You think you're staying "informed" by doomscrolling through your social feeds 24/7? That's exactly what they want. It's literally designed to keep you angry, scrolling, and - most importantly - doing absolutely fucking nothing.
HERE'S WHAT NO ONE TELLS YOU:
It's OKAY to edit your feeds so you don't see that shit when you're just trying to exist
You do NOT have to consume the world's suffering every second of every day to be a "good activist" - and by the way? You're not even getting "informed" by scrolling. You need to actually look up real articles OFF of social media to understand what's happening
Hitting like and share isn't activism. Sorry. It just isn't.
You wanna actually do something?
Learn your neighbors' names. ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM about what's happening
Join your school board and ask them face-to-face why they're against queer education
Stand up to your racist uncle instead of "keeping the peace" (peace for WHO exactly?)
Find out what abortion rights groups are ALREADY DOING in your area instead of reinventing the wheel
Join an actually inclusive church (you know, like Jesus would've wanted) and see what they're ALREADY DOING to make the world better
And for fuck's sake, stop saying "oh I don't talk about politics" - YOUR SILENCE IS POLITICAL
NEWSFLASH: You don't have to start the fucking underground railroad by yourself. That shit ALREADY EXISTS - you just never had to use it before. Lucky you. So volunteer if you're a safe person, at whatever level works for you:
Send money
Show up in person
Pack supplies
Make pamphlets
Whatever you can do
Not everything's gonna get you in the history books and you know what? IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER.
And here's something else that matters: Going to trauma therapy - REAL trauma therapy with a therapist informed in decolonization practices - is a RADICAL ACT. If you have the means to do it, DO IT. Healing yourself is part of the work too.
AND LISTEN UP BECAUSE THIS IS IMPORTANT: IT'S OKAY THAT IT TOOK YOU THIS LONG IT'S OKAY THAT YOU'RE STARTING SMALL IT'S OKAY THAT YOU DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING
NO ONE EVER PUNISHED THEMSELVES INTO SUCCESS.
You grew up with some racist/sexist views? Yeah, most of us did. You can't get stuck there. There's too much at stake. It's time to deconstruct. It's time to do the work.
But scrolling and sharing posts while feeling guilty? That's not the work. That's what they want you to think the work is.
Get off your phone. Talk to your neighbors. Show up at meetings. Stand up to family. THAT'S the work.
Thinkin about how as kids parents told us to clean our rooms without having ever shown us how to themselves, taught us any organizational skills, spatial management, or any other knowledge necessary to know how to efficiently tackle a mess without getting overwhelmed and then got exasperated when we as ten year olds didn’t just……figure it out
Saw Atomic Blonde last night. The above quote was my favourite line in the film. An excellent film which I will see again :)
you look different when you tell the truth. your eyes change.
You know what I don’t get? When fanfic authors apologize for long chapters. It’s like? You gave me bonus content, for free, and you’re sorry about it? Bruh. I have already named my firstborn after you. Dude.
Me: (describing hot Clexa bath scene)
Pal: So ... which episode is that from?
Me: Oh ... um, the scene’s from a beautiful fanfic from Nordyr. You should read it.
Pal: Are you watching the 100 anymore?
Me: Yes... ish.
fanfic recommendation for someone who never read a fanfic?
Hi! Ok that’s a cool challenge. Please keep in mind that I’m leaving a lot of great fics out, some because it’s humanly impossible to remember everything and others because I refuse to make a list the size of the bible. Anyway, I hope you like my suggestions ^-^
If you don’t mind a bit of sexy times:
more women than warriors (modern au) by steklir is possibly my favourite fic of all time
in love and war and politics (modern au) by centuriesofexistence is hands down one of the best Clexa fics there is
what heart’s ease must queens neglect (modern royalty au) by thrace is just absolutely brilliant
blood rush in he hazy glow (modern au) by firetestsgold will always be a favourite of mine
oh you’ll find me between (the devil and the deep blue sea) (pirates au) by orangeyouglad8 is an awesome story with pirates and treasure hunts and mysteries ahoy
broken wands (fwb au) by smallamountsofmonster is one of my favourite HP au’s ever
she got me up all night (all i’m singing’ is love songs) (modern au) by mostlyunstablefangirl is my go-to happy one-shot
fight me series (modern au + canonverse) by fairytaleslayer is a beautiful second-person series of fics, two au and one canon
a pleasant undoing by mopeytropey (modern au) is one of those fics that I love, when the characters are roughly my age and I relate (and it’s simply amazing)
touch or carry (modern au) by paintthebrain has Clexa as beach volleyball players - need I say anything else?
suburbia (modern au) by raspberrytree has confident, sure of herself Lexa and it’s both sexy and fun
what is this feeling? (HP au) by aiscrimson is a soulmates au in the HP universe
“i found love” series (modern au) by crumbleduppieceofpaper wrecked me when I read the first one and is now patching me back up
black magic (magic au) by paintthebrain is awesome awesome awesome awesome awesome - awesooooome
two’s company series (modern au) by careyelizabeth is a wonderful ballet au
mystic coffee (magic au) by blindwire is magic, coffee shops, magic tattoos, tiny pet dragons, cool Clarke, and Lexa is glasses all wrapped into one
lifetimes (royalty au) by 8hedaofhearts8 is one of the most underrated fics there are - I love it to bits and pieces, it’s easily a top-5 of mine
if you don’t mind a lot of sexy times:
open windows, open hearts (modern au) by Sheisme is one of the hottest clexa fics out there
loving you in the light & dark series (modern au) by Tanagariel is one of the first I ever read
bare my soul (modern au) by Tanagariel was one of the first to explore the theme and it’s great
you’re fired (so yeah you win) (modern au) by LaFlashdrive was THE smutty fic in its time
this is heaven in hiding (modern au) by orangeyouglad is sexy, ridiculously well written, and fun
the whore’s queen (royal and medieval au) by w0rldofmy0wn is my current obsession
bought, owned, earned series (modern au) by sassymajesty is hot as hell and hits you hard on the feels
fearless. (modern au) by lordvoldyfarts is possibly the best road trip au ever
if you prefer your fics smut-free:
six (mythology au) by LingeringLillies is a beautiful, beautiful take on the Hades/Persephone story
habromanic (modern au) by alittlesoulcarryingacorpse is a sweet and witty one-shot
greencard (modern au) by coeurdastronaute (x and x) is heartbreaking but bloody fucking beautiful
the lay of looking-glass land series (canonverse) by KL_Morgan is a fantastic take on azgeda!clarke, it’s honestly so so great
in the shallows (canonverse au) by blindwire is my favourite role reversal fic
falcon (modern au) by anonbeme is the age gap fic you’ve all been looking for
light a thousand fires under me. (modern au) by sovereignchicken is a beautiful high school au that deals with peer expectations
hooked on a feeling (HP au) by onebigroughdraft is my favourite bundle of joy
love remember me (sweetly and tenderly) by betteronpaper is, like this friend of mine’s other fics, ridiculously well written and beautifully bittersweet
special category: comedy
the 300 (modern au) by bucklethorpe is pure hilarity and beautiful fluff
the business of caring (modern au) by coldmackerel is simply hilarious
it’s called contraband for a reason (prison au) by coldmackerel can’t be described
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I apologise once again to everyone whose fics I forgot to include or decided not to - I do love them.