"Never Give Someone A Spot Above You On Your List Of Most Important Things. Because You Should Always

blue night radio ♡ 170316 translation: cosmicsticks

■ jonghyun: i’m someone who is a little gloomy. i’m someone who shows this side of myself rather than to hide it and i think that’s okay. if there are some people who are bright and chirpy then, surely, there are people who are gloomy and melancholic too. this is something that a fan told me once: even if you were to keep showing how hard of a time you’re having rather than try to hide it …, you express it as the seasons in you. i think that’s fine too, to always stay in your winter. though i don’t know why you keep looking on the bright side in order to bring out the spring in you. […] one can’t be bright three hundred sixty five days per yer. being bright and happy three hundred sixty five days a year is kind of an illness in itself, isn’t it? humans have to have emotional ups and downs. ■ lee ji hyung: but then …, isn’t there someone who is bright all year around? go young bae-ssi? ■ jonghyun: eh …, go young bae-ssi is also sometimes … just sometimes … down.

You better fuckin believe it [x]

Here have a vine compilation that I made and enjoy I’m not late to the party or anything (update for part two)

The start of a new thing...

So, my name is Alisha and I have one other tumblr, but I decided that I wanted to start a tumblr where I can make friends...Give advice...Help people if they need words of wisdom...Encouraging people...etc... If you need any of that please do not hesitate to ask me anything or message me. My Tumblr is a judgement free zone. 

BTW: If you are a fan of anything Korean (dramas, music) just let me know and we can talk about that! I hope that you all have a good day and don’t let any negativity get in you head-space because you are better than that!

My truth...

Most people ask me if my life is perfect because I am happy all the time, but honestly I'm not. Sometimes life is really hard for me and I don't know if I'll be okay, but I know that if I keep my head up and stay positive that only good things can come from that. Life is never as negative as we think it is, it is just a product of our mindset.

My truth is that yeah sometimes I'm not happy, but that's okay. We don't need to continue to live life as if it's a bad thing to be unhappy sometimes. Sometimes there is not light at the end of the tunnel sometimes there is not greener grass on the other side and sometimes the sun doesn't shine when it rains. Tres humans that's okay because that's how life is. If we can learn to understand that and to accept that then we're already one step closer to the happiness that we're looking for.

So with that in mind I wish nothing but happiness and positivity for anyone who chooses to follow me. Are people who don't follow me just everyone. Because everyone deserves to find happiness and everyone deserves to know that not being okay is the most okay thing.

Dear teen girls,

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive. 

The sun has finally set and night has fallen upon us.

Yet my heart is uneased by the notion that this night that has come to us will inevitably be my last.

No sorrow shall I feel for I have lived the life worth the freedom that comes with death.

Shall I beg death to hear my pleas? Shall I plead and reason with death to not rip my soul from me and cast me into the eternity in which my body remembers fully?

Death is not a bargainer. Death does not simply trade your soul for nothing. Nor does Death fain ignorance for the simple minded.

My time has come and my soul I will not bargain with Death for. I have lived a life worth living and now is my time to die a death I have died a thousand times before.

This night; however lovely, will be my last. I just pray the morning will be just as beautiful.