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E’Dawn and Hyuna.

Admin Deruta here after a very hard two weeks. If you read the hiatus post you will understand why I have been absent recently and I really appreciate the messages you guys have been sending me to help me through this hard time. Thank you all for the love and support and I really apologize that my first (and most likely only) post on iG7M for a little while longer is nothing but a rant. Let’s get started; 

E'Dawn and Hyuna confirmed that they have been dating for two years when scandals came out and started getting both sides hated on by Netizens. Can I just say off of the bat that it’s not anybody’s business what an idol does with who behind closed doors as long it’s not illegal and it makes them happy? The shitstorm coming of them confirming their relationship is not only harming Hyuna and E'Dawn themselves but it’s hurting Pentagon and the other idols people are accusing of having relationships just because they were seen with someone or they mentioned someone’s name. 

News flash; It’s not your business who they date, it’s not MY business who they date, it’s not their manager’s business and it damn sure isn’t the internet’s business. It’s called a *personal* life for a reason and I feel that it’s inappropriate to demand to know about a relationship just to shit on it and make them feel bad for dating. 

Do you know how scared Hyuna and E'Dawn must have been to reveal it? Think about it; They hid their love for one another for 2 years most likely out of fear that shit like this would happen. 730+ Days that they’ve been happy together is being ruined and so is E'Dawn’s relationship and career. Is that fair? Is it truly fair to just invade their privacy and play with things that don’t relate to us? I haven’t seen anything from Hyuna’s side going down yet but E'Dawn? People are DEMANDING that he be removed from Pentagon over this shit and he’s even started sitting out of promotions. Will you finally be happy when he leaves Pentagon?

If you truly loved your idols, you wouldn’t pry in their personal lives then shit on their relationship because you’re mad about them dating or who they are dating. They didn’t have to trust you enough to tell you in the first place and you had to throw it back in their face because you’re upset? Think about how upset your idol must be, in this case it being E'Dawn. I know Hyuna is probably hurt as well but E'Dawn is actually giving everyone what they want right now and that isn’t fair to him, Pentagon, the management they are under or the true fans who are trying to support the relationship that makes him happy like myself. 

Why stop supporting Pentagon because of dating and scandals? That’s literally the dumbest shit I have ever heard and if you can drop an idol because they have a girlfriend/boyfriend, you don’t at all deserve that idol and you don’t deserve the title of their fandom on your name. 

You don’t know how much you are actually damaging their relationship, career and lives. Apparently you guys don’t want your idols to be happy but you instead want them to be alone and depressed for their whole lives. Would it make you happier if E'Dawn broke up with Hyuna after 2 years because you guys wanted him too then he leaves Pentagon and just disappears? No? Then stop the bullshit. You don’t have any idea what idols go through off camera and behind closed doors so to spit in their face because of their relationship is just ridiculous. 

2018 is almost over and I can tell you what; All fandoms need to change TODAY. No mare wars, no more uproaring about the small things and no more invading the privacy of an idol’s live. It’s not your business what they do behind closed doors and if you believe differently you need to wake up. When people are depressed they start to hide from the public, hurt themselves and they sometimes go as far as committing suicide to get away from the pain that has fallen on them. I’m not at all saying that Hyuna or E'Dawn will commit suicide because of this but it’s a possibility and if you’re one of the people who is sending them hate and purposely trying to make them feel bad just because they’re happy together, you really need a reality check. 

If they had to hide their love for one another for 2 years that means they were scared of this reaction. They finally felt like they could trust their fans enough to come clean and admit that they’re happy with each other and that they’re ready to be public about how much love they hold. Well, thanks to the assholes, they could possibly end their relationship because they came out about the one thing they were too scared to share with the world. I hope you’re happy that you’re ruining a relationship for no reason at all. 

In 2019 I don’t WANT to see this shit for any idol but I guess beggars can’t be choosers right? We’re nothing but fans of singers. We don’t have a say in what they do, wear, say, eat or date and it needs to stay that way. You aren’t their mother so stop acting like you run their life and everything you say about them or to them is the most important thing in the world and they need to follow your wishes. Life doesn’t work that way. 

Leave Hyuna and E'Dawn alone about their relationship before something bad happens. They aren’t harming you in any way, you’re just being a bitch to be a bitch. 

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