anyways. i’m going to be so real because i am sick to death of people treating shifting/loa creators like personal therapists, servants, or human manifestation calculators. at what point does it click that we are actual people? not some floating concept meant to guide you through your entire existential crisis. not some customer service hotline for your shifting woes. you are not owed endless hand-holding and free labour just because you asked nicely (or, let’s be honest, didn’t).
and god, the entitlement of some people. no, it wasn’t funny when i was asked for explicit information about my dr boyfriend WHO IS SEVENTEEN AND A REAL PERSON. no, it wasn’t funny when someone asked if we have angry sex ?????. no, it wasn’t funny when someone literally told me to get r4p3d for being a ‘liar’ and then not even specifying exactly what i was lying about. or asking me to manifest that you die. or telling me that i'm your s/o. do you hear yourselves? do you see how deranged this is? i am a seventeen-year-old girl, i have said this multiple times, to go ahead and click on my profile, then on my little inbox box, proceed to type that, proceed to turn on anon, and proceed to send that is full on insanity.
i’m sick of it. i’m sick of babying you. and i can fully understand why some people turn into tough love creators, because you can discover everything by just going to my masterlist. i’m sick of explaining theory in dms, then in asks, then in comments, only for you to turn around and say, ‘but i still can’t shift, i still can’t manifest.’ i’m sick of posting an in-depth breakdown of why something isn’t working, only for you to ignore it and repeat the same complaint. if you don’t want to help yourself, i can’t help you. no one can help you. if you refuse to engage with the material, then that’s on you.
i am not a prophet. i am not your personal shifting coach. i am not your mother, your diary, or your emotional support system. i am someone who also doubts. who also struggles. who also has days where nothing works. i have over 580 asks right now, and do you know how many of them are just variations of the same question? how many of them are cruel, entitled, coy little jabs meant to bait me into giving some grand confession that shifting isn’t real? or trying to find some tiny detail to run me off the site? it’s exhausting. we are not required to keep going when you make this an unsafe space. the implication that we owe you proof, that we owe you our experiences, that we owe you some kind of public performance of shifting so you can sit there and scrutinise it for cracks. the entitlement is staggering.
shifting and loa creators are people. we cannot and will not manifest or shift for you. we are not responsible for your progress, and we are not responsible for giving you infinite, unpaid emotional labour while you refuse to actually put in effort yourself. stop being weird.
engaging in my main DRs source material and being overwhelmed by deep longing and genuine homesickness
and i haven't even shifted yet
my outlook on shifting: last thursdayism
one thing I struggle with most about shifting is allowing myself to believe that I am already in my dr. its not that I don't believe it, I just find it a difficult concept to grasp. I don't think human brains are designed to comprehend that you can exist everywhere all at once. I just couldn't find a way to make that idea stick!
something that really helped was this post by @hrrtshape: https://www.tumblr.com/hrrtshape/774373018477674496/okayyyyy-helloooo-you-shifted-pack-it-up?source=share
it really changed and shaped the way I look at shifting- it doesn't have to be this repetitive, long, thought process- you can use your inability to comprehend the enormity of the universe for good!!!!
this is where last thursdayism comes in. I read about it a while ago and it literally blew my mind. last thursdayism is the philosophical idea that the universe could've been created last thursday- you cannot prove any moment exists apart from the present. aliens could've come down from mars, per say, and made all of human history- artefacts can be fabricated, memories can be false- all you can truly know for sure is that you're here now, in this absolute nanosecond.
so, what is to say you haven't been in your dr this whole time? you shift every second- what's to say you haven't just come from a totally different reality, and you just have absolutely no idea. its when you really let your brain try and figure this one out, wear itself out, spinning itself in circles- that shifting becomes a whole lot easier.
do yall just ever sit and wonder if you’d be able to get your dr s/o if you didn’t script it… cause yeah me too
i think alot of shifters needed to hear this so im posting it here
Hate how lighting a candle does wonders to my mood. Like wowwww. Grug like fire? Grug not sad anymore because Fire in Cave? Wow. Real predictable of Grug.
literally i cant come up with shit 😭
Me with my two brain cells trying to write my backstory (I failed miserably)
reminder: shifting is real. you’re going to have memories from when you were a kid or random interactions with people you knew back then. even the dream you may have had when you were 10... oh and perhaps the supermarket you visited with your parents 6 years ago? your life in your dr doesn’t start from the moment you shift there. life is still life. don’t treat your dr as a ‘magical‘ place.
me logging onto tumblr after consuming a new piece of media
okay i want you to all to have a look at your every day life. how do your friends act? how do your parents act? how do your siblings act? remember now this is your reality, we all show up differently in everyone’s realities.
are your parents strict or chill?
are your siblings mean? annoying? clingy? avoidant?
are your friends involving you in stuff? are they supportive? are they bitches?
let’s say you have a sibling, you believe they are annoying and all they do is constantly annoy you. now why do you think they constantly annoy you? because you believe they are annoying and always trying to annoy you. that’s what you believe, that’s what you are telling your subconscious and that creates a dominant belief your subconscious constantly produces into your reality. your sibling will constantly be annoying because you never change that assumption you have of them.
it is the same with parents being strict, you have that assumption/belief they are strict so they will keep being strict until you change that assumption.
same with friends or an SP, whatever you believe about that person will show up in your reality.
if you think manifesting people is hard, it is going to be hard for you no matter what you affirm because you believe it’s hard, start assuming or believing it’s easy, you will see your manifestation come in faster.
if you think manifesting in general is hard, guess what girl? it’s gonna be hard for you.
if you think you need multiple techniques to induce the void, well guess what your gonna need multiple techniques, you need to assume you don’t need anything and can induce it easily and just that it’s easy to enter, take that void shit for manifesting off the damn pedestal you don’t need it, enter with the knowing you can manifest in there, but tell yourself you know you can enter without a method you are using a method to just simply help with taking awareness of the 3d even though you don’t need it.
manifesting is always instant if you believe if it to be.
it is so simple, don’t overcomplicate it.
remember when you used to so strongly believe in Santa? or the Tooth Fairy?
believing = assuming.
you can easily just assume.
everything is already yours, take manifesting off a pedestal and put yourself on it. you are a fucking god. don’t forget your power and stop fucking giving your power to the 3d.
only need you and your assumptions baby.