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me when trumeds blame The Trenders tm every time cis people do something bigoted

okay but like. Queerphobia is queerphobia. Disrespecting microlabels/MOGAI and not welcoming them in the community accomplishes nothing. It’s just queerphobic. The arguments you use against them have been used against you, but by appealing to the monogamous cishet society, you assimilate. They see you as “one of the good ones”, not as fully equal. You are not paving the way for acceptance of queer identities; you are paving the way for toleration of “understandable” and cishet appealing queer identities. Identities where it’s possible for them to pretend you’re not very queer at all.

The arguments of “that doesn’t exist, you can’t just do that, you can’t be a boy or girl and look like that, this is just an attention seeking liar or abomination” towards nonbinary people in general, nonbinary microlabels, and gnc trans people has been and will be used against you. You’re not being completely accepted by society, you are blending in. You are just as queer as the people you mock, and they are just as queer as you.

But because they don’t “make sense” or “aren’t normal” or are “weird” or don’t clearly and visibly conform to cishet ideals, they are easier to turn the flame on. That flame is still there. That burning disgust and hatred of open queerness is still there. But because you are like them, because you pass and are “normal enough” to them, you have some ability to redirect the heat.

You have the privledge of passing, of being understandable to what they consider normal and acceptable, and that acceptance and toleration is at risk if you’re lumped in with clearly non-passing or conforming queer people, so you join in on their oppression. You say, “don’t hate me, hate them, I’m the normal one” when you used to not be. You bear burn scars and don’t want any more, so you push the flame to people that are easier to burn.

That heat and hatred is not gone, it’s just not directly pointing at you anymore. If someone were to use those arguments against you, which they have, you’d be hated just the same, which you were. You are not abolishing the flame, you are just redirecting it.

MOGAI, xenogenders, neopronouns, microlabels, all of them are in our community, and they always have been. Their ability to be specific and happy with their labels because they have the comfort and space to openly explore their gender and sexuality in much more depth, is not a disgrace to what we’ve built, but something to be celebrated. They feel safe enough to and have a community for terms to describe themselves as much as they want, and that is far from a bad thing. Discovery is a long and difficult process. Whatever they find and whatever they try, if it stays or not, is valid. What helps them is valid. Their queerness is valid.

All you are doing is separating yourself from that community, our community, so that you are not burned with them.

About Me

Hi, I'm Ace or Kaito- whatever you prefer! I use it/its and star/stars/starself. If you *absolutely* can't use those, just use they/them or he/him. (Otherwise I will ask you to call me either 'it' or 'star'.)

Examples of those are:

It went to the clothing store and it really enjoyed the wide selection there.

Star went to the clothing store and star really enjoyed the wide selection there.

I am fluidflux, it is similar to genderfluid where my gender may change frequently-except the intensity of the gender changes as well.

For example:

One day I am perfectly fine as a bigender but then it may shift into a demi-gender or I may be completely agender for a bit.

I'm not neurotypical, I have ADHD and MADD (Maldaptive Daydreaming, which is a dissociative disorder.)

Gender can be an extremely confusing thing for me because of the way my brain operates so I may associate with some MOGAI genders to cope. If you don't support MOGAI, kindly get off my page and block me while you are at it! :)

Quickie on why people with “weird” genders tend to be mentally ill! I know the question is asked to be rude most of the time, but I felt compelled to make this anyway :3

Reminder that it’s okay if you only use one set of pronouns !!

It’s also okay to use multiple sets of pronouns !! TONS of pronouns !! 

It’s also okay to use NO pronouns !! Or ANY/ALL pronouns !! 

🙌😌

What a lovely day to remember nondysphoric trans people are trans.

Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.

Hey, I'm very happy to say I'm aroace. After years of debating my orientation and being like 'but i thought this person was cute yesterday' or confusing romantic attraction with squishes I realize it's okay to accept myself.

Have a good day everyone :)

Neopronouns are not a “tumblr fad”. Gender neutral pronouns other than they/them have existed in the English language for actual centuries. They are not harmful to the trans community.

To those who are against neopronouns, you’re acting against the evolution of a language and acting against something that’s been around for far longer than you’ve been alive.

To those who use neopronouns, your pronouns are not harmful. You do not deserve to be made to feel ashamed for your pronouns.