Dec 15, 2023

“Conditions are never perfect. “Someday” is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. If it’s important to you, and you want to do it “eventually”, just do it - and correct your course along the way.”

— Tim Ferriss

All the stuff you learn from your attempts at healthy coping doesn't get erased the moment you relapse. And you can use that knowledge to pick yourself back up and try again when you're ready. It's not a case of starting over from scratch, it's a case of stumbling and getting back up

It is okay to make mistakes. You are going to fail at times in life, and that is okay. That is part of existence. You make a mistake and life will continue on. You are not defined by your mistakes.

you do not miss them btw. you miss the version of them you created in your head to which they never lived up to

To avoid disappointment, stop seeing the good in people and start seeing exactly what they’ve shown you.

Never really held fast to this but I do now because it's just how it is.

Aro/Ace. He/They.

Drawing using both my tablets today until I get better at using my tablet with a screen on it.

“There are things we don’t want to happen but have to accept; things we don’t want to know but have to learn; and people we can’t live without but have to let go.”

— Jennifer Jareau