Toulousejanvier - Toulouser

Skate Kitchen (2018) dir. Crystal Moselle

the sexual tension between me & the alternate reality I daydream about

You should delete tumblr. Do it

my mum just called "scrolling on Tumblr" "scrumbling"

My love language is sending gifs about love to my friends

How do we tell the sea that we are drowning on land?

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.