Date Idea! You Dump Load After Load Into Me Until I'm Dumb And Blissed Out And Both My Holes Are Leaking

obsessed with that face tops make when they accidentally discover a weak spot of yours or a kink of yours through something they did. that little surprised face and then the WICKED grin and then they say some shit like “oh? so you like this? yeah?” and then they do it again??? it gets to me every time on god

NEED to fuck a nervous guy that's a virgin, i don't even care if i top or bottom. need to make him feel so good that he starts blabbering about all the fucked up shit he jerks off too

Baby boys with a praise kink are so adorable! You can literally see the sparkle in their eyes when you tell them that they are a good boy.

They get so squirmy and excited, covering their faces with their hands and getting all flustered while whispering thank you mommy.

Oh, and by the way, if you call them such good boy, they might start grinding on your thighs, so be aware of that.

And if they are super shy and in a super good mood and you call them my good baby boy and get a little possessive over them and shower them with attention, you might end up with a moaning mess underneath you.

I want the shyest boy ever. Like, it feels criminal how shy I want him to be. Blushing, not able to look me in the eye. Quiet when he asks for stuff. Just a cute little virgin with hair in his face that won't even admit to himself how badly he wants mommy to play with him...

something about the shyness and sexual repression is just essential to the hotness of it idk

Shit I want to embarrase a shy little sub boy so bad, I want to fuck him until he's just dripping of cum just completely weak and legs shaking while I just tell him how much of a whore he is, how he looks like a dirty little cock slut from this position and watch him get more and more embarrassed, I want to leave many dark hickeys on his neck and watch him get shy when people ask him who did that, who did the poor little thing let him mess up so bad, I want to make him wear tight revealing clothes and put a leash on him that says who he belongs to and take him outside for a walk. "But that's embarrassing" that's the entire point love, embarrasse yourself for me, just entertain me with your cute expressions<3

I want to dominate a man bigger than me, I want to watch him fall apart and cry and whine as I fuck him into oblivion. I want him to look at me with wet eyes and beg me to keep on going, for him to pull me closer and spread his legs even wider. For him to tighten up around my strap and beg me to breed him, over and over and over and over.

men with praise kinks are so easy you can convince them to do anything if you just tell them they'll look hot and pretty doing it

15 Points of a BDSM relationship!

1) Communicate- The importance of this can never be stressed enough. If you are a Dom, make sure your requirements and demands are clearly expressed. If you are sub, make sure you talk about what you need and want out of the relationship. Talk about issues that arise, joys and pleasure that you both experience, things that are going really well, and areas that need to be adjusted. 

2) Go Slow- When you are starting a new relationship, or trying a new aspect of a BDSM relationship, take things slow. Nothing good comes from rushing into anything. 

3) “A” sub, not “Your” sub- Just because someone is a sub, doesn’t mean they want to be YOUR sub. Calling yourself a Dom doesn’t give you the right to call subs names, or act dominate towards someone who has never given you their submission. Treat people with respect at all times. 

4) The BDSM Buffet- It’s ok to take different aspects of different BDSM dynamics and create something that is unique and works for you. Every relationship is different. If you want to be in a DD/lg relationship with pieces of pet play and a bit of Master/slave dynamic, then go ahead! Find what works for you. Experiment.

5) Don’t EVER kink shame- It’s ok to not like every kink. It’s ok to be confused as to why someone would enjoy a certain activity or dynamic. But it is NEVER ok to shame someone for what they like to do (so long as what they like to do is legal, consensual, and safe).

6) No two relationships are the same- You don’t have to try to be like every other relationship. If your rules are super strict, or really relaxed, that’s fine. If you live a 24/7 relationship, or only play once a month, that’s ok! If it works for you, and makes everyone involved happy, then that’s all that matters. Don’t compare your relationship to others, and don’t make other people feel bad for not doing things the same way that you do.

7) Aftercare is ESSENTIAL- After any scene it is vital for the Dom to look after the sub. Encourage them, tell them they are beautiful, hug, cuddle, massage, kiss, sing a lullaby…whatever the sub needs (as everyone is different). If the sub is crying, make sure they are consoled. If part of the scene requires humiliation or intense physical/mental exertion, then make sure you re-assure them and give them a chance to rest. Most importantly, make sure they know that you love them, care for them, and want only whats best for them! 

8) Keep going over/adjusting the rules- This goes along with the earlier communication point. Don’t be afraid to adjust the rules to meet current needs. As people grow, things change. A rule that once made sense, may no longer be required, or perhaps something that was once strict needs to become more lenient (or vice versa). This should be something that both Dom AND sub talk about, and all rule changes should be mutually agreed upon.

9) Try to switch- This isn’t a requirement, but it is a suggestion. It’s hard for a Dom to fully appreciate how beautiful and difficult submission is if they have never experienced it. Likewise, a sub who has never been dominant may not understand how hard it can be to constantly be in control. Try switching (even if it is just for a half hour play session). It gives both parties experience, and everyone will learn something! 

10) Stay Safe- This seems obvious, but it should always be said. If you don’t feel comfortable in a relationship/situation….LEAVE. If you need something to stop, use the safe word! It’s the subs responsibility to make sure they are communicating with the Dom (especially if things are starting to get uncomfortable), and it is the Dom’s HUGE responsibility to make sure they are respecting all limits, and respond to safewords. 

11) Explain punishments- Never punish for the sake of punishing. Don’t just create arbitrary rules just so you can punish the sub. If you are going to punish, make sure the sub knows exactly WHY they are being punished.

12) Submission is a gift- Never take the subs submission for granted. It’s a beautiful gift that needs to be respected at all times!

13) Make sure you give rewards- Don’t just be the Dom that only ever hands out punishments. Give your sub praise for a job well done, and make sure that you give them rewards as often as you can!

14) Don’t make a habit out of acting up just so you can get punished- I’m not saying to never do it…sometimes it can be a fun little game to play. However, if you (the sub) wants to get spanked or punished, it’s ok to just ASK for it! Trust me, very few Doms will turn down the opportunity to spank their sub.

15) Have Fun! BDSM should be fun. Enjoy it! Don’t take the relationship so seriously that you don’t ever enjoy yourself. Yes…a BDSM relationship is a big deal and a lot of work…but if it’s not enjoyable then whats the point? If you can’t laugh and smile with one another, play games (that aren’t always sexual), or just enjoy each others company, then you are either doing something wrong, or you are in the wrong relationship.

This is by no means a complete list. What other things should be added to the list?

i love perverts who r embarrassed abt it. perverts who clear their search history if they see you peering at their computer screen. perverts who stutter out euphemisms and vague "you know..."s when u ask them what they're into. perverts who lie. perverts who swear they're not weird, that they looked up porn of some disgusting fetish "one time" or "on accident". perverts who look the other way when they talk to u because if they didn't, their eyes would be glued to ur tits. perverts who secretly wish that you would find out, that you would force them to confess to all sorts of sick things about themselves, abt how they think of you. perverts that want you to hear all of their depraved fantasies involving you. perverts that need someone like you to make them admit it. ❂