Seeing clips of the Lily Phillips interview was truly heart breaking and only reinforces the fact that sex work especially prostitution will never be liberating and only further damages a woman’s mental health and body
For context for anyone who doesn’t know
Lily Phillips was originally only an only fans star but recently slept with 100 men in one go, for free, and filmed it.
In the interview towards the end you see her begin to cry, dissociate, and not even be able to describe how she feels
One thing that really stuck out to me is that she says she felt bad for not being able to fully please all the men and that made it all click for me that she did all of this to feel male validation and got more than what she bargained for.
To punish herself and “put”herself through such an intense trauma makes me feel like the people in her life took advantage of her vulnerability and her wanting to please and exploited it
A tale as old as time
I Can’t stand the people saying that she asked for it or that it’s her fault because she set it up when it’s very obvious she is not in the correct headspace to do things like that, no one is, I really see things like this as a form of self harm and punishment
I really hope she is able to get the help she needs and is able to safely leave the sex industry(slavery)
Did anyone else notice they made Farrah taller in mw3?
She used to be at Prices and Alex’s shoulders and now she reaches half their head
Insulting my intelligence doesn’t achieve anything, i have my options and you have yours,
Just because you think you are right doesn’t make your opinion more valuable than mine
Im so tired of hearing “people like you” when you don’t know me and then end up being wrong about what i think
Saying it’s worse for me to see a women do something bad to another women is not holding women to a high standard it’s basic human nature to want to see someone who has gone through similar struggle not Inflict similar pain onto someone else who has also experienced said pain
When i said bad women I ment women who : help men put other women and girls in sexual slavery, put their children in danger for the sake of keeping a man, women who rape, women who have killed their children ect
Granted women have not committed violent crime as often or as horrific as men
But some people think women can do no wrong and are not violent by nature unlike men when that is just continuing a stereotype that women are fragile nurturers who aren’t capable of violence
Saying there are terrible people who happen to be women is not something new or that should be controversial it’s just a fact, the stereotype that we can’t be violent and are the victim in every situation needs to stop. We are individuals who are capable of anything even if it’s not good
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
So glad we can come to a good conclusion 🫶🫶💗 much love and may peace be with you always💖
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
i guess you are a trans identified male.
I was born a woman and will always be a woman
There are drag queen who definitely take things out of proportion but for the most part of what I’ve seen a lot of gay men who do drag struggle with gender dysphoria and use drag as an outlet to express that side of them .
Drag is very much an art form that anyone can participate in , it is not exclusive to gay men
For many gay men drag is more of an alter ego sort of thing because they do not go by women and make jokes while in drag about not being women
There is misogyny in the gay community but it is important to remember that a small group of bad people does not identify a whole community
Any good drag queen knows they got everything from a women, style, makeup, music everything
Of course there are drag queen who are misogynistic because there will always be men everywhere that are misogynistic
I don’t think many people are out here assuming women are acting how those obscene drag queens act plus in general as someone who has gone to drag shows and is active in the drag community a lot of those “drag queens” are very much outcasted
They definitely deserve to get hated on and removed of their platforms
What do y’all think?
It's weird that men do drag to make fun of gender but the gender they make fun of is......women? Wouldn't it make more sense to make fun of hyper-masculinist gender roles that marginalize gay men- wearing big fake muscles and acting like an egoic idiot? Having skits about men getting their ego bruised by irrelevant bullshit? Fighting over nonsense? Being pigs? People will be like, "Well, Drag Kings exist". First of all, I don't even think Drag Kings parody and lampoon masculinity the way drag queens do feminity. I haven't seen many drag kings (they're damn near non-existent/invisible) but when I do, it's never them acting like clown men. The portrayal seems..... reverent. There are some reverent Drag Queens too, like some queens would do a character like Beyonce or Diana Ross with great respect. But there also exists A LOT of clownery: drag characters as slutty, airhead, bimbos, with their abortions and tampons hanging out, making blow job face- that kinda thing. What a coincidence this portrayal of feminity is more popular/has more cultural influence than Drag Kings and that making fun of "gender" has manifested in just...relentlessly shitting on women. Surprise surprise.
To me personally it’s worse when a women commits a horrible crime against another woman it’s worse than a man doing it since I expect it from a man and not a woman who goes through similar societal struggles,
We need to hold bad women accountable for their actions instead of saying “well it doesn’t happen as often” or “well men do it more so it’s not as much of a problem”
Never said that trans women were the “better women”
I’ve seen a lot of women feel like trans women being accepted into female spaces takes away from their struggle or the prejudice they face when that is simply not true
Nothing can take away our achievements and what we have struggled through
Some rad fems use misogynistic trans women as a “gotcha” moment but that is not true for most of the trans community and there are unfortunately women haters everywhere
I actually think bathrooms like that should be changed into individual booths so everyone can have more privacy instead of those insane gaps American ones have
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
Hey :) I sent you an anonymous message on here asking if you were of Romani heritage since your username is a slur that is used against Romani people to oppress and dehumanize them. You never responded to my knowledge so I just wanted to ask if you knew of how harmful that word is and the struggles Romani people face like displacement, genocide, poverty, and racism. I understand you are apart of the peaky blinders fandom but that does not excuse using a slur, the show itself is somewhat problematic for using Romani stereotypes and non Romani people to portray them. I hope to hear back from you if possible.
Pairing- Cillian Murphy and Reader - Not based on real life. Thank you for your support, would love to hear your thoughts!
Summary- I used my couple from The Other Woman, for this fic. Cillian has been away for weeks, and Y/n wants to surprise him.
Your stress levels were high, as you made your way through the hotel. Cillian was here somewhere, doing a Q&A for Oppenheimer. After a long flight, you had showered and changed in his PA’s room. Wanting to be fresh when you saw him. The weather was a lot warmer here, than at home.
He literally had no idea you were here. It had been weeks, since you saw each other. Since he saw his daughter too, and you knew he was struggling. Working long days, answering the same questions over and over. Having to be sociable, it was his idea of hell.
You had travelled alone with Niamh, for the first time. Surprisingly it had gone smoothly. Of course it helped, that Cillian’s PA had booked you into first class. Had a driver to meet you, and help you with your bags.
You had spoken to Cillian late last night, before your flight. Telling him you were going to a cottage, with your friend Liv. So you may not get signal. He had another week to go in LA, he was due to pick up an award at the Palm Springs Film Festival. He had already confessed how home sick he was.
Rushing along the corridor, you knocked on Cillian’s door. He was still working, but his team were waiting for him. When his PA Lyndsey opened the door, you quickly entered.
“Little Princess is still asleep,” she smiled, as you walked through to check. Cillian had a huge suite, so Niamh was sleeping in the bedroom. She looked tiny on his King Size bed.
“Thank you for watching her, I was desperate for a shower,” you responded, hearing a tap on the door. The unmistakable voice of your fiancée, chatting to someone. Your heart began to race.
“Quick, back in the bedroom,” Lyndsey whispered, ushering you away. “Let him come in,” You paced the room, while you waited. Hearing the main door close, as they began to chat.
“It wasn’t as long as last night,” Cillian answered, while you slowly opened the door. Creeping out, he stood with his back to you. “Still busy though, loads of people there. Fuck, it's hot in here,"
Lyndsey nodded, smiling at him. “Well you have a few hours now, to relax. You know just to catch up,” You swore she was more excited, than you were.
“Catch up?” He asked, confused. Feeling a pair of hands, covering his eyes. “What the?” Quickly spinning around, he gasped to find you in front of him.
“Holy fuck… shit,” His mouth went dry, eyes filling with tears. "Shit.... fuck,"
"Are you going to stand there and swear, or kiss your poor woman?" Gareth his stylist laughed. Cillian clearly had no idea you were here. You had really caught him off guard.
Throwing his arms around your waist, he picked you up. Squeezing you so tightly, you could barely breathe. Spinning you around, burying his head in your hair.
"I cant believe it, fuck. Is it really you?" he asked, blinking away his emotion.
"It is really me, I couldn't not be here to see you get your award," you beamed, pressing your lips to his. God, you had missed him so much. Lifting you up, Cillian squeezed you again. Your legs wrapping around his waist.
"Guys, you are making me emotional!" Lyndsey announced, "We will leave you to it,"
You both didn't even notice his team, leaving the room. Locked together in an embrace, holding onto his strong shoulders. Lips meeting feverishly, making up for lost time. When a shrill cry interrupted your reunion.
"Shit! Is that my girl?" Cillian gasped, placing you back onto the floor. Trying to ignore his growing erection, he pulled you through to the bedroom. Niamh still laying on top of his bed, arms and legs kicking angrily. She hated being left on her own.
"Who is in here?" Cillian asked, crawling onto the bed. You couldn't stop smiling, watching her little eyes searching the room. She knew her Daddy's voice.
“Is this my little Niamh bear?" He cooed.
When her Daddy's face came into view, her blue eyes widened. Hands clenching and unclenching, excitedly. "Here she is, here she is, Daddy has missed you!" Picking her up Cillian held her close, letting her grip onto his jumper.
"You happy to see Daddy? Yes you are," you smiled, letting her grip your hand. "Mummy is happy to see Daddy too," standing next to him, he wrapped his arms round both of you.
"Fuck, I'm so glad you are here," he stated, enjoying his little reunion.
That night, you both attended the awards ceremony. You hated these types of events, you both did. Cillian was always uncomfortable with the press, the never ending questions. You hated the scrutiny, people making comments about your relationship.
Desperate for pictures of you together.
Lyndsey had arranged a babysitter, but you wouldn't stay too late. You hated leaving her. Walking hand in hand through the crowd, with Cillian's team. he turned to whisper in your ear. "You are the most beautiful woman, in here,"
"I have just seen Eva Longoria," you laughed, aware of people taking sneaky selfies of him. "She is stunning,"
"You are the only woman for me," Cillian winked, taking your hand again.
When the time came for Cillian to accept his achievement award. You were overcome, with emotion. He had worked so hard, not just on this movie. But, throughout his whole career. Although, when you were both at home, it was easy to forget what a big star he was.
He was just your Cillian. Niamh and Niall's Dad. Your fiancée, just in your little bubble. Dabbing your eyes, you sipped some water. Listening intently.
“And finally, because I never get to do this, I want to thank my family," Cillian continued. Waving over at you. "Two thirds are here with me, my beautiful fiancée, Y/n, sitting just over there," The whole crowd turned to look at you.
Oh my god.
"For putting up with me," he chuckled, "Supporting me when I take on these huge projects, they are always there for me. And I love you, thank you everyone,"
Note- Congratulations to Cillian!
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In my culture we do, I never said women can’t be two spirited tf? It’s disconnected from your reality not mine or my peoples, and I am trying to talk to you about peacefully coexisting because I have experienced it in my tribe. It’s crazy seeing how violent and divided outsiders are, of course I know it’s because of men, but it’s sad when I see outsider women not even being able to fathom a world where we all can coexist…. Very sad
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for
I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)
1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex
2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers
3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping
4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem
5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing
I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering
Please let me know your thoughts
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⭐️Some people seem to be confused about this but i was born a woman and will always be a woman, it’s so crazy how other women will try to degrade me as if they were men for disagreeing with them or seeing things differently, i do not like liberal feminism and i never have, and i do not like to label my belief system and prefer to make a more individual standpoint than community⭐️
Another edit lol
⭐️I have never claimed to be a rad fem or that I know everything about rad feminism because I don’t, and that was the purpose of this post, it’s really crazy how people will say they want to educate and liberate women while yelling and degrading me for simply not agreeing with them and proceed to do the same things men do, you are no better than a man, I’ve come to realize that this community strayed from its original purpose and roots and has been taken over by people who want to put in their own two cents and opinion, this community or at least a good portion of it seems like a very miserable community, I have meet a lot of rad fems who have common sense and realize that hate will get them nowhere and being rude to me won’t achieve anything, on the other hand majority of rad fems I’ve meet have misconstrued the movement from what I’ve read and put feelings over facts, I won’t interact to hate and only to genuine discussions ⭐️
So female doctors don’t have an understanding of the female body but somehow you a random tumblr user do?
Literally where have you heard about it being used as birth control? That is literally just a conspiracy theory used to push the agenda that women cannot control themselves and need a man to regulate them and make rules for them
It isn’t “technically” true, it is true that there are many circumstances where a women would need an abortion. Especially a child
If a women chooses to not follow through with a pregnancy it is her choice,
You’re acting as if women aren’t allowed to enjoy sex and simultaneously not want a child, not everyone is cut out to be a mother wether that be for financial or mental reasons and I would much rather a women get an abortion than put a child into a dangerous situation. Women who have been victims of rape should not be forced to birth a child they never wanted.
Even if that were true how would making it illegal affect the women who do need it? They would not be able to access it and that is exactly what is happening right now.
Unpopular opinion: "Abortions are a lifesaving medical procedure" = "We don't know anything about the female body and we refuse to learn, so we sold women this procedure that kills their young and we packaged it all pretty to convince women that it's empowering. But don't point that out or think for yourself about it."