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Fuck I feel so pathetic when I’m so exposed, lying naked on the bed all shy and embarrassed while they’re still fully clothed exploring my body with their hands, admiring me, the softness of my skin, the way I gasp when they touch me and the pretty shade of red when they slap my ass, fuck I want them to tease me like that

I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.

AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.

aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.

dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!

and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)

“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”

“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”

“I liked everything you did.”

“everything was within my boundaries.”

“you did great, (name/nickname).”

“do you need anything?”

“would you like (self care act)?”

“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”

just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!

and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!

You like me touching your boobs, cutie? No, no, don't talk, just nod. Pretty toys like you don't need to use words.

Your nipples are so sensitive. You like it when I play with them like this, don't you? Pinching and pulling at them while your jaw goes slack. Let your tongue loll out of your mouth, there's a good toy.

Are you drooling, baby? Such a pretty little toy, letting yourself drip onto your breasts. You look so cute like this, so sweet and brainless. All nice and pliant for me. How do you feel?

No, no, don't speak. You don't need to think or talk, just moan and drool for me. There's a good little toy.

Actually can't stop daydreaming about being a free use toy for all of my friends. Playing games with friends when one of them tells me I have to turn on a camera for the rest of the call and strip so that I'm completely vulnerable to everyone in the call when they give me perverted orders throughout the call~ "Bend over let's see you spread yourself" "edge yourself before our next match" "Put on a toy and give me control I'm just gonna watch you play this next one~"

WHEN is someone going to invite me over for drinks and a movie so they can get me sloppy drunk and pull up my t shirt to play with my titties and take pictures of me half awake in my cute little bra?? WHEN is someone going to slide my panties off when they’re certain i’m too drunk to push them off me and start playing with my wet little cunt, starting with one finger, then two, and working me open until they’re able to take a video of them fucking me with the bottle we’ve been drinking from?? WHEN is someone going to fuck me raw while i’m totally passed out and unaware, filling me up with cum and then snuggling up to doze until the next morning when they drive me home and keeping my underwear as a keepsake??

I want to make a boy moan so loud that he has to bury his face into the crook of my neck to muffle the sound

Aftercare IS a fucking necessity.

Aftercare IS NOT a privilege.

Aftercare IS NOT optional.

Aftercare DOES NOT take away from the scene you just had.

Aftercare DOES NOT make you any less of a Dom/sub.

nsfw//

i’m usually pretty submissive, but when it comes to other trans guys…. bro i wanna make out with a dude wearing a skirt and slip a hand between his thighs only to find out he’s not wearing underwear and already completely soaked. i wanna play with his cock and feel him gasp into my mouth when i slide a finger or two into him. fuck and he’d start grinding into my hand?? i can only imagine his little flustered whimpers and red face. i’d be teasing him the entire time about how desperate and needy he is. i’d let him cum eventually, taking his cock into my mouth until he’s violently shaking and overstimulated, but i’d have to have my fun first, of course.

he/him, cishets dni

I'm tired of only ever seeing the waists of skinny people described as grabable!!!!! Grab that fat person by their waist!!! They're called love handles for a goddamn reason!!!

i want to put my hand over my boy’s mouth, shush him and tell him how pretty he looks when he’s tearing up from being fingered and so overstimulated because I’ve been edging him the entire time and I know how much he can take, so I tell him how good he is and “just hold on a little longer for me baby, you can do it, mommy’s so proud of you” until I let him cum all over his chest and stomach. ❤️