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Me, whenever Ida speaks:
Friendly reminder that Alastor is aroace. I personally think you can ship him however much you want, I can’t control that, but it’s disappointing that a majority of the fandom choose to romanticise and hyper sexualise him. It makes it so that he’s only portrayed as aro/ace in a minority of the fandom. A lack of sexual or romantic attraction isn’t boring, it’s not uninteresting. I want it to be normalised. Yes you can ship him but respect his canon sexual orientation, as much as you’d respect any other part of the community 💜
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there’s really good representation for this in the WEBTOON Friend With Benefits. (I know how the title sounds, trust me, it’s not like that.) the main character is sex repulsed but they aren’t always made to feel broken, damaged, or wrong because of this. And her partner even adapts to his needs.
Gonna piss off half of tumblr with just one take because its gotten to the point now that its personal;
Being a sex repulsed ace is okay and you are not "wrong" or "broken" because of your fears and discomforts
Thankyou for coming to my Ted talk the amount of times I hear people shit on sex repulsed asexuals is honestly infuriating
-sincerely a sex repulsed asexual
CASTLE SWIMMER S2 SPOILERS AHEAD
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Seriously don't read if you're not completely caught up!
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I just got caught up on Castle Swimmer and HOLY SHIT THE REUNION WAS EVERYTHING I WANTED AND MORE!!!
I cannot wait for next season! Now that the two found families have collided we get MEGA FOUND FISH FAMILY!!!
Also I was so pleasantly surprised with the ace/aro rep this season! I already found the hints of backstory interesting but that coupled with the emotional breakdown and fan theory fuel in the last few chapters just made me connect with Neths character so much more. Really well done Wendy👏👏👏
I just saw someone say "Ace people get all the rep." And I'm just????? What the hell are you even talking about?????
I can think of two ace characters.
Saiki K, and that one person from Heartstopper
I know that's not all of the canon ace characters out there, but as someone who doesn't.t interact with any inherently queer media (it's all romance based. Gross and boring, coming from an aromantic person.), that's all I can come up with.
How the fuck is that "all of the rep"?
@jonmartinweek
representation matters 🫧
We don’t just want hero rep we want all rep otherwise people might think we’re all boring
I’ve seen some confusion about this lately, so just to clarify:
Every character with a mostly green color scheme is canonically aromantic.
Every character with a mostly purple color scheme is canonically asexual.
Neither of these are up for debate. Hope that helps!
I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.
hello ^^
i have been trying to come up with a list of aro/ace bl series characters, wether it's canon or not
for now i have : MY LOVE MIX-UP - Ida/Kongtap ; WANDEE GOODDAY - Plakao ; EVERY YOU EVERY ME - the store employee in the 1st ep & Parinth ; OSSAN's LOVE (jp) - Takegawa ? ; PLAYBOYY - Zouey ? ; BE MY FAVORITE - Kawi ?
the list is so short :(( but if you have more please please share
Hey also if anyone has some aro/ace/aroace book rece for stories that aren’t ABOUT being aroace but still include it? I just want to see some rep without it being the entire plot. I want to see myself in characters that aren’t defined by being aroace but also see and accept their aro/aceness.
I need some Ace or Aro / AroAce book recommendations!
I've read Loveless and cried at it so many times just relating to it so much.
So please send me recommendations!!
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