we don't have enough money in our account to even pay the fucking bailiffs off right now let alone heat the flat.
it's my birthday on the 4th and i just want to spend it not stressed out and cold. if you have anything to spare, it'd be greatly appreciated.
Hello & howdy! I'm Casper Oliver (he/they). A queer, disabled artist in need.
I'm working multiple jobs, but I'm still struggling to have enough for rent, therapy, medication, and pet care as I look for another job.
Goal: $800
Any bit helps!
Also, any support towards @thesperience does also help! It's the production team I'm a founder of and the more support the team gets, the more we can focus on our project creation instead of needing to search for other jobs!
I got desperate enough to deadname myself so that anyone’s Christian relatives will be willing to help.
For those of you who don’t know me well, hi. I’m styx, a disabled transmasculine person trying to get away from an abusive family and shitty home situation to somewhere I’ll be safe.
I’m not gonna share all my shit here because this is the internet, but I’m trying to raise money to move out and afford my medication.
I can’t work because of my disability and I am also selling tarot readings for fifteen dollars. I will link also my c*sh*pp; dm me for details or business inquiries.
Anything helps, blessed be.
Thanks Tumblr Dad!
My dear lgbt+ kids,
Dealing with homophobia (and other forms of discrimination or hate) takes a lot of strength.
You may think about people who have to go face-to-face with homophobic people, like listening to (or even arguing against) your dad's anti-gay rant at the dinner table - but it's not only situations in which you could point at one person in the room who is clearly being homophobic right now.
It's also walking into a room full of people you never met and instantly feeling like there's a target on your back. It's sitting amongst your friends and wondering if they'd still be there if they knew. It's lying in your bed at night and feeling overwhelmed by the thought that there is just so much hate out there.
It'd be absolutely wrong to say that being gay is nothing but constant sad thoughts about homophobic people - but we do carry the knowledge with us that homophobia exists. Even if it's not aimed at you directly or you are not staring in its face right that moment, it is a burden to carry that with you.
Sometimes we don't think about that burden at all and sometimes it can literally feel like a huge weight is lying on our chest.
If it feels heavy for you right now, it's not a sign that you are weak. You are actually doing a very brave thing! You are carrying something really heavy... and also invisible. Something you maybe can't really share with others or feel like they don't understand. That is a tough thing to deal with and you are dealing with it! Giving yourself permission to actually feel the weight of that burden takes a lot of strength - and you do that. You feel the weight and you are still here. Good job, little fighter.
With all my love,
Your Tumblr Dad
Men, your existence is a good thing.
Trans men, you deserve to be believed about your experiences. I wish you gender euphoria like you've never felt before.
Disabled men, you are valuable just the way you are. I wish you lack of guilt for the things you can't do.
Men of color, whatever culture(s) you belong to are beautiful things. I wish you pride in who you are.
Fat men, you deserve happiness. I wish you comfort in your bodies.
Queer men, you are an inspiration. I wish you peace and safety.
Men who fit into multiple of these categories and/or belong to any minority I didn't list, you're very cool, and I hope you're having a wonderful day.
Men who don't fit into any of these categories, you are wonderful, and you are just as worthy of love as anyone else.
As promised in the comments of the binder master list, I'm now compiling a more all-encompassing free resource public spreadsheet! So far I've got resources for binders, packers, STP devices, gaffs/tucking underwear, gender-affirming clothing, some DIY gender-affirming gear, and some resources on how to clean that gear and how to clean up makeup spills. I'll try to keep expanding things, and feel free to request a type of resource or a specific location in the comments or in an ask! (I can't promise I'll be able to find anything, but I'll do my best! <3)
The spreadsheet is called "Study sheet" to make it more inconspicuous in case someone you'd rather didn't catches a glimpse of the title. Do please note that once you're on the spreadsheet it is very obvious what the content is, so only view it when it's safe for you to do so! <3
Some links to videos on how to conceal and delete your history for those who need it (blue text indicates a link)
How to Clear your Youtube watch history (kinda loud at the start and actual info starts at about 1:33
How to Remove Shared Files from Google Drive
how to activate incognito mode on an Iphone , on an Android phone and on chrome on a computer.
And How to delete your Google activity history
Remember to delete your Youtube history after watching!
*Edit* I've added a new section for miscellaneous resource requests to serve as a semi-temporary place for more niche topics that I get resource requests for. If I get more requests for them or find more resources related to the topic I'll make a new separate section for them, but otherwise they can just stay there.
Remember: y'all can comment, tag, or if you want/need it to be more discreet you can send me an anonymous ask. I may not be able to find what you want, but I won't judge you <3
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hello my friends 💖 it's 3 DAYS until my top surgery consultation!!!!
Im only a few hundred dollars behind goal (<$800), so please donate to my gfm if you can!!! I'm so so so close to my surgery being completely fully funded!
Gfm is here
cshapp: $ pidgefqhl
Love love love love to everyone who has been sharing and reaching out 💖 I'm sending each of you a tiddy pic the night before my surgery and I have the biggest appreciation for you 🙏 thank you immensely and sincerely 💖
I recommend trans people who live in Missouri to watch this… Things have been getting worse. Make sure to check the your state here (It was bad enough they were attacking trans youth but at this point they’re now going after trans adults) PLEASE if you are cis and know of any transfolks let them know and share this video with them. Things are getting scary for us out there. PLEASE share this to let other transfolks or others receiving gender-affirming care to know where is safe for them. The USA is trying to Ban us out of existence. ❤️ Remember to stay safe. You are important, you are loved and you’re not alone. ❤️
so um we desperately we need $28 for food & $44 for my brothers insulin which he is out of and that he MUST take to stay out of an er? urgent as we need help for this and im not sure what to do. have no money after paying the overdraft fee with help from yall, paying my grandma, have no car, can’t get to food bank or store. the kids are hungry and i just have no idea what to do. a dollar or a penny is a big help or reblogging. send me hate, ill block you.