Daily Reminder, Because This Shit Is So Ingrained In Global Culture It Makes Me Want To SCREAM, That

Daily reminder, because this shit is so ingrained in global culture it makes me want to SCREAM, that vaginal sex is NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PAINFUL EVER. It is not supposed to bleed! No, not even when it's your "first time". That's not how it works and WHY WOULD IT BE? The vagina is a very cool dude that does this really cool thing: when sexually aroused, the tissue surrounding the vaginal opening as well as the muscle of the canal expands in width & length and lubricates. YES, EVEN "VIRGINS". You've probably heard something along the lines that "it hurts at first but it gets better" – NOPE. The vagina does not magically start functioning after a penis tears it open.

Painful sex is generally due to (other than ignorant partners):

- Minimal or no sexual arousal

- No additional lubrication (vaginal lubrication is great! it is also not always sufficient)

- Low oestrogen or unbalanced hormones (due to young age, health conditions, HRT, stages of menopause)

- Incompatible partners (yes, penises/strap ons can be TOO BIG, don't just pick up the biggest one you can find. look up how long the average aroused vagina is, seriously, then take into account your own anatomy and the position of your cervix at rest & when your vagina is mostly or fully aroused)

- Congenital conditions or a cervix that hangs lower than average

It is so important for people with vaginas to learn their body before having penetrative sex with a partner. PLEASE EXPLORE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF FIRST. Find what works for you. Do NOT put your health and safety in the hands of some idiot.

P.S. Sometimes it just doesn't work and that's okay. Vaginal sex is NOT the height of human experience. There are dozens of other mutually pleasurable sexual experiences to be had!

We're delighted to announce a special giveaway of free themed event buttons for MadaTobi Week 2022!

MadaTobi Week 2022 Is Only ONE MONTH Away!!! We're Sure Everyone's Been Working Super Hard, So We Have

The buttons will be free, including shipping, and will be distributed to anyone who creates content for that day's theme!

There will be a total of 8 buttons available: one for each day of the week and a bonus one for completing the whole week.

In order to receive a button, you must create content during MadaTobi Week 2022. You are only eligible to receive a button for the day you completed a prompt for. For example, if you create content for Day One, you will receive a Day One button. If you create content for Day Two, you will receive a Day Two button, and so on and so forth. Only completion of all 7 days of MadaTobi Week 2022 will earn you the bonus completion button. You must also follow all event rules for posting and creating.

We'll reveal the designs of the buttons as we get closer to the event. We hope this giveaway will encourage the fandom to create lots of wonderful content during MadaTobi Week 2022!

[For more information, please click here for the Button FAQ]

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susanamode

4 years ago

Have you ever wondered how someone meets Santa? Well, you need to follow a very specific ritual to summon him.

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susanamode

11 years ago

yes, this is. BEST CHAPTER (till now..)

Watching the original Star Trek on Netflix has been the best decision I have made because you get flawless scenes like this

MadaTobi Fic Rec List Compliation

Decided to just put them all in one post so it’s easier for people. I’ll make sure this is in my pinned post for the future:

<150 Kudos MadaTobi Fic Rec List

Spicy MadaTobi Rec List

MadaTobi Fluff Rec List

Random MadaTobi Fic Rec List 03.17.2022

Random MadaTobi Fic Rec List 04.10.2022

Funny MadaTobi Fic Rec

And my fic rec tag HERE.

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susanamode

11 years ago

So going to go on a follow spree

Reblog if you post/reblog

Supernatural Gabriel (RSJ) Almost Human Sleepy Hollow Loki (Tom) Doctor Who Sherlock

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susanamode

4 years ago

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susanamode

4 years ago

My hypothesis is that in like 10 years gen z is gonna have a big cult boom the way the boomers did in the 70s

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susanamode

11 years ago

here you have: http://www.miratuserie.tv/mira-sherlock/temporada-03/episodio-03/his-last-vow

CAN SOMEONE SEND ME A LINK TO THE NEW SHERLOCK EPISODE? PLEASE!

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spoilers sherlock 3x03 his last vow watch online i don't have words to describe this

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susanamode

4 years ago

Today’s Comic Is A Special One Because It Discusses #dyscalculia, Which Co-occurs Frequently With #adhd.

Today’s comic is a special one because it discusses #dyscalculia, which co-occurs frequently with #adhd. I personally live with it and it’s something I feel should be discussed more often.

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