Actually Feeling Extremely Melancholy About Radio Silence Now

at first gromit afraid

gromit petrified

Challengers - the movie about a girl who just really wanted to watch some good fucking tennis

i love being independent but i also want someone to love and talk to but i always want to be left alone but im also lonely

girls are so pretty!!

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.

I sometimes wonder, February, if i still know you, or if you're just an echo in time, just a memory, an illusion i cling to so i don't lose my mind like i lost you

Of course that would mean that i ever had you to begin with, which is an illusion in itself

Elliott from call me by your name

people who are "so gender" according to me, an androgynous transmasc person

aled last

dallon weekes

remus lupin

charlie spring

leif donnely

chandler bing

agari himiko

feel free to rb if you agree with any of these / want to add more :))

it is my hope and dream that everyone on tumblr can go outside and visit a gay bar or go to a queer event and see that our community is very beautiful and very diverse and that half the internet discourse isn’t real