How To: Aftercare Your Sub

How to: Aftercare your Sub

Ideas and Tips

These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.

Try taking these into consideration before anything else:

Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?

Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them

Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?

Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep

After Care Ideas

• Holding/ Cuddling your sub

• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’

• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.

• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises

• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises

• Running them a warm bubble bath

• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket

• Massaging them

(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)

• Watching their favorite movies, shows

• Listening to their favorite music*

*preferably soft, calm music

• Giving them a treat they enjoy

• Carrying them where ever they might need to go

The Importance of Aftercare

Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.

Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.

It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.

This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.

DO NOT:

Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.

Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to

Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.

Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,

especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.

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Mmmph I’m little at work and what a fun experience this is. Anyway, do you have tips for being subtly smol in university classes? Bag accessory ideas, snacks, outfits, etc?

Hiya cutie ☺️ There are so so many ways to feel smol in public! It really depends on your personal regression and what that looks like for you, but here are some little things I know can help me!

Snacks are a great way to feel little in public spaces. Little things like goldfish, grapes, pb&j sandwiches, yogurt squeeze pouches, applesauce squeeze pouches, fruit gummies, gerber puffs and really any snack you like in littlespace!

Water bottles that have the built in straw that has juice or milk in it! But please always make sure to have some water too 🥺 It’s important 💜

As far as bag accessories go, the sky is really the limit! I love the little stuffies and fuzzy poof balls you can clip to your bag and take off when you need something to play with. The cute hand sanitizer holders with your favorite cartoon character on it. Pick out a cute bag that just makes you feel little when you wear it. Some bags have a stuffie holder built in that lets your stuffies head poke out!

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You can also carry coloring books (adult coloring books if you’re more comfortable), stuffies, or your favorite baby blanket with you. Most people won’t bat an eye at any of this unless they recognize it due to their own littlespace, so just remember to do whatever makes you comfortable! I hope this helps 🥺

Thanks for the ask! Sending all my love! 🥰💜

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I'm currently looking for some little friends to talk to and maybe hangout. 💜💕 She/Hers/Her, 22 y.o./U.S/ pansexual. If you have a question my DMs are always open.

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