"you're Telling Us To Be Content With Only Experiencing Something In Imagination"

what personally helped me in my shifting journey.

ʚɞ i learned that nothing is truly needed. it was always about want. if i didn’t want to do something, i didn’t do it. simple.

ʚɞ i formed my own opinions and beliefs. i would always follow what other people said about shifting and never really tried to think of what i personally believed.

ʚɞ i learned not to care about doubts or limited beliefs— which is easier said than done. i think it’s so easy for me because i know doubts will not slow down my journey. i know i have the ability to shift whenever i want to, no matter what.

ʚɞ misinformation truly didn’t matter to me anymore. even if you have been fed with misinformation, you can still shift either way. because there is no right or wrong way to shift— i think just clearing your mind and getting rid of that misinformation is more freeing instead of it being required.

ʚɞ i stopped looking for proof. i would always try to shift just because i wanted to prove it to people, but i realized i didn’t need to prove anything to anyone. shifting is a personal journey, they can find proof themselves. i will prove it to myself instead

ʚɞ i stopped looking for the “key” to shifting. every night i would open tumblr, looking for advice that would somehow make everything click. girl, everything already clicked. i know what i need, or WANT to know. and there is no key to shifting, why would there be a key if there’s nothing to unlock?

ʚɞ i don’t think of it as imagining, i think of it as remembering. those are my memories. they aren’t just daydreams, that is already my life. i experienced that. i am always in my DR.

ʚɞ when you’re living your life in your DR, all it takes is a simple decision if you want to go back to your CR. “i want to go back,” and you will go back. i think of shifting to my DR the same way. it’s all a decision— and it’s instant.

“RING RING! FAILURE’S CALLING…” “SORRY, YOU HAVE THE WRONG NUMBER.”

| | THE 411 ON HOW TO NEVER FAIL AGAIN | |

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ﾟ failure is an identity and a choice ࿐

✰ TABLE OF CONTENTS ✰

✰ FAILURE IS A SKIN YOU CHOOSE TO WEAR ✰

✰ WHY SOME OF YOU KEEP “FAILING” ON REPEAT ✰

✰ THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF CONCEPT ✰

Hey Upper East Siders. We hear failure’s calling, you keep picking up the phone, and you can’t seem to hang up. And since failure’s unheard of on the upper east side, here’s everything you need to know about why you’re a failure, and how to stop being one.

✰ FAILURE IS A SKIN YOU CHOOSE TO WEAR ✰

Want to know what the fashionistas of the upper east side are wearing? Well it’s certainly not what you’re wearing. And as we all know, you need a good sense of style to choose what to wear, and failure is the one thing that’ll never be in fashion. Especially not on the upper east side. Don’t mind me judging your outfit…I think I see your horns growing. First of all, start off by understanding that nothing is meant to be difficult for you. You’ve just made it difficult for yourself.

Luckily for you, outfits aren’t permanent. And you can change them quicker than S switches boyfriends. And failure, is merely a hideous outfit that you’re choosing to wear. And in the world of fashion, your outfit is who you are. Before I help you change your style, let’s find out why you’re such a failure. Can’t solve the problem without knowing the root of the cause first, right?

✰ WHY SOME OF YOU KEEP “FAILING” ON REPEAT ✰

Somehow, every time you tell yourself that you’re going to persist and manifest whatever it was that you wanted, you fail. But when you want a cup of coffee, suddenly you’re god. But when it comes to your dream life, you’re suddenly a pathetic, powerless human being.

Ever wonder why that is?

Guess. Ding ding ding. It’s because your standards are low. Painfully low. Don’t look so confused. Let me show you. “I want my dream life so I persisted and I manifested a dream about my desired life!! ” is that what you call…success? Just when I thought you couldn’t stoop lower! Here’s another pathetic example. “I persisted to manifest my desired face and my eyelashes grew!!”

Don’t get me wrong upper east siders, but you settle for the lowest of the low. And that’s why you never get what you want. You’ve conditioned “success” with small things. You associate success with only a fraction of the thing you wanted. And never the full thing. You’ve adopted the assumption that you can’t manifest “big” things. (There’s no such thing as big and small but you know what I mean). It’s simply not natural to you.

Another big reason you keep failing is because you’re used to failure, which has led to a lack of trust/faith in yourself. It’s almost second nature to you. A wise woman called the wizard liz once said, “how can you trust yourself, if you keep promising yourself things and you don’t follow through?”

Truer words have never been spoken. It’s almost as if you know you’re going to end up failing. You’ve promised yourself your dream life several times, and you’ve clearly failed every time, and now you’ve got little to no trust in yourself. You know what’s going to happen, again. And that cycle is never going to end. You’ve almost broken every link in the chain. Almost. You can’t conceive of a world where you have everything you want. You view failure as an option. You don’t identify with your real creator/god self who cannot fail. And that’s exactly the problem.

I’ve got a friend called self concept and she’s either the root of the problem, or the solver of it. *Ring ring*!! I think she’s calling…

✰ THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF CONCEPT ✰

As we all famously know, your self concept is your assumptions about yourself and the world around you. It is literally everything. Every little assumption you have about yourself. It’s evident in everything and I mean everything that you do or say. The way you treat others, the way you treat yourself, the way you experience the world and most importantly, your FEELINGS. Your feelings come from SELF. Feeling scared? That’s who you’re identifying with. The outer self is the only one who can feel such negative feelings about the law of assumption, never the inner/god self who knows their full power.

And if it wasn’t obvious by now, your self concept is buried six feet underground, along with everything you’ve ever wanted. I hope you didn’t get a recent manicure…I hear knocking on the casket you’ve buried her in.

If I wasn’t clear enough before, let’s point out what your self concept looks like. Your standards are low and you’re used to failure. Yikes!

Now that you know why you keep failing, you can finally put it to an end. Hang up with failure, cause success is calling. It’s time to change your self concept from someone who always fails, to someone who only succeeds.

You know exactly what i’m going to say…and it’s change your assumptions!!! Your self concept IS your assumptions. Change self = change self concept. Same thing. And as you already know, to manifest anything, you change self (changing your awareness to being the person who has whatever it is that you “desire”).

From now on, failure is unheard of for you, success is your new best friend. I hope you weren’t expecting a step by step guide. For something so simple. All you need is your mind. Stop feeling like a failure. Start feeling successful. Knowing that you’re successful no matter what.

Still feeling lost? Surprisingly, i’ll let you off this time, but after this, no more excuses. -> CLICK ME for the perfect self concept!

Success is calling and your hand is inches away from the phone. You know what to do. XOXO

- gossip girl

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"what you experience the very next second, is because you KNOW you will. You are aware, with no doubts."

As you said this, I got a doubt

Let's take an example - I was walking on a road and a car hit me. Did I know that the car will hit me?

You KNOW yourself to live in a world full of uncertainties, a world that could harm 'you', a world with potential threats.

If you KNOW your true nature, your boundless existence, that you're all there is, you can drop any idea of any harm coming to your experience in any way. Because not a single thing can defy what you decide, only if you KNOW and accept the limitless being you are.

These pointers are not for you to just read and dismiss, I'm not talking to this limited being you identify yourself with. Go within, beyond the surface level with these pointers. If any doubts come ponder on them yourself. Why something can, why something can't, it's all because of YOU. It all points you to your SELF.

O total é indiscutível e essencial, além de ser formidável e pura beleza.

Eu sou Tudo e isso abrange tudo aquilo que a mente inexistente pensa ser narrado. Opostos sempre serão dois lados da mesma moeda, antônimos são contrariadores que coexistem e entram em extinção quando o outro é retirado da equação. Eu sou Tudo isso.

Em um debate eu sou a favor e contra, ciência e religião, preto e branco, noite e dia. Sou o que resta quando esses conceitos deixam de ser considerados.

Eu sou Um aparecendo como dois. Eu posso porque Eu sou.

Oneness- Direct Experience.

What does non duality mean to you? Does that mean two, or does that mean ONE?

And if there's only ONE, doesn't that mean that you can never 'not experience oneness', that is your SELF. Awareness. THAT. " ". Or whatever you call it.

When you say you aren't having direct experience, or you're waiting for that direct experience, what it looks like from my pov is that ONENESS, Awareness is waiting to experience being Itself.

Is it Cassandra pretending to be oneness, Or is it oneness expressing itself disguised as some Cassandra?

" " waiting to experience being " " ?

That doesn't make sense, because how can you not experience being yourself. When that's your Default nature, and you're all there is?

The freedom, and direct experience you so desperately seek wouldn't be found through your endless search. Because;

You are that freedom. You are THE experience.You are all Around you. Because you are all there is.

It's only a matter of noticing. So stop seeking, start noticing. Be aware of this subtle yet very evident truth. That's all there is to do.

how long do I have to keep noticing self/ " "? because I do keep noticing self and I understand exactly what y'all are talking about but as I move on with my day or as I stop "becoming aware of being aware" I again start identifying with this body and mind, I just want to know, will my identification with this person naturally go away as I keep noticing self more and more?

Quoting @illusionaurie ;

It's up to you. How long do you think it will take? What are you waiting for exactly? There is no process at all, there is no person going through a continuity of trying, just Notice now. It’s not a gradual process, there’s no “how long do I need to”, it’s not a long thing that eventually shows you. You just notice / go within / see for yourself Now and that’s it. If you wait and think it’s a gradual journey you’ll be waiting a long time.

It appears to take as long as you decide. If you noticed how everything around you is just you humoring yourself, " " experiencing " ", why did you feel the need of sending this ask? What I'm trying to say is, don't think it's a process with a set destination. There is no enlightenment waiting. No one to be realised.

Who's the one that needs to know HOW LONG? Aren't you being SELF right now? What exactly are you waiting for?

To answer your question in short; "Will my identification with body and mind go away as I keep noticing self more and more"

You're still thinking that Self and this "I" are some separate entities. But is there anything to reach, or wait for, when SELF is all there is? What are you seeking exactly. It's ONENESS. And that's it.

There is nothing to get rid of. No place to reach. Just BE, right now. Noticing is not a task you have to repeat over and over again, no. Once is always enough. Just notice the perfection of this very moment, in this very moment, because this moment is all that will ever be.

It's your choice.

If you want to limit yourself, limit yourself.

If you want to run in a circle, run.

If you want to blame everyone but yourself, blame them.

If you want to keep searching for the next decade, search.

If you want to chase your desires, chase them.

If you want to continue asking a thousand questions, ask.

If you want to add a thousands limits, add them.

If you want to be limited, be it.

If you want to stay where you are, stay.

If you want to rely on everyone but yourself, do that.

If you want to victimize yourself, do it.

If you want to keep thinking you are suffering, keep thinking that.

If you want to wait until your "aha" moment, wait.

If you want to chase enlightenment, chase.

If you want to be frustrated at bloggers for not giving you what you expect, be frustrated.

If you want to give up, give up.

If you want to believe every thought, do it.

If you want to cry all the time, cry.

If you want a manual, rules and limits about this, make them for yourself.

-> What can happen? Nothing.

-> What can improve? Nothing.

-> What will change? Nothing.

What can we do? Stop you?

You've read more than enough posts and still refuse to BE.

Have fun. It's your own choice.

@infiniteko / Chen

You already Are.

Breathe, and take a look around you, whatever you see. It's NOTHING. Nothing but YOU. I know there's nothing left for me to say, but here's a heart to heart.

The air you're breathing right now, that's you. Keeping y/n alive. The tears your eyes have ever shed, and the sound of your loud and precious laughter, that's you. Experiencing how emotionally rich this 'life' is, playing with yourself, in this beautiful Dream you spun for yourself.

Even in the depth of the sadness, and peak of your joy, you've always been experiencing yourself. You've always been YOU. There's no escaping you, because you are all there is.

It hurts at times and looks too difficult, but you're not on a journey here. You can always take a step back. It's hard, I know. That's just how you made this play to be, And now you're too deeply indulged to just let go and realise you've always been free.

Emotions are a beautiful experience, as long as you remember that's also just you experiencing yourself. They are nothing to trap yourself in.

You already ARE all that you wish for. Always have been. I need you to do this with me, okay?

Take a deep breath, and let your thoughts be. Look around you. Whatever thoughts come up, let them be. The objects around you, whatever they might be, take away their labels. It's a Chair? No, take that label away. What's left?

" ". Silence. A space. That silence, that NOTHING is what everything is, that's what you Are. That pure awareness, which comes before any labels and titles, that's what you are.

No matter what you do. Wherever you go. You can never not be THAT. That's why I say, you always Are.

How can you not be, when you come before everything else. Always. Everything exists because you do.

You're so perfect. So beautiful. Complete and whole, in every way, on your own. And those are facts. The truth. Even in moments you don't feel that way, even if you feel like you're not going anywhere with this experience, there's not a single thing that can ever possibly hurt you.

You're Independent of it all. Because you're all there is.

It's all perfect, breathe. Remember. Notice this simple truth. Accept it. You're so much more than you could've ever imagined, even words cannot do justice to your grand existence.

You're beyond Every breathtaking poetry ever written, and any surreal painting ever made. Beyond every mystically cosmic star ever discovered, and beyond every beautiful sculpture ever carved.

You are. And isn't that beautiful, perfect, to be you?

I love you all. I really do. I am nothing but a part of your dream, a figment of your imagination. And my pointers can only help you as much as you'd let me.

Take care🩵

How to actually manifest once and for all

Instead of this -

I can't do this.

It's not working.

I should affirm more.

Am I doing it right?

I didn't affirm enough today.

I didn't try this technique yet.

It just doesn't work for me.

My circumstances are "different" (This one is the WORSTTTTTT).

Why doesn't it work for me???? (Whining incoming).

I can manifest this but not that.

It's hard for me.

Why am I THE EXCEPTION??????

Can I MANIFEST this??

How can I MANIFEST this?

Do this -

It's already done.

But - IT'S ALREADY DONE.

No, it's already done.

Yes, it's already done.

Still, it's already done.

Nope, it's already done.

For god's sake it's already done.

Oh lord, it's already done.

Yep, it's already done.

It's already done.

How different is "that" to mindfulness?

Mindfulness is another made up concept.

“That” is all there is.