If Your Boy Is Insecure, Just Make Him Sit In Front Of A Mirror And Say Nice Things About Himself While

make! your! sub! speak! positively! of! themselves! before! you! let! them! cum!

adjust language for pronoun, title, and pet name preferences as needed but things like

- “who’s my beautiful girl”

- “i am, i am”

- “you’re what?”

- “i’m your beautiful girl”

- “say it again, what are you?”

- “i’m - ah - a beautiful girl”

- “that’s right, beautiful girl. now be even prettier and cum for me.”

are everything, don’t let up on asking, repeat the phrase you want them to say often, and don’t let them cum until they’re kind to themselves. you can work as much teasing as you want into this, make them say it until they convince you they mean it, make them say all sorts of good things about themselves. the point is for your sub to associate loving themselves with the dopamine rush of their orgasm (i would not recommend doing this if you plan on ruining their orgasm, let this chemically play out all the way through for your sub), and this can be such a gift for dom’s too because you’re helping your sub see themselves the way you see them and making them more confident in themselves, especially as a creature of beauty, pleasure, and desire - not to mention the wonderful bonding opportunity this all can be for you both

tl;dr: take the praise kink to the next level by pulling an uno reverse card and making ur sub praise themselves

“my daughter turned out fine” he’s a puppy slut tumblr whore who whines and whimpers like a dog when he’s masturbating and gets off to the feeling of being controlled

sending nudes? hot.

asking for consent before sending nudes? very hot.

asserting your personal boundaries by declining to send nudes? so fucking hot.

assuring someone that they should never feel pressured to send nudes if they're not entirely comfortable? hot hot HOT!

the urge to pin a squirming boy down and fuck him until he cries. make him kneel and apologize for trying to run, make him beg for mommys forgiveness. not giving it to him until hes so teary eyed and red and embarrassed that he can barely get the words out anymore.

The desire to be called a good boy VS the embarrassment of admitting i want to be called good boy

obsessed with that face tops make when they accidentally discover a weak spot of yours or a kink of yours through something they did. that little surprised face and then the WICKED grin and then they say some shit like “oh? so you like this? yeah?” and then they do it again??? it gets to me every time on god

I want an older daddy to use my little girl holes, as rough as he wants, however long he wants, where he wants, when he wants. Just wanna be used n abused n taken advantage of 😛😄

hey there, if you’re rubbing yourself to my blog rn, don’t forget to give yourself some emotional aftercare when you’re done. genderplay is awesome but it can also be confusing for our self-image, so don’t forget to give some love to the self you’ve built outside of kink :) ✨

trans women groping my tits and bending me over without asking permission and ignoring my attempts to fight back 🥵😍💦💦

idk what it is but there’s something about the thought of a guy who’s kinda shy about sex that turns me on like…way too much. blushing. wanting to touch but being too shy to ask, looking at me like i’m a goddess and then quickly looking away when our eyes meet. mmm. bonus points if they get turned on just from looking at me/listening to my voice. subby boys are so fucking cute i can’t~