Let’s bring back vintage Halloween 🧡
“I just want to be your peace. When your head lays on my chest, I want you to forget the world and all it’s problems. Escape in me and give me all your stress and worries, I’ll take it all for you just to see you smile without having to fake it.”
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That “what?” when you catch me admiring you is my favourite.
girlfriend who never gets upset that you need reassurance when your insecurities get the best of you. girlfriend who listens to your interests and supports you no matter what. girlfriend who makes you laugh and smile even when you're sad. girlfriend who misses you even though you just talked. girlfriend who makes time for you. girlfriend who makes all the love songs and books and movies make sense. girlfriend who respects your identity and pronouns. girlfriend who calls you pretty and smart even when its hard to believe. girlfriend who listens as you ramble about random things that happened to you that day. girlfriend who is so safe and kind and understanding and loving that she's who you immediately want to talk to when you wake up and who you fall asleep thinking about.
“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
― Jamie Anderson
Self care isn’t just drinking water and going to sleep early. Self care is taking a break when things become overwhelming, saying no to things you do not want to do, allowing yourself to cry, asking for help from those around you, doing things that make you happy.
baking cookies
going for a walk on a cold day
visiting a pumpkin patch
making hot cocoa
buying your favorite fall drink
binging halloween movies
decorating your room for fall
buying fall scented candles
painting your nails orange or red !
thrifting knit sweaters
cuddling up next to a fire
roasting marshmallows
carving pumpkins
go to a football game
attend a drive-in movie
buy cute fall mugs
take pictures in the leaves
get your nails done with fall colors
I aspire to be like Gomez Addams because I want nothing more then to run around my house with a sword and love the hell out of my spouse
When you are attracted to people, it’s because of the details. Their kindness. Their eyes. The fact that they make you laugh when you need it the most.
Me: *flirts with girl*
Her: *flirts back*
Me: *was not expecting that and am now panicking*