When I do allow him an orgasm, I encourage him to cum as fast as possible. In our relationship, premature orgasm is regarded as a good thing as it shows that he lusts after me so completely, that he can’t control himself at all. It also takes so little time and effort on my part to make it happen. Taking the cage off, making him cum (a few gentle strokes is all it takes), and putting the cage back on is a simple chore that wastes 5 minutes of my time at a maximum, and that’s how it should be.
So I have had a lot of request, “How can I become more of a sissy?” etc. I decided to put together a post of some of the things I do, and things that will help you, in your sissification. This post is “bloggy” more than anything, so you’ll just have to wait for more of my own sissy pics~ ;) Anyone can become more feminine, old, big, small, whatever…. trust me, I am older than most might think…. nothing is impossible, just a matter of how much you are willing to do! Let’s get started~
HRT (Hormone replacement therapy):
is NOT something you do to become a sissy. HRT is a serious decision, and should be made after consulting professionals (Doctor, and Therapist). I know it’s fun to read the captions about taking HRT etc… but it WILL cause permanent long term effects on your body, and can also lead to other permanent, dangerous, side-effects if not taken properly. From my own experience, when I was young and stupid, I do not condone HRT unless you are SERIOUSLY considering transitioning.
The Workout: Getting in shape is very important! The more feminine your figure, the easier it will be to pull of a feminine sissy appearance! This is make basic routine for my legs and butt (I am pretty thin otherwise, luckily). I do this 3 times a week. On the off days, I jump rope! It’s a great, easy way to burn fat/calories, and you can do it almost anywhere. It is important here to mention, you want tone, slender muscles, not bulk; more reps, less weight. Also I don’t really work my arms out at all, that way I don’t have big shoulders etc… However, if you have extra weight in those areas, you might want to work on toning them down as well.
Body Hair:
Shave those legs sissy! Getting rid of body hair, is one of the most feminizing things you can do, that achieve almost instant results! I always see sissies posting pictures, asking how they look, and they are brandishing unshaven legs etc. This will break the illusion instantly (obviously the reason for this can very depending on what you define as being a sissy, and how feminine a sissy should be). You don’t even have to shave all the time! For example, I use a beard/hair buzzer on the closest setting to shave my legs (if I am just doing photos), because the slight stubble will not really be noticeable, and I can avoid any razor-burn/ingrown hair etc… That being said, my hair is already quite fine/thin and not very dark. Some of you might have to shave completely. I suggest you look at many youtube videos on how to shave, to lessen the effects of burn etc. “But I have hair EVERYWHERE!” Yes, some of us are not as fortunate when it comes to hair. This is one of those times where I mentioned in the beginning; “how much are you willing to do?” Laser hair removal is cheap, and can effectively reduce/thin/remove body hair. Look into whats available near you!
Stockings:
STOCKINGS ARE SEXY!!!! Seriously, on those nice smooth legs, stockings will make your legs 10x sexier, and feminine, just how a sissy sluts legs should look. (Also, you can cheat here. If you have fine hair like me, just be lazy; shave your legs real close with the hair buzzer, then put on some black/nude sheer stockings, and your legs will look sexy smooth for photos!). Stockings can also help manage the appearance of your legs. They make them look longer and more tone. They also create a nice consistent color! Nothing is sexier than rubbing your smooth nylon legs together. It drives most crazy. (I love it when I guy rubs his hands over my stocking legs, and tears at the rump to get to my, lady parts hehe)
Makeup:
Is not as hard as you think, so don’t be intimidated. It takes me about 20-30min to achieve a decent makeup look that I am satisfied with! There are literally thousands of girls on youtube doing howto makeup tutorials. Fine a girl with your same skin complexion and watch her videos. See what product she uses, how she uses it, and there is probably going to be a style of makeup that you like. Watch, practice, learn. You can buy the same makeup in the vids online. Also, there are makup apps on the phone you can use too (if you’re lazy). Get a nice clean shave, take a selfie, and makeup away! When I am feeling lazy, I use a combination of “Airbrush” “YouCam Makeup” and “Perfect365″.
Hair/Wig:
A quality hairpiece is essential. A cheap party wig, is going to give you a cheap party look…. a quality piece, not only will look 10x better, but will last 10x longer with proper care. It will also look waaaay more convincing when you meet your guy in person! So don’t be cheap here.
Clothes:
Don’t just buy clothes that you think look great on the model, they might not fit you the same way. Buy clothes that work for you, and that show off your most prominent feature. For example: I don’t buy hot-pants, because don’t have a bubble-butt yet, and they just wouldn’t fill out…. However, I my legs, or probably my best asset, so miniskirt/dress all the way! You’re a sissy, the sluttier, the better in my opinion (within the tips above). Online shopping makes this a breeze, just measure yourself, and look at size charts.
High Heels:
Nothing screams sissy more than having to prance around on a pair of slutty heels!
(Other Things To Consider)
Your surroundings. Don’t take pictures in your bathroom, and clean your room. I nice clean room/bedroom background is really going to make your feminine sissy self stand out.
Photo filters can add a better sense of lighting if you have poor conditions or a not so great camera.
Be confident.
When meeting a guy, make sure they know what they are in for. Make it clear your a CD or just a Sissy etc.
Have fun! Explore your femininity.
Suck lots of cock, and submit.
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I wrote a post about what kind of a man wants to be a cuckold. Just like there are certain characteristics or demographics that are common across most cuckolds, there are similarities in cuckoldresses.
The same sociologist who conducted the cuckold survey, Dr. Angela Lewis, conducted a survey of 200 women who self-identified as cuckoldresses.
The highlights of her survey results showed the typical woman who becomes a cuckoldress:
Demographic • is white (caucasian) • is college-educated • has a white-collar job • is several years into her first marriage • has a husband who is an alpha male
Keep in mind, the men who wanted be a cuckold had the same demographics. She lives a rather comfortable lifestyle and has a good job, just as her husband does. Few are stay at home wives. The can support themselves financially if needed.
Non-cuckoldress sexual characteristics • has a husband with an average-sized cock
Reasons for becoming a cuckoldress • because her husband initiated it (however a close number initiated or mutually agreed to it) • wasn’t sexually satisfied by her husband • wanted to have sex with a man with a larger cock than her husband • wanted to have sex with multiple men
Cuckoldress sexual characteristics • chooses other men to have sex with by herself, without her husband’s input • chooses men of the same race • prefers to be submissive in bed with other men • chooses men who have a large cock • has no rules about whether the husband can be present or not during sex with other men • encourages her husband to clean her creampie after sex with another man, when condoms are not used • has sex with other men in the marital bed, when choosing to have sex at her home • has not told anyone or only told a few select people about her activities
Long-term effects from continuing to be a cuckoldress • is able to separate love from sexual desire • becomes dominant in her relationship with her husband • enjoys seeing her husband lose control of her sexually • enjoys denying her husband sex • enjoys the fact that having sex with other men tortures her husband emotionally
Here are a few quotes from the survey:
• “I have a high sex drive.” • “I love to fuck.” • “I love having sex with new, fresh partners, it makes me feel sexy and on my game.” • “My husband is completely hot for me when he knows someone else wants me.”
One of the qualities of being a sissy. Sissies are attracted to real girls because they find in them the same femininity they feel on the inside.
So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.
Now what?
This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.
First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real “Bull” in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is just fucking someone’s wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.
What most guys don’t understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP. In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.
But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someone’s wife. I don’t need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you don’t get it.
Being a Bull means you’re coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO that.
Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.