embody the version of yourself who already has your desire - aka assume the state of wish fulfilled
for example with an sp if you find yourself asking something like “why haven’t they messaged me yet”, simply remind yourself “oh well they’re my partner so i am not worried” and simply go upon your day. If you feel like you are going to spiral, take a moment to focus on your breathing, and remind yourself of WHO you are.
rewire those dominant thoughts and reactions. The 3D is never final babes.
love you guys <3
mwah
you can't want something you already have.
think about it. if you already had everything you ever wanted, would you still be thinking about "how" or "when" you're gonna get it? or worse, "am i going to get it?" it doesn't make sense at all.
that's also why so many loa bloggers have been repeatedly saying that if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled, you would literally NOT be concerned about the 3d or anything else. you focus entirely ONLY on your imagination and fulfil yourself there. regardless of what you see in the 3d, you won't be fazed at all because you KNOW that imagination is the only reality, so the 3d has to INEVITABLY morph and reshuffle to reflect your imagination.
if you already have your desires, you WOULDN'T be:
asking if you're gonna get it
asking where is it
asking when and how you're gonna get it
constantly dwelling upon the LACK of your desires
accepting the 3d as final
My University Success Story
Hi lovelies,
Here is my university success story which isn’t just “i manifested it and i got in” (which is still super great btw but i think this success story is a good reminder of how irrelevant the 3D and logic is). I initially got rejected!
Well my university system is different so i didn’t get rejected but rather i performed so badly that i got an extremely high ranking number (700+ high). (lowest ranking numbers get in)
At the time my manifestation journey was um.. not great. I was especially dealing with an sp manifestation that i kept spiraling over and over and i basically was losing all hope in my manifestations in general. (i kept successfully manifesting contact and then driving myself crazy) I was SO absorbed in the 3D and let it control everything. i treated the 3d as my only validation, i wavered constantly, i went in and out of believing despite the fact that i had consciously manifested SO MANY THINGS, i am talking an ipad pro 4th gen and apple pen, my iphone 13 green (the one from my ‘don’t settle’ post.) Like i was making everything SO difficult for myself.
When i got rejected from this university, i was honestly a little gobsmacked and just done with everything. I was preparing my stuff for my back up uni that i was dreading to go to, i was doing room viewings & everything. I was so done with it i just decided i was going to get into my uni because i internally REFUSED to go to my back up uni or not go to uni at all. At the time i didn’t know manifestation was as could be as easy as deciding. But by deciding and refusing to budge internally, as well as having one of the uni’s lecture hall (that i actually have every single one of my lectures in now!) pictured on my vision board, the 3D moved for me what it had to move to reflect my internal shift. And two weeks later, about a month after rejecting me, they accepted me.
Everyone was surprised because with my ranking there was absolutely 0 reason for me to be accepted, even if other students dropped out for their other options. The course is too small and selective for my ranking number to ever come close to letting me fill a spot. I performed badly on my mocks and even worse on my final exams - the predicted grades they had rejected me with were significantly higher. I have no connections to the university, nothing. Despite every logical reason for me not to get into my course - including literally being rejected - here i am. I am currently at the start of my second semester at the uni :)
With this success story i wish to remind you how logic and the 3D/ circumstances have no part in manifestation. I internally refused to accept the outcome the 3D was showing me and stayed faithful to my outcome - i didn’t even know this was manifesting at the time, i was just being stubborn - and as a result it manifested.
My 3D kept showing me a different outcome, every weekend i was visiting rooms on the other side of the country for my back up uni choice, my mom was constantly talking to me about the back up university, other people were constantly bringing it up - and still here i am.
You don’t need to know why and how it is going to work out, just stay faithful to your outcome. In some cases it’ll come naturally, some manifestations just come out of thin air like this one.
I believe in you, now choose to believe in yourself too.
Choose to remain disciplined and faithful to yourself.
Love,
Saph
When persisting, you are basically reminding yourself that you already have what you want. Do any method you want, it doesn't matter, what matters is to keep persisting and have faith. If you keep persisting, there is no way your 3D won't reflect. So just keep persisting !
But how do I actually persist ?
First of all, you have to understand that once you say you have something, you do. No you probably won't see it immediately in your physical world, but you have it in your 4D(your imagination) and that's what matters because imagination is the truth. So once you get it in your imagination, you just want your 3D to reflect it. And you do this by persisting !
Ok so will you tell us how to do it?!?
When persisting, a lot of times we get negative thoughts. Do not worry. Ignore those thoughts and continue your day knowing that you already have what you want. When you catch yourself ''hearing'' these thoughts immediately correct yourself and remind yourself your power.
I am going to show you an example of how to persist ''the right way''
Let's say that you want to manifest having big lips. The first thing you gotta do is tell yourself that you have big lips. Start affirming/scripting/visualizing (whatever you like the most) about your beautiful big lips. Now that you did this, you basically just reminded yourself of what you already have. Continue your day knowing that you have big lips (no you do not have to think of your desire 24/7!). Now if you look in the mirror and think to yourself ''damn my lips are so thin'' just say ''wait, that's impossible! I have big and full lips!'' You have big lips and you know it. Don't question yourself ! Keep living as the person who has big lips because you are. Don't stand in front of the mirror every three hours to check if the 3D reflected. Does a person who has big lips always checks to see if they have big lips ? Obviously not. So why are you worrying? Just relax, keep persisting and the 3D will reflect.
Self Concept in Daily Life
hi lovelies ✰
Today I wanna talk about little ways you can incorporate self concept into your daily life. But first…
What is self concept?
self concept is the concept you have of yourself (wow nice). It is essentially how you think of yourself, as well as yourself in relation to other people or things. It is a large part of manifestation as it explains who you are and what you think you are worthy of. Self concept is how you enter the state / embody the version of yourself that has whatever you desire.
Like you know the common phrase of having someone or something on a pedestal? you viewing something or someone as unattainable or too good for you like that is part of your self concept. In turn, putting yourself on the pedestal is also self concept - a good very good self concept! Since your subconscious/ dominant thoughts is what manifests self concept is pivotal to your manifestations, both in being able to manifest and maintain your manifestations.
For example if you believe you are a master manifester but also believe relationships never work out for you, you may be able to manifest your SP into your life and even a relationship, but struggle to maintain it/them. Now maintenance may sound scary and like a lot of work - it isn’t, it is just having the inner belief that you are worthy of whatever you want/ wish. Remember manifestation isn’t hard!!
Now that we know what self concept is, how can we work on it?
A large part of self concept is affirmations, perhaps listening to music that makes you feel like that bitch/ royalty. Just doing the things that make you feel good and reminding yourself that this is how you deserve to feel all the time.
When focusing on self concept in relation to specific manifestations it may help to do certain techniques to rewrite the neural pathways you have previously in your life created via thoughts and experiences that were negative - such as that relationships never work out for you, you need to work hard for money etc.
techniques such as robotic affirming, scripting, vision/mood boards, mirror work, sleep tapes, even drawing your manifestations etc…
remember, manifesting should not feel difficult or inconvenient, its about feeling good and worthy!
Self concept in daily life?
As someone who has suffered with depression for a long time, working on my self concept was hard but oh my god has it helped so much. One little way i helped my self concept without even realising it was in relation to chores - specifically cleaning. I came across a tiktok - not to do with manifestation at all - which explained that one way to help you do chores is to not look at them as annoying tasks that need to get done, but rather as sort of a gift to yourself. I know it sounds silly but listen:
I clean my room because i deserve to live in a clean environment.
I buy my groceries because i deserve to eat well.
I take care of my skin because i deserve to look good
Try some out on some things you “have to” do.
I worked with these as little affirmations (usually just the parts in pink), and it not only helped me do my chores but bettered my self concept. it was a start to understanding that i am worth good things and a good life.
And you are too.
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So to conclude/TLDR:
the way you perceive yourself and what you are worthy is your self concept.
Your self concept is a large part of your dominant thoughts.
Dominant thoughts manifest in 3D.
You can change and improve your self concept with a variety of techniques, focusing on making you feel good and worthy, also using affirmations to rewire your dominant thoughts.
boom bam bingo my little star, now you know your wildest dreams aren’t wild at all. they are all yours with a snap of your fingers. Because you babe, are absolutely worth them.
mwah and feel free to ask me anything regarding manifestation <3
Let’s talk VISION BOARDS
hi lovelies <3
I am a little late to the start of the year but let’s talk VISION BOARDS!
oh my gosh i LOVE vision boards. Every. Single. Thing. i put on my vision board last year manifested - and boy i was NOT good at manifesting (i was overthinking, spiralling, constantly dipping out of believing in manifesting and myself.)
Low effort and loads of fun i absolutely recommend vision boards.
I mentioned in a previous post that part of how vision boards work is by familiarising your brain with seeing the people/places/objects etc on your vision board and partly with emotions! feeling like its all yours now.
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So, how can we put an effective vision board together?
Well first, what do you want your year to look like?
your vision board can be for any amount of time, but i think year long ones are most common <3 (it doesn’t mean the manifestations will take a whole year!)
You can start with a pen and paper (or notes app) and write down what you want the next year to look like:
It may help to have some headings to organise sections of life. for example:
Career
Relationships
Travel
Experiences/ events
Material Goods
Then you can find specific people/places/things you want to manifest such as a specific career, car or ipad. A specific type of love language e.t.c.
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Second lets get some useful apps:
- Pinterest (of course!)
- Picsart (or any photo collaging app or website)
(OR ALTERNATIVELY you can print out individual photos, cut, organise and glue down your photos on a piece of cardstock/paper or poster board- the world is your oyster baby!)
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Apps in tow we can move onto the Third step
finding good pictures!
In my vision board from 2023 i didn’t think too hard about pictures - i found pictures that represented what i wanted, i whacked em where i thought they looked good, printed that baby out and slapped it next too my desk where i looked at it all the time. Not purposefully because i took the time to, but rather just because i would automatically be pulled to look at the bright colours whenever i went to sit down at my desk (and when i would die in my games and need to look away from my screen :P ).
While deciding to do a vision board for 2024 -only during this process did i check my 2023 vision board and realise everything manifested- i watched lots of youtube videos from people whose vision boards were successful. it gave me motivation and enthusiasm to make my vision board and i learned a couple handy tricks along the way:
due to my copy and paste not working on tumblr for some reason, i am going to list the youtubers at the end rather than linking them.
- Using pictures from YOUR point of view
select pictures where it looks like you are already in it - e.g. wanting to read loads in 2024? pictures of someone (with your skin tone) reading with the book in their lap (example pics at the end)
You can also take this further and cut out your own face and put it over people in pictures - sounds silly but it worked for Tam Kaur! (check her out)
- Find pictures that truly invoke the emotions you want to feel
want to be given flowers? don’t settle for any picture of someone giving flowers, find the one that makes you feel the way you feel when you imagine it happening. The one that makes it feel real and heartwarming.
- Make sure you enjoy looking at the pictures/ layout you use!
you are gonna look at this and ingest it subconsciously all the time, so make sure it looks nice! Hopefully the emotions you feel from the pictures will already help this - but we wanna make sure the underlying subconscious message is “this is all already mine” not “oh god i hate this thing”
- Putting it somewhere you often look
if you’re like me, you might not have a manifestation routine and don’t want to consciously decide to spend five minutes staring at the vision board. I placed the vision board next to my desk and schedule, i looked at it every time i sat down - especially because i liked the photos so much it always caught my eye - and whenever i looked away from my screen. This allowed me to subconsciously familiarise myself with all the people/places/things on there! I also had a wallpaper on my phone with another small vision board so i looked at it even more often :)
- lastly, your vision board is yours - you don’t have to share
Honestly i truly believe in keeping my manifestations to myself till after they materialise in the 3D, mostly because of the stress of having other people think you’re crazy - i know that this is also my fault due to everyone is you pushed out, but i feel like for a lot of baby manifesters this is a familiar feeling. Manifestation is your own journey - do not let anyone take away your belief or chip at your self concept!
I am going to make a post soon about addressing people asking about manifestations! <3
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Final step: HAVE FUN
Enjoy the process and embody the version of yourself who is receiving all of this, It is done, this IS your 2024!
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the list:
Here are all the youtubers whose videos i watched while creating my vision board for 2024 <3
- Tam Kaur
- Anila Sita 101
- Hailey gamba
- The Gem Goddess
I hope this helped and enjoy making your vision board!
bye lovelies!
Seeing people’s successes really motivates me so i might also make a post on the things i successfully manifested in 2023 with my vision board <3
Hey, so i listen to subliminals, and they even work for me, not gonna deny but the results ain't permanent
hi love,
it's absolutely fine if you don't prefer subliminals compared to other methods. after all, it's all up to your mindset and your assumptions. i enjoy the method, and it has done wonders for me but everyone is different.
results are permanent as long as you believe. same thing for whether you assume a certain method works for you. if you're in the mindset that xyz doesn't work, then it won't. to put it simply, your mindset is preventing you from having permanent results. i definitely recommend affirming with statements such as "i receive my results instantly and permanently", ect.
i promise you, it is 100% possible to have permanent results. remember that if you're under the impression that results are temporary, then they will be.
as always, feel free to leave another ask or dm me if you need more help ♡♡♡
For anyone struggling and not knowing what to do; just stop. Seriously. Just stop. What even are you doing? You're not supposed to put work into it. You're supposed to just have it. And you do have it. "Oh but I don't see it, I need it, help-" just stop. You do have it. Even if a doubt or whatever comes up, you do have it. And you don't have to always think about it either, you don't need to 'saturate' your mind all day, you don't need to do ANYTHING. Because you do have it. But even if you do think about it all the time. It does not matter— you have it. Nothing more to it, you can't mess it up as long as you have it and keep reminding yourself "oh yeah, right, I do have it." Just tell everything else too shut up, because bit you DO have it. No matter what thoughts come up, what worries come up, whatever the hell comes up, just remind yourself that you have it. Don't worry that you worry too much, just shoot your worries down with "well why do they matter? I have it duh."
I love your blog and it helped me so much🤭🤭 I've been manifesting left and right through you, life is good
preach. you actually get it.
Loving Yourself in manifestation
(adorable banner art by Nekosuke)
I, like most law of assumption content creators, preach self concept. I’ve talked in a previous post about what self concept is and little ways you can incorporate it into your daily life but today i want to emphasize the inner love and respect for yourself that manifestation both uses and heightens. (This is a bit of a ramble be aware)
in brief, since i have talked about it before, your dominant thoughts about yourself, what you are capable and deserving of, and how you see yourself in relation to others (all your self concept) reflect into the world around you (the 3D). Most of you should be familiar with this sentiment, it is a large part of LOA(ss) after all :3
This does not mean however, which the law of attraction community often misconstrue, that you have to feel good and amazing all the time. You do not have to be a ray of sunshine to manifest anything. You are allowed to have bad days, you are allowed to feel upset. The important part is that you KNOW you are a person worthy of respect, love and your desires.
something i love about law of assumption, is that many people come to this community and the law feeling lack - desperate for something or someone and believing they need it or them to be worthy, happy or even just okay. But with doing the techniques and really learning of the law, they create a good self concept and they realise their own worth and value.
Something i love about the law is the inner transformation you go through. Most people come to the law in a state of lack as they are desperate for someone or something and - though they may not realise it - believe this thing or person will make them worthy, happy or have value. Once they are introduced to self concept and really start applying it though, it really changes all of this: this feeling of inner fulfilment, happiness and worthiness just for being you! This feeling of content and happiness just for being me is unmatched, truly.
No person or thing is going to give you value, the only meaning or value assigned to anything is that which you give to it. And the person who deserves to be assigned the most value is YOU babe.
The neural pathways that we have built over time are mostly reflections of our societies’/community’s/family’s norms. Most societies preach being humble, not being overly optimistic, always looking for worst case scenario. As we grow up these dominant, core thoughts become reflected back to us. But, as put by bashar, this makes us belief thief’s. it’s silly but i think it’s important to learn that you do not have to hold on to anyone else’s beliefs. That which does not serve you, bye bye!
Of course i like to be humble, but i think it’s often pushed way further than that to not even believe in your own inherent worth in fear of being selfish. i choose to believe in my power, my looks, my personality and my worthiness. I am fully aware that i can have bad days and that things go wrong - and even though i’m sure i could manifest even this away, i prefer to live my life and have my world like this - but i refuse to have a mindset that always assumes the worst. after all, our assumptions reflect back in the 3D. You deserve to assume that things always work out for you and as you assume it so it shall be :)
quick side note, two affirmations that have really helped me to unlearn assuming the worst:
- All is well, all will be well
- Everything is always working out for me, no matter how it looks at any given point in time.
Okay, having discussed the importance of self concept and identifying with assumptions and beliefs that serve you, back to the main point of this sort of appreciation post. Though your journey may start from a state of lack, the change in self concept brings not only your manifestations but also so much happiness and fulfilment. Now this is gonna sound silly to longer time loa lovers as of course the whole point is to embody the state of wish fulfilled, and that’s gonna make you feel good, but i feel like many new manifestors - at least definitely me when i started - don’t realise the true fulfilment and happiness within yourself that this journey will give you.
What at first seems like a chore and silly little affirmations to get a goal, becomes little smiles throughout the day when i remember how happy i am to be me.
it is the greatest reward.
love,
saph <3
consistency is not repeating 10k affirmations a day or sleeping every single night with an aff tape on.
consistency isn't overconsuming loass content.
consistency isn't waking up every morning forcing yourself to be positive (I'm looking at you, law of attraction.)
consistency is choosing to think in your favor for every moment, every minute of the day, in the face of anything the 3D shows.
thinking in your favor does not = repressing/toxic positivity
do not assign bad meanings to things.
example of what an inner dialogue may look like when you think in your favor
Damn, SP blocked me? Haha, I know I get what I want. But I can still acknowledge that I feel hurt and rejected and I feel that way because (here it comes - flipping the thought) I know I deserve better than this. I know that my dream self never faces rejection so let me be patient and reorder what I want from the universe. Let me recalibrate. I'm gonna just focus on reassuring myself, doing things I like - because the version of him that deserves me is on the way.
Do you see the nuance there? The difference between thinking in your favor vs not just having toxic positivity?
Guideline to example
Not repressing the emotions of hurt and rejection
Understanding that you give meaning to those feelings - do you believe them to be true or are you mature enough to understand that feelings are temporary and you must remain solid on what you believe despite what you feel?
Focusing on action YOU must take bc the only job is to change SELF
PERSISTENCE
xx, gigi
Persistence occurs whether it’s in your desire or not.
You are always manifesting and 99% of it is subconscious (not a scientific figure, just to help you get the gist of it).
When you think of your desire there are two outcomes, you having it or you not having it.
Your pre-existing beliefs may make you think that it is “impossible” for you and so you consciously and subconsciously persist in the outcome that you don’t have it and that manifests.
When you choose to persist in the outcome that you have it and reject thoughts that say otherwise, you starve the old belief and create a new one where in this outcome is inevitable. As a result you have it!
It sounds simple because it is simple.
It may not feel easy at first due to your old beliefs, but it is always doable, you only ever “fail” by giving up and persisting in the old story again.
Love,
Saph
Brazen Impudence Examples
Before even learning about the term Brazen Impudence, I used it to manifest my university acceptance (a month after having been rejected) by just refusing to let the 3D truly affect my mind. I persisted mentally in how excited i was to move to my chosen university, how much i’d enjoy the classes, how annoying early morning lectures would be etc all while in the 3D i was travelling to the opposite side of the country to find housing for my backup university in a degree i did not want to do.
No matter how much i nodded and planned along with my mom to what the 3D showed me, internally i refused to accept it.
People often ask but how do you do it? What does a mental diet look like?
so here are some examples to help:
*message to SP is left on delivered/seen* I am unaffected and don’t care, i literally live in the reality where SP is devoted to me and texts me all day so since this doesn’t align with that, it’s not for me.
*Bank account isn’t at desired balance* I know i have *desired amount* // i love having *desired amount* in the bank, i’d say it’s crazy how my bank account keeps doubling but it really is just normal for me now.
*desired house was bought by someone else/ isn’t on sale* I love my home, and how quickly it became mine. Everything always works out for me.
and so on…
being genuinely unaffected by unfavourable circumstances was not something i was immediately capable of, but just like with everything else as long as you discipline yourself and persist in this attitude it will work out.
Saph