His Sexual Performance is Enhanced
When there is no male orgasm, it never has to end. In our relationship, his penis isn’t even considered a sex organ anymore as it has nothing to do with my pleasure. With his forced pent up sexual frustration, he is always willing to pleasure me with his tongue, which gets quite the workout. The dildo that is mounted to his penis gag strap on head harness never goes soft and has been chosen for its size (bigger than him) and ability to send me to the moon each time he uses it on me, effectively cuckolding himself to give me more pleasure.
Some people have strong mate guarding tendencies. I am one of them. He is mine, dammit! Any woman who flirted with my husband in the past pissed me off and I have ashamedly caused a few scenes (when I was drunk) that I’m not proud of.
This happened before I took control and locked him in chastity. Now that I know it’s practically impossible for him to be lured away by other women, this part of my personality has calmed down completely. I never lose my cool in public anymore but I will punish him (funish him) for giving another woman too much attention by gagging him when we get home.
According to my speech flirtation / restriction rules, he is not to needlessly actively engage any other woman in conversation. If a lady talks to him, he is to be polite and answer her but not say anything that will encourage further conversation. This is especially true at our club nites when I am shopping for larger meat…
LOVE!!
Every good girl who wants to try being a slut should have at least one sexual relationship with a man substantially older than her. This list is funny but it’s 100% accurate, and it could be much longer. Older men know how to communicate. They know how to listen and create a sexual experience that is what the little slut wants and needs. They understand mental foreplay.
I never have to worry of him straying or cheating on me. It is literally impossible for it to happen. With him locked in his chastity device, he isn’t going to get naked in front of another woman as he would be fearful of her just laughing at him. It would also be damn near impossible to find another woman who is kinky enough and likes to dominate males in the way he enjoys it. Most women tend to be submissive in nature.
The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the privilege of pleasing You is highly arousing for Your lover. We all have secret fetish dreams, fantasies and hopes and male chastity is just one of those. Because this sexually arousing desire involves the use of a chastity belt or device it may be considered to be a fetish, or a bit kinky, but that’s no bad thing really! We all need a bit of spice and excitement in our lives sometimes.WHAT ATTRACTS HIM:
It’s a secret fetish that Your man finds highly provocative, arousing and very sexy, to the point that even just an image of a chastity device could cause the beginnings of an erection.
It links in with the sexual fantasy of surrendering himself to You in erotic submission.
It’s not just concerned with physical sensations, but the mind, body, emotional and inner most self. He will understand chastity as all encompassing desire, fetish or kink, that’s an intellectual, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual experience.
From his sexual fantasy perspective the allure is that his loving Wife or Girlfriend holds the key to his penis. His cock becomes Yours, it’s freedom is dependent upon You releasing him. You hold the key to this release. You become his Keyholder.
Your lover believes that he’s masturbating far too much and would like Your help to control this by making him wear a chastity device to prevent him touching himself.
He longs to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by You, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to You.
He longs to escape from every day realities and to allow his submissive desires freedom. This is a “need” for many men who long to set free their sexual submissiveness in the safety and security of their own homes and with their loving Wife or Girlfriend.
Orgasm denial is highly arousing to him.
He believes that You are superior to him and needs to demonstrate his acknowledgement of this by wearing a chastity belt or device.
A highly sexy aspect is that Your husband will aim to seek his pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring You, thinking of his keyholder’s needs above his own. Wearing a chastity device help him to sexually achieve this.
He is interested in practising Tantric Sexuality and wearing a chastity device may help save his sexual energy for his higher, emotional and intellectual self.
Although the above list is inclusive of the most common themes, Your husband or boyfriend may find chastity appealing for one, several or none of the above reasons. A fetish or kink is a very personal thing and You might want to discover from Your lover what is it about chastity that personally turns him on.
If he’s found the courage to tell You about his desires and sexual fantasies he’s probably done so because he believes it’s something very special he can share with You, and feels that, in being his keyholder, You may really enjoy and relish it just as much as he…