Pure-petals007 - Pure Petals

your might be making dinner but i can’t resist that body. 🫠

Love the idea of casual, household free use. Sitting down on the couch next to you while you’re watching tv, just to pull you onto my lap, slide a hand up your skirt and just start rubbing your clit through your panties until a wet spot formed. Groping your tits with my other hand while you stutter through an explanation about what you’re watching, taking your shirt off without missing a beat. You’d grind on my hand while you unzip and unbutton my pants, sliding my cock out and eagerly pushing your panties to the side to shove it in while you ask me about my day. I’d love to tell you about how busy work was, and about the people I had to deal with while you whimper out little “uh huh”s with each bounce. Suddenly I’d grab your waist, shoving you all the way onto my cock as I cum deep inside of you, feeling you relax and lie back against my body, grabbing my hands and placing them on your tits, holding onto them while I squeeze and play with them. “I missed my good girl” you’d hear whispered in your ear as you cockwarmed me for the next few hours splayed over me while I lazily rubbed circles on your clit, watching tv and taking in each other’s company.

"The moon is beautiful tonight, isn't it?"

Signs of a fantastic Dom

We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom

They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went

They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether you’re in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE

Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)

They aren’t afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive

Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but it’s not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a fun “add on”, but it’s NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).

They are concerned for your safety, but don’t overdo it. They want you safe, but don’t take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.

They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (”skeletons in your closest”), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just don’t feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesn’t need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where you’ve been, etc.)

They trust you. A Dom who doesn’t trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.

When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT a “me against you” style argument (”I WON THE ARGUMENT”, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements

They respect your hard limits. Doms know hard limits don’t mean “convince me”. They know to stay the fuck away from hard limits with a ten foot freaking pole.