i will always be pro-abortion, pro-trans, pro-women, and anti any man who thinks he has a say in whatever a woman chooses to do with her body. if you don’t like that please fuck off
I want to dominate a man bigger than me, I want to watch him fall apart and cry and whine as I fuck him into oblivion. I want him to look at me with wet eyes and beg me to keep on going, for him to pull me closer and spread his legs even wider. For him to tighten up around my strap and beg me to breed him, over and over and over and over.
Are you blushing, puppy? All because I called you a good toy? My good toy. You’re just a pretty fleshlight, barely have enough brains to be embarrassed. You like it when I pick you up and use your holes like a real toy? My hands tight around your waist, fucking you back and forth on my cock? Use your words, puppy. Good toy, thats it. Fuuck, sweet thing, you feel so incredible. Tightest little toy, oh my god, you were made to please me.
The amount of you saying "fuck you" and "how dare you" in the tags of my praise kink callout posts is just adorable.
It's okay to like being praised and adored, sweetie. You can just enjoy it. No need to fuss or whine, but I know you secretly enjoy that too~ It's cute how desperately embarrassed you get over something as simple as a few words.
You're doing such a good job, and I'm so proud of you just for being you :)
Imagining a sweet boy, bending them over, softly caressing their hips, telling them how cute they look being so obedient and easy for me~
You're a pretty lil thing aren't you? So warm and soft... don't be scared cutie, no reason to get wide eyed, I'm just getting you ready, and I know you like it when I stretch you out like the cock slut you are~
Keep whimpering for me baby boy, such a cute pretty pet making such sweet dumb sounds... now, be a good boy and take Master's cock now, hm? Can't have my sweet boy's body be empty inside~
"good boy, that's it," they coo, as they squat over my face and fuck my face. I take their cock deep into my throat, barely gagging at all, "That's my handsome boy," they smile, "look so good with your mouth stretched around my cock." They slide their hand down my body, finding my hard little cock and caressing it gently on their way to my wet hole, lubricating their fingers with my arousal, "how perfect are you? Getting so wet for me, huh?" they start playing with my dick, making me gasp and splutter around their cock, "tell me you're perfect," they slide their cock out of my mouth. "I'm perfect," I whisper obediently as their fingers make my eyes roll back and they shuffle down the bed to sit between my thighs. They curl two fingers inside me, stroking my sensitive hole and making me buck and thrash, "you feel so fucking good, I'm so lucky to touch you like this." They say sweetly as I start to moan louder, "please, please, please, can I have your cock?" I whimper. They smile, "you know who gets my cock?" they ask, withdrawing their fingers and rubbing their cock against mine, the heavy head making my cunt throb, "good boys?" I guess. "yes, you are so smart," they smile, "and what are you?" I nod fervently, "I'm a good boy," they slide inside without resistance, burying themselves to the hilt, "yes you are, you can have my cock inside you for as long as you chant that." I moan and grip their hips with my hands, "I'm a good boy, I'm a - a good boy, I'm a - fuck - a good - ugh - good - good boy."
"Pretty boy, on your knees. You wanna be a brat? I'll treat you like a fuckin' brat. Be good and I'll give you a nice treat, but if you continue to be a brat? Nothing will save you from your punishment. Do you understand me?"
"Look at you! You look so good tied up. All mine and all for the taking."
"You'd like that wouldn't you, puppy?"
"Aw, look at that little hole clench around my fingers. Why are you still whimpering? I'm touching you, am I not? This is what you wanted, isn't it? What's wrong? Not enough? You greedy boy. Fine. I'll give you EXACTLY what you want."
"Fuuuuuck, so fuckin' tight. Gonna cum in this sweet, tight little hole. Such a good boy. Such a good good boy."
I want you to shove a camera in my face while you violate me. Make me say hi to the camera, and answer questions like “who’s my little slut?” “whos cock are you taking?” “Who’s pussy is this?.”
1) Communicate- The importance of this can never be stressed enough. If you are a Dom, make sure your requirements and demands are clearly expressed. If you are sub, make sure you talk about what you need and want out of the relationship. Talk about issues that arise, joys and pleasure that you both experience, things that are going really well, and areas that need to be adjusted.
2) Go Slow- When you are starting a new relationship, or trying a new aspect of a BDSM relationship, take things slow. Nothing good comes from rushing into anything.
3) “A” sub, not “Your” sub- Just because someone is a sub, doesn’t mean they want to be YOUR sub. Calling yourself a Dom doesn’t give you the right to call subs names, or act dominate towards someone who has never given you their submission. Treat people with respect at all times.
4) The BDSM Buffet- It’s ok to take different aspects of different BDSM dynamics and create something that is unique and works for you. Every relationship is different. If you want to be in a DD/lg relationship with pieces of pet play and a bit of Master/slave dynamic, then go ahead! Find what works for you. Experiment.
5) Don’t EVER kink shame- It’s ok to not like every kink. It’s ok to be confused as to why someone would enjoy a certain activity or dynamic. But it is NEVER ok to shame someone for what they like to do (so long as what they like to do is legal, consensual, and safe).
6) No two relationships are the same- You don’t have to try to be like every other relationship. If your rules are super strict, or really relaxed, that’s fine. If you live a 24/7 relationship, or only play once a month, that’s ok! If it works for you, and makes everyone involved happy, then that’s all that matters. Don’t compare your relationship to others, and don’t make other people feel bad for not doing things the same way that you do.
7) Aftercare is ESSENTIAL- After any scene it is vital for the Dom to look after the sub. Encourage them, tell them they are beautiful, hug, cuddle, massage, kiss, sing a lullaby…whatever the sub needs (as everyone is different). If the sub is crying, make sure they are consoled. If part of the scene requires humiliation or intense physical/mental exertion, then make sure you re-assure them and give them a chance to rest. Most importantly, make sure they know that you love them, care for them, and want only whats best for them!
8) Keep going over/adjusting the rules- This goes along with the earlier communication point. Don’t be afraid to adjust the rules to meet current needs. As people grow, things change. A rule that once made sense, may no longer be required, or perhaps something that was once strict needs to become more lenient (or vice versa). This should be something that both Dom AND sub talk about, and all rule changes should be mutually agreed upon.
9) Try to switch- This isn’t a requirement, but it is a suggestion. It’s hard for a Dom to fully appreciate how beautiful and difficult submission is if they have never experienced it. Likewise, a sub who has never been dominant may not understand how hard it can be to constantly be in control. Try switching (even if it is just for a half hour play session). It gives both parties experience, and everyone will learn something!
10) Stay Safe- This seems obvious, but it should always be said. If you don’t feel comfortable in a relationship/situation….LEAVE. If you need something to stop, use the safe word! It’s the subs responsibility to make sure they are communicating with the Dom (especially if things are starting to get uncomfortable), and it is the Dom’s HUGE responsibility to make sure they are respecting all limits, and respond to safewords.
11) Explain punishments- Never punish for the sake of punishing. Don’t just create arbitrary rules just so you can punish the sub. If you are going to punish, make sure the sub knows exactly WHY they are being punished.
12) Submission is a gift- Never take the subs submission for granted. It’s a beautiful gift that needs to be respected at all times!
13) Make sure you give rewards- Don’t just be the Dom that only ever hands out punishments. Give your sub praise for a job well done, and make sure that you give them rewards as often as you can!
14) Don’t make a habit out of acting up just so you can get punished- I’m not saying to never do it…sometimes it can be a fun little game to play. However, if you (the sub) wants to get spanked or punished, it’s ok to just ASK for it! Trust me, very few Doms will turn down the opportunity to spank their sub.
15) Have Fun! BDSM should be fun. Enjoy it! Don’t take the relationship so seriously that you don’t ever enjoy yourself. Yes…a BDSM relationship is a big deal and a lot of work…but if it’s not enjoyable then whats the point? If you can’t laugh and smile with one another, play games (that aren’t always sexual), or just enjoy each others company, then you are either doing something wrong, or you are in the wrong relationship.
This is by no means a complete list. What other things should be added to the list?
making him praise himself while i fuck him
having him on all fours in front of a mirror while i give it to him from the back. i keep a hand in his hair so i can make him look up and watch us. i tell him that he's such a good boy, isn't he, and at first he just nods, maybe blushing lightly, but then i start going faster and harder. he closes his eyes and i tug on his hair to remind him to look at himself. "say it baby, say 'i'm a good boy'". and he does, whispering between panting breaths. and i go even harder and faster to reward him. "that's it baby, you take it so well don't you?" and he agrees and repeats my words because he understands it'll allow him to feel more of my strap. he'd agree to anything i say. he sounds so pretty talking like this