"use Your Words Baby" 😵‍💫😵‍💫

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

bending me over your lap, expecting my ass to be spanked red, instead you're forcing my dildo in and catching me by surprise as i tense up, it's stuffing me full but i can't escape your hold. instead i just have to lay there and take it as you roughly fuck me with it, making me cum over and over

“spam liking = block” spam likers can cum on my face actually but whatever makes you happy

missionary is underrated and anyone who tells me different doesn’t know what they’re saying.

is it boring that I want to sink my cock into you and watch your luscious tits bounce while I choke you and feel your pussy and throat clench???

Didn’t think so

I want someone to corrupt me - like actually truly do their best to make me their filthy little fuckslut.

Tie me up with a vibe on my clit and edge me to your gross porn. Read your favourite erotica out loud to me while I’m cockwarming you. Make me wear a plug while we have movie nights. Have me practice holding your favourite poses naked on our bed, kneeling in the entryway waiting for you to come home.

Push me further and further into your fantasies: dress me up in cute slutty outfits to go to the bar so you can pound my pussy in the alleyway. Make me wear a vibrator when we go grocery shopping. Take me on a cute picnic and halfway through pull up my sundress and start fucking me in public.

Eventually I’d start asking you for it. “Daddy can I please wear my vibrator to class?” “Daddy can you please finger me at the movies?” “Daddy can I please come to work with you? I just want to suck your cock 🥺”

I’d be completely and totally yours 💕

Missionary is underrated. It's the best position for spitting in your mouth.

Brats are clearly so strong and powerful and hard to manage. They definitely aren't adorable malleable little playthings. Oh noooo, please don't be sassy and disrespectful whatever will I do? How could a humble dom like me ever tame such uncontrollable beasts?

I couldn't possibly pin you down by the neck and overstimulate you until you see stars.

Or use your throat as a fleshlight until your gag reflex gets a thorough workout.

Or whip you over my knee with my belt until you beg for forgiveness.

Or double stuff you with dildos until you sob from the overstimulation.

Or use you as a naked coffee table for a few hours.

Or spank your cunt with a paddle until it's raw.

Or rail you from behind until you're exhausted.

Or make you write lines telling me how naughty you are.

Or grind on your face to get myself off.

Or make you grind on my thigh until you cum.

Or lock you in a dog crate and jerk off onto you through the bars.

Or finger you until you squeal then stuff my fingers in your mouth.

Or edge you until you beg.

Or toss you around like a ragdoll.

Or see how many fingers you can fit in your ass until your whole body shakes.

Or nibble on your neck and play with your panties until you're a drooling mess.

Or tease your holes with a dildo until you're in a hazy trance.

Or keep you tied under my desk all day.

Or make you do chores for me gagged and dressed as a maid.

Or put a remote control vibrator inside you.

Or make you eat out of a dog bowl on the ground.

Or keep you plugged all day.

Or take away your ability to wear clothes in the house.

Or strap you into a fucking machine for a few hours.

Or skullfuck you with a dildo until you cry for me.

Or keep you needy and denied all day.

Or tie you up and cover you in bite marks.

Or make you hump my boot until you forget what you were even bratting about in the first place.

Or - Anyway, brats are so powerful and scary obviously, and definitely not adorable little sluts that are actually quite easy to use.

Every sadist butch needs a pretty bunny femme to come home to, eager to be put in her place

She’s probably sad bro, play with her nipples for a bit and let her brain turn off