Ok like I’m here for the whole “if it doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it” movement but like, be smart, yeah? Don’t just quit your job out of the blue, even if it is soul sucking, get another job first. Don’t just kick your roommate out because you aren’t getting along, talk to them first. And don’t say absolutely everything that pops into your mind, because discretion will save your ass on occasion. I’m not saying you can’t live authentically, but be smart.
I don’t get these posts that go like “part of me wants to be a hot girl at the bar and the other part of me wants to read and sip tea in a bookstore”
like you can wear red lipstick and a leather jacket and sip tea and dance in the rain and go to the gym and curl up in bed and get turnt the fuck up and go to church
you can literally have it all sis
the world is yours
hi friends, i'm sure you've seen plenty of my posts by now, but i'm going to make a new updated one to steer any confusion.
i have housing, but i am not in a safe position at all, i need to accumulate $700 in rent to be able to move out of my current situation.
i need $100 to renew my car registration and license, as i heavily rely on my car but i just havent had the funds to be able to do any of that because when i was given the funds, i ended up needing something else done.
i also just need basic funds for food, dog food and gas to get to and from work.
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I feel like the line between “fluffy uwu self care” and “get your shit together self care” is thinner than people seem to think. Like, sitting in a quiet space with a book and maybe some twinkly fairy lights gives me the spoons to go call my damn doctor like I’ve been meaning to. Bath bombs or shower steamers make me feel content and/or sparkly, which gives me confidence to go out in public. (Plus, I bathed.) I dye my hair funky colors so if I feel like people are staring at me I can say it’s at that instead of whatever my anxiety wants it to be.
The two are not mutually exclusive, is what I’m getting at, and I never see that mentioned, just either “self care is being nice to yourself” or “self care is kicking yourself in the ass to function for a few hours”. Kick yourself in the ass with niceness.
Direct byproduct of being neurodivergent and growing up isolated from your peergroup is having no idea when it's appropriate to define someone as your friend
Au: The Umbrella Academy except the characters are replaced by other characters the cast used to play
Five but it’s Nicky
Vanya but it’s Juno
Klaus but it’s Nathan
Etc
why not just pure, authentic Black men?
“I am the daughter of the witch you couldn’t burn”. -White “feminists”
…
People were no burned because they were witches.
People were burned because of paranoia and superstitions, severe misogyny, xenophobia, people thinking epilepsy and other disabilities were demonic possession, people fearing red hair, wearing colorful clothing, jealousy, blemished skin and skin conditions in general, birthmarks, and fungi, which caused the hallucinations which were thought to be demonic possession and “the devil”.
The fact that white women are taking this part of history, and twisting it to make themselves look cool and hip is absolutely disrespectful and disgusting. Real people suffered and died. This is not something to glorify and praise.
It’s so interesting to me that you can kinda see how my mindset has changed over the years via how I have draw my main OC, Rose?
Like she started as a gody horror/gore vent vessel (which I won’t show here but it was good art).
Then she was like this evil kinda monster bitch
Then she started getting HOT
Then she was used to explore my childhood issues
Then started just being less evil bitch and more just cocky goblin
And somehow she’s ended up being still a Deity, still a goblin but just… softer and more vunerable
IDK. I just love her a lot and how I can express myself through her. I need to draw her again