Ideas: How to romanticize life
π« Make your home / room smell lovely. Scented candles, oils, and similar are perfect for this.
π« Take your time. Do things slowly instead of hasty - take your time in the shower, in the supermarket, while cleaning, etc.
π« Have pretty decorations in your home / room. Surround yourself with cute little things to give yourself a beautiful space!
π« Let some soft music play in the background (while doing things at home, or listen to soft music with earbuds while doing things outside.)
π« Let yourself notice the wonders of nature more actively! The beauty of plants and flowers during a walk, the seemingly soft clouds in the sky on the way to work, the lullabies and happy songs the birds sing etc.
π« Flowers! Always have one or two pretty bouquets at home, maybe one on your nightstand!
π« Light candles whenever it gets dark and / or when doing tasks. Have candles while showering, taking a bath, cooking, cleaning. Whenever! Maybe even scented!
π« Keep a diary / journal for positive entries only.
π« Wear perfume, pretty clothes, do your makeup even when just staying at home.
π« Books, books, books! Read a lot - whatever genre you prefer!
π« Write and / or read poetry.
π« Spend some peaceful time without devices.
π« Start your day with a cup of tea - give yourself a silent moment before the everyday hustle and bustle!
π« Give yourself more time to prepare your meals - make it a joyful, fun activity.
π« Display / put up pictures of happy moments - moments where you felt beautiful, had fun.
π« Use nice-smelling bath additives (oils, bath bombs etc.)
π« Spend more time in nature - picnics, walks, bathing in a lake, collecting leaves and such.
π« Make your meals look pretty!
π« Wear elegant clothing while taking a walk.
π« Write and give cute-looking letters to the people you love (and to yourself!)
π« Exercise more self-care.
π« Keep your space tidy and clean.
my mom: I love how when magne sees himself as thor in the mirror he looks so fucking confused. meanwhile you got laurits who sees himself and is instantly like HEY BEAUTIFUL AHHH YEAH
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β Take a walk through the forest or a park, don't use your phone or listen to music, rather listen to the sounds of nature actively. What can you hear?
β€ Collect some leaves, rocks, pine cones, feathers or anything else that you think is pretty! Maybe use your bounty to decorate your home with it?
β Go touch some grass! No, this is not a joke, let's go feel the grass between your fingers and toes.
β€ Try to find some flowers and smell them, what can you compare the scents with? Preferably, go outside and find wild flowers instead if bought ones!
β Take a bath in a lake or dip your hands and feet into the water (a river is perfect, too!) Close your eyes and just feel the water.
β€ Have a little picnic on a meadow, at the lake, in the forest or at any other peaceful spot. It's a date with yourself and with nature!
β If this is an option for you: do some gardening work. Get your hands all dirty with earth and mud!
β€ Pick some wild flowers from a meadow and make a little bouquet with them. (But please don't rip out the roots!)
β Talk to the trees. Yes, this sounds silly but a tree is a perfect listener and companion if you need to talk something off of your chest.
β€ Watch the sunset or sunrise. Enjoy this magical moment. How many colors can you spot?
β Get some houseplants and take good care of them every day. (If you have pets, make sure your new friends are not poisonous for them!)
β€ Observe. What kind of birds, plants, flowers and trees can you find in your environment? What kind of animals can you meet in the forest nearby? (Maybe write your observations down in a notebook!)
β Lay down on some moss, grass or sand and just exist and feel how the earth carries you.
β€ Go plant some flowers!
β Spend some time in nature without social media (maybe leave your phone at home!)
β€ Take a walk in the rain and / or dance in the rain.
β Watch a thunderstorm from a safe spot
β€ Craft a moss jar (these are so cute and perfect if you want some more nature in your own home!)
β Keep little jars or flasks of the elements in your home (examples: earth - moss/earth/sand, water - water from a lake/river or collected rain water, air - a feather, fire - ashes, a used match)
β€ Be more attentive to your environment: when do you notices changes in the seasons?
β Have a self-love day, because you are a part of nature as well and deserve your own love!
β€ Try to actively appreciate nature: be more thankful for the food, the water, the warmth nature provides us
you are not a wasteland you just need ibuprofen and a hot bath and a shower and a nutritious meal and some water and some fresh air and to do something productive and to do something creative and to do something that takes physical exertion and to do something social
βYouβre slow, but you get there in the end.β And his lips twisted into a scarred smile and the embers danced in the shadows of his eyes.β
Loki: βSo Iββ *stabs hand* ββ finally understand you nowβ
Magne: βWhat the fuckβ
βIβm not going to stand here and listen to you accusing me of things I clearly didβ
β Loki
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