby.
they forgot to reply by distraction.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
MAYBE
they are going through a hard time.
they are hurt by something you said or did (don’t get paranoid because of it, try to talk to them).
they are very busy with work or studies.
they are planning something good for you.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
“i made a mistake and hurt them.” you can always apologize! everyone makes mistakes.
“they made a mistake and hurt me.” tell your feelings to them.
“they will leave me, i know it.” check if it’s not your paranoid thoughts acting out and tell your feelings to them, we can’t be 100% sure if someone will abandon us.
“they have someone better in their lives.” i personally don’t believe in “someone better”, because we all have good and bad aspects, but it doesn’t even matter if they have someone better, because they are with you because they like you and not because of someone else or whatever.
“i’m not enough.” YOU ARE ENOUGH FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
“i’m ugly.” YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
- Everything I said relates to healthy relationships only. I don’t support abusive relationships and please take care of yourself and look for help if you are being abused.
Things that take time & many tries to get right:
learning to be a good friend/partner
healing from depression, failures or heartbreak
becoming amazing at an art or skill
overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image
overcoming the need to isolate yourself
changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones
making a real connection with someone
overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts
learning how to study effectively
finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core
quitting habits or addictions
leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself
getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake
treating yourself like you truly care about yourself
becoming the person you always wanted to be
I wouds neber!!!! Nopes, no I no gets in trobel! 🥺😣
I wanna bes in a doggies pile!!!!!!!🥺🐶
“Now this is a dogpile I would love.”
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I wish I could see a view like that😭😔
I'm currently looking for some little friends to talk to and maybe hangout. 💜💕 She/Hers/Her, 22 y.o./U.S/ pansexual. If you have a question my DMs are always open.
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