Someone Needed To Say It🗣️

Someone needed to say it🗣️

What the fuck is wrong with 90% of the

“Dom/mes” on Tumblr?

I swear, the sheer audacity of some so-called “Dominants” on this site is generously shocking. What the fuck is wrong with most of you?

Since when did being a Dom/me mean treating submissives like disposable playthings? Since when did it mean demanding obedience without offering respect, boundaries, or basic human decency? You don’t get to call yourself a Dominant just because you slap “Sir” or “Mistress” in your bio and bark orders at strangers like a power-starved brat.

A real Dom/me knows that dominance isn’t about control alone—it’s about trust, responsibility, mutual pleasure. It’s about understanding the submissive’s needs, limits, and desires just as much as your own. It’s about care. And yet, I keep seeing these arrogant, unskilled, self-absorbed pricks who think submission is owed to them just because they exist.

You are not entitled to anyone’s submission.

You are not a Dom/me just because you think you are.

And you sure as fuck are not dominant if you don’t understand that submission is given, not taken.

If your idea of dominance is ghosting subs after using them, ignoring boundaries, degrading without consent, or treating submission like a free service, then you are not a Dom/me—you’re a walking red flag.

This space should be built on mutual desire, mutual respect, and mutual pleasure. If you can’t understand that, then step the fuck away from the title of Dom/me and sit down!!

And to the submissives out here: You don’t owe these people anything. A Dom/me who doesn’t respect you, your limits, or your autonomy is not a Dom/me you should waste a single second on. Call them out! Do not keep the damage they did to your body and mental health in! SCREAM. YELL. TOGETHER WE CAN MAKE THEM STOP.