I personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/it's not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you.' I KNOW I'm a burden sometimes. that isn't such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it's work I'm willing to do.
we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn't work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don't feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them.
yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn't make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.
You are wearing those sad eyes for too long now. Isn’t it the time to be happy again? There are thousand kinds of love out there. Do not suffer because of him——because of your love for him. Love wouldn’t feel like hell if you are holding the right kind.
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It’s time for another Supernatural Holiday Giveaway!!!
The winner will receive:
-1 pair Supernatural sunglasses -1 Supernatural Runes Slouch Backpack -1 pair Anti-Possession Fingerless Gloves -1 Symbol Washed Scarf -1 Team Free Will Beanie -1 Devils Trap Candle -1 copy of “The Essential Supernatural” revised book
One runner-up will receive:
-1 sheet Supernatural Temporary Tattoos
The rules are as follows:
-must be following me to enter -to enter, reblog this post -you may enter by reblogging up to 10 times - likes and extra reblogs do not count as entries but won’t count against you -no contest blogs please! -contest will end at 11:59pm EST on January 2nd, 2016 -winner will be selected by random number generator -winner and runner up will be contacted by ask; askbox must be open -if winners do not respond within 24 hours other winners will be chosen -winners must be willing to provide addresses for prizes to be shipped -I will ship anywhere!
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“It never fails. Every time I talk about supporting my trans child, someone screams “That’s child abuse!” No. To me, increasing your child’s risk of suicide EIGHT-FOLD is abuse, which is what you do when you don’t affirm trans kids. I’ll keep my child alive and happy, thanks.”
- Amanda Jette Knox
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