I Don’t Know What You Mean By Sexualized, I Don’t See How She Is Sexualized?

Hey :) I sent you an anonymous message on here asking if you were of Romani heritage since your username is a slur that is used against Romani people to oppress and dehumanize them. You never responded to my knowledge so I just wanted to ask if you knew of how harmful that word is and the struggles Romani people face like displacement, genocide, poverty, and racism. I understand you are apart of the peaky blinders fandom but that does not excuse using a slur, the show itself is somewhat problematic for using Romani stereotypes and non Romani people to portray them. I hope to hear back from you if possible.

A Welcome Surprise

Pairing- Cillian Murphy and Reader - Not based on real life. Thank you for your support, would love to hear your thoughts!

Summary- I used my couple from The Other Woman, for this fic. Cillian has been away for weeks, and Y/n wants to surprise him.

Your stress levels were high, as you made your way through the hotel. Cillian was here somewhere, doing a Q&A for Oppenheimer. After a long flight, you had showered and changed in his PA’s room. Wanting to be fresh when you saw him. The weather was a lot warmer here, than at home.

He literally had no idea you were here. It had been weeks, since you saw each other. Since he saw his daughter too, and you knew he was struggling. Working long days, answering the same questions over and over. Having to be sociable, it was his idea of hell.

You had travelled alone with Niamh, for the first time. Surprisingly it had gone smoothly. Of course it helped, that Cillian’s PA had booked you into first class. Had a driver to meet you, and help you with your bags.

You had spoken to Cillian late last night, before your flight. Telling him you were going to a cottage, with your friend Liv. So you may not get signal. He had another week to go in LA, he was due to pick up an award at the Palm Springs Film Festival. He had already confessed how home sick he was.

Rushing along the corridor, you knocked on Cillian’s door. He was still working, but his team were waiting for him. When his PA Lyndsey opened the door, you quickly entered.

“Little Princess is still asleep,” she smiled, as you walked through to check. Cillian had a huge suite, so Niamh was sleeping in the bedroom. She looked tiny on his King Size bed.

“Thank you for watching her, I was desperate for a shower,” you responded, hearing a tap on the door. The unmistakable voice of your fiancée, chatting to someone. Your heart began to race.

“Quick, back in the bedroom,” Lyndsey whispered, ushering you away. “Let him come in,” You paced the room, while you waited. Hearing the main door close, as they began to chat.

“It wasn’t as long as last night,” Cillian answered, while you slowly opened the door. Creeping out, he stood with his back to you. “Still busy though, loads of people there. Fuck, it's hot in here,"

Lyndsey nodded, smiling at him. “Well you have a few hours now, to relax. You know just to catch up,” You swore she was more excited, than you were.

“Catch up?” He asked, confused. Feeling a pair of hands, covering his eyes. “What the?” Quickly spinning around, he gasped to find you in front of him.

“Holy fuck… shit,” His mouth went dry, eyes filling with tears. "Shit.... fuck,"

"Are you going to stand there and swear, or kiss your poor woman?" Gareth his stylist laughed. Cillian clearly had no idea you were here. You had really caught him off guard.

Throwing his arms around your waist, he picked you up. Squeezing you so tightly, you could barely breathe. Spinning you around, burying his head in your hair.

"I cant believe it, fuck. Is it really you?" he asked, blinking away his emotion.

"It is really me, I couldn't not be here to see you get your award," you beamed, pressing your lips to his. God, you had missed him so much. Lifting you up, Cillian squeezed you again. Your legs wrapping around his waist.

"Guys, you are making me emotional!" Lyndsey announced, "We will leave you to it,"

You both didn't even notice his team, leaving the room. Locked together in an embrace, holding onto his strong shoulders. Lips meeting feverishly, making up for lost time. When a shrill cry interrupted your reunion.

"Shit! Is that my girl?" Cillian gasped, placing you back onto the floor. Trying to ignore his growing erection, he pulled you through to the bedroom. Niamh still laying on top of his bed, arms and legs kicking angrily. She hated being left on her own.

"Who is in here?" Cillian asked, crawling onto the bed. You couldn't stop smiling, watching her little eyes searching the room. She knew her Daddy's voice.

“Is this my little Niamh bear?" He cooed.

When her Daddy's face came into view, her blue eyes widened. Hands clenching and unclenching, excitedly. "Here she is, here she is, Daddy has missed you!" Picking her up Cillian held her close, letting her grip onto his jumper.

"You happy to see Daddy? Yes you are," you smiled, letting her grip your hand. "Mummy is happy to see Daddy too," standing next to him, he wrapped his arms round both of you.

"Fuck, I'm so glad you are here," he stated, enjoying his little reunion.

That night, you both attended the awards ceremony. You hated these types of events, you both did. Cillian was always uncomfortable with the press, the never ending questions. You hated the scrutiny, people making comments about your relationship.

Desperate for pictures of you together.

Lyndsey had arranged a babysitter, but you wouldn't stay too late. You hated leaving her. Walking hand in hand through the crowd, with Cillian's team. he turned to whisper in your ear. "You are the most beautiful woman, in here,"

"I have just seen Eva Longoria," you laughed, aware of people taking sneaky selfies of him. "She is stunning,"

"You are the only woman for me," Cillian winked, taking your hand again.

When the time came for Cillian to accept his achievement award. You were overcome, with emotion. He had worked so hard, not just on this movie. But, throughout his whole career. Although, when you were both at home, it was easy to forget what a big star he was.

He was just your Cillian. Niamh and Niall's Dad. Your fiancée, just in your little bubble. Dabbing your eyes, you sipped some water. Listening intently.

“And finally, because I never get to do this, I want to thank my family," Cillian continued. Waving over at you. "Two thirds are here with me, my beautiful fiancée, Y/n, sitting just over there," The whole crowd turned to look at you.

Oh my god.

"For putting up with me," he chuckled, "Supporting me when I take on these huge projects, they are always there for me. And I love you, thank you everyone,"

Note- Congratulations to Cillian!

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Thank you for sharing your sources, very sad to see these sorts of things happening and I wish more was done to protect the victims

It’s very sad to see such horrible and sick people make the community look bad and tear down what they have fought for

I do not believe the trans community is inherently misogynistic, but I do think that misogyny can seep in and poison the minds of some people

My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for

I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)

1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex

2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers

3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping

4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem

5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing

I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering

Please let me know your thoughts

i guess you are a trans identified male.

I was born a woman and will always be a woman

So glad we can come to a good conclusion 🫶🫶💗 much love and may peace be with you always💖

I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree

You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people

I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)

I do agree by a lot with your points

thank you if you read that

😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!

I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans

I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been

It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me

One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset

I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you

Much love 💖🫶

No matter how much I am attracted to house I know that if I worked for him I would think he was the most annoying mf on earth and quit my job working for him within a month lol

Wether or not you intended for it to be used that way it’s still a slur no matter the context. It’s not that the word can be used as a slur, it IS used as a slur. Literally what else would it be used for be serious. I don’t know how many times you had people explain to you that it’s offensive, but I don’t understand why if you know what that word is used for and how harmful it can be, why not change your username?

A Welcome Surprise

Pairing- Cillian Murphy and Reader - Not based on real life. Thank you for your support, would love to hear your thoughts!

Summary- I used my couple from The Other Woman, for this fic. Cillian has been away for weeks, and Y/n wants to surprise him.

Your stress levels were high, as you made your way through the hotel. Cillian was here somewhere, doing a Q&A for Oppenheimer. After a long flight, you had showered and changed in his PA’s room. Wanting to be fresh when you saw him. The weather was a lot warmer here, than at home.

He literally had no idea you were here. It had been weeks, since you saw each other. Since he saw his daughter too, and you knew he was struggling. Working long days, answering the same questions over and over. Having to be sociable, it was his idea of hell.

You had travelled alone with Niamh, for the first time. Surprisingly it had gone smoothly. Of course it helped, that Cillian’s PA had booked you into first class. Had a driver to meet you, and help you with your bags.

You had spoken to Cillian late last night, before your flight. Telling him you were going to a cottage, with your friend Liv. So you may not get signal. He had another week to go in LA, he was due to pick up an award at the Palm Springs Film Festival. He had already confessed how home sick he was.

Rushing along the corridor, you knocked on Cillian’s door. He was still working, but his team were waiting for him. When his PA Lyndsey opened the door, you quickly entered.

“Little Princess is still asleep,” she smiled, as you walked through to check. Cillian had a huge suite, so Niamh was sleeping in the bedroom. She looked tiny on his King Size bed.

“Thank you for watching her, I was desperate for a shower,” you responded, hearing a tap on the door. The unmistakable voice of your fiancée, chatting to someone. Your heart began to race.

“Quick, back in the bedroom,” Lyndsey whispered, ushering you away. “Let him come in,” You paced the room, while you waited. Hearing the main door close, as they began to chat.

“It wasn’t as long as last night,” Cillian answered, while you slowly opened the door. Creeping out, he stood with his back to you. “Still busy though, loads of people there. Fuck, it's hot in here,"

Lyndsey nodded, smiling at him. “Well you have a few hours now, to relax. You know just to catch up,” You swore she was more excited, than you were.

“Catch up?” He asked, confused. Feeling a pair of hands, covering his eyes. “What the?” Quickly spinning around, he gasped to find you in front of him.

“Holy fuck… shit,” His mouth went dry, eyes filling with tears. "Shit.... fuck,"

"Are you going to stand there and swear, or kiss your poor woman?" Gareth his stylist laughed. Cillian clearly had no idea you were here. You had really caught him off guard.

Throwing his arms around your waist, he picked you up. Squeezing you so tightly, you could barely breathe. Spinning you around, burying his head in your hair.

"I cant believe it, fuck. Is it really you?" he asked, blinking away his emotion.

"It is really me, I couldn't not be here to see you get your award," you beamed, pressing your lips to his. God, you had missed him so much. Lifting you up, Cillian squeezed you again. Your legs wrapping around his waist.

"Guys, you are making me emotional!" Lyndsey announced, "We will leave you to it,"

You both didn't even notice his team, leaving the room. Locked together in an embrace, holding onto his strong shoulders. Lips meeting feverishly, making up for lost time. When a shrill cry interrupted your reunion.

"Shit! Is that my girl?" Cillian gasped, placing you back onto the floor. Trying to ignore his growing erection, he pulled you through to the bedroom. Niamh still laying on top of his bed, arms and legs kicking angrily. She hated being left on her own.

"Who is in here?" Cillian asked, crawling onto the bed. You couldn't stop smiling, watching her little eyes searching the room. She knew her Daddy's voice.

“Is this my little Niamh bear?" He cooed.

When her Daddy's face came into view, her blue eyes widened. Hands clenching and unclenching, excitedly. "Here she is, here she is, Daddy has missed you!" Picking her up Cillian held her close, letting her grip onto his jumper.

"You happy to see Daddy? Yes you are," you smiled, letting her grip your hand. "Mummy is happy to see Daddy too," standing next to him, he wrapped his arms round both of you.

"Fuck, I'm so glad you are here," he stated, enjoying his little reunion.

That night, you both attended the awards ceremony. You hated these types of events, you both did. Cillian was always uncomfortable with the press, the never ending questions. You hated the scrutiny, people making comments about your relationship.

Desperate for pictures of you together.

Lyndsey had arranged a babysitter, but you wouldn't stay too late. You hated leaving her. Walking hand in hand through the crowd, with Cillian's team. he turned to whisper in your ear. "You are the most beautiful woman, in here,"

"I have just seen Eva Longoria," you laughed, aware of people taking sneaky selfies of him. "She is stunning,"

"You are the only woman for me," Cillian winked, taking your hand again.

When the time came for Cillian to accept his achievement award. You were overcome, with emotion. He had worked so hard, not just on this movie. But, throughout his whole career. Although, when you were both at home, it was easy to forget what a big star he was.

He was just your Cillian. Niamh and Niall's Dad. Your fiancée, just in your little bubble. Dabbing your eyes, you sipped some water. Listening intently.

“And finally, because I never get to do this, I want to thank my family," Cillian continued. Waving over at you. "Two thirds are here with me, my beautiful fiancée, Y/n, sitting just over there," The whole crowd turned to look at you.

Oh my god.

"For putting up with me," he chuckled, "Supporting me when I take on these huge projects, they are always there for me. And I love you, thank you everyone,"

Note- Congratulations to Cillian!

Tags - @mitchiesdungeon @cloudofdisney @lauren-raines-x @being-worthy @missymurphy1985 @janelongxox @ntmynouis @thenattitude @katsav17 @answer-the-sirens @kathrinemelissa @queenshelby @geminiwolves @lyarr24 @ysmmsy @margoo0 @mysticaldeanvoidhorse @dolllol2405 @misselsbells06@cheekybluefox @alreadybroken-ts @peaky-cillian @look-at-the-soul @lespendy @cillmequick @raychhh @captivatedbycillianmurphy @everyonesawhore @castellandiangelo @midnightmagpiemama @elenavampire21 @camilleholland89 @cljordan-imperium @peakyscillian @muhahaha303 @already-broken144 @pono-pura-vida @heidimoreton @cillshot @ietss @powerlvr25 @kmc1989 @nadloves @amberpanda99 @bernelflo @trixie23 @cilloak @laylasbunbunny @lau219 @surfin-the-sun @fiokw @in0320 @brummiereader @girlwith-thepearlearring @stilestotherescue

I genuinely think dd/lg and cnc are such disgusting “kinks”

People use the excuse of it being a “coping mechanism” but how is acting like a child who is getting rapped healing in any way

Not only that, but the disgusting men who are into these kinks are obviously preying on vulnerable women who have been abused and use them as an outlet to their perverted and disgusting fantasies that would get them sent to jail

I think any woman who says she enjoys this kink is just confused and is so deep in the cycle of abuse that she can’t see what’s wrong with it

I understand there’s a difference between age play and age regression

Childish things or any form of child imagery or role play should not be involved in anything sexual and only continues a cycle of abuse against women and girls

What do you think?