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kimora lee simmons 🤌🏽

୨୧ 𝑯𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉𝒚 𝑩𝒐𝒅𝒚 , 𝑮𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒔, 𝑪𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑺𝒌𝒊𝒏 ୨୧

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the concept of failure ₊˚⊹♡₊˚

there is no such thing as failure. everything that seems to go wrong, every little inconvenience, whatever makes you grit your teeth and stress out and beat yourself up for; none of it means you've failed at whatever you're trying to do, because failure simply does not exist.

failure literally means lack of success. and that word is allowed into your vocabulary? you're allowed to describe anything you do as a failure? as "i've failed?"

no matter what you're trying to be, where you are, how you're trying to live, what your current life looks like, the way you live, the way you talk, where you come from, what you do, what you say, none of it can possibly fail, even if it seems that way. because everything in your life made for you, by you.

everything is the way it is because everything is always aligning in your best interests, whether it seems like it or not. whatever seems like its "failing" now is to show you there is so much more coming in the future.

think about it for a sec. everything you've classed as a failure in your life has taught you something. say there was somebody in your life, close to you or not, that changed you not for the better. you wouldn't be reading this if you hadn't learnt anything from that. it wasn't time wasted, you shouldn't have been wiser, none of these things people tell themselves when things like this happen. it was meant to happen regardless because it was supposed to teach you and evolve you into what you are and where you're headed now.

no matter what you do, you cannot fail, because no matter what you do it is always going to aid you in the future in some way or another, whether it be to teach you a lesson, help somebody in a similar situation, use your experience in a future scenario, anything you can think of, whether said action is bad or good.

your internal reality reflects onto your external reality. even when you have such a belief that everything you do is bound to fail, even then it's still impossible because you are succeeding in making everything fail for yourself. that is still success. that is still not failing.

please stop being so concerned over this. whatever you're trying to do, whatever you're trying to pursue, whatever you're trying to achieve, please stop stressing over failure. no matter what happens, you can not fail. you got this.

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my favorite tumblr posts

Cultivating Your Signature It Girl Aesthetic | THE IT GIRL DIARIES

a talk on my favorite timeless beauty and fashion detailz

ultimate IT girl guide

how to live your life like the BRATZ ♡

self care tips 🫖

The IT Girl Wardrobe Essentials | IT GIRL DIARIES

beauty and brains⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀☕️

The Prissy Girl Look

pretty girl handbook⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

cultivating a high maintenance lifestyle⋆.ೃ࿔*:･👛🐩

polished princess doll tips

getting it together⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️

micro glow up part two⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

Be high maintenance to be low maintenance: a checklist

take care of YOU first⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍭

your guide to casual glam⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍰

romanticizing ur night routine⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁🫧

back to school "be the it girl" guide

Doll Mindset!! How To Achieve It 🎀

how to be more feminine⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🩰

VISION BOARDS | THE IT GIRL DIARIES

Complete Guide : How to looksmax & drastically improve your appearance

VICTORIA SECRET ANGEL ULTIMATE GLOW UP🩰

Dream Girl Masterpost 🍰

Every it-girl needs:

my tips on becoming that christian girl 💒💗

How to be more confident ;)

The Ultimate It-Girl Guide to start every new year

Prissy Girl Essentials

GLOW UP GUIDE FOR 2025

how to stop being so obsessed with them.

Socialite In Training 🦋

RECLAIMING DISCIPLINE CAN LOOK LIKE:

fostering and living out confidence⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁🍬

things to put in ur fashion journal⋆.ೃ࿔*:･📔🎀

Journaling Ideas!!

— the 2025 princess guide:

yes i am high maintenance, i am a princess, i am picky about everything, i do have high standards, i do dress up like a doll every time i leave the house. and what about it?

✧ preparing for next semester series (2/12): gentle planning guide ✧

hello sweethearts! mindyyy here! continuing our semester prep series with something super important - planning your schedule with intention and care.

here's a little break down into breaking this down into manageable pieces that won't overwhelm your precious mind:

essential planning elements:

class schedule

study blocks

self-care time

social activities

rest periods

creating your weekly template:

start with fixed classes

add study blocks (2-3 hours per class)

schedule meal times

plan exercise/movement

include social time

mark dedicated rest periods

time blocking tips:

use color coding (pick pretty colors!)

leave buffer time between activities

schedule harder tasks during your peak hours

include preparation time

add flexible blocks for unexpected things

digital vs. paper planning: digital sweetness:

google calendar for main schedule

notion for detailed planning

reminder apps for tasks

digital sticky notes

paper paradise:

pretty physical planner

weekly schedule template

monthly overview

habit tracker

to-do lists

remember:

don't overschedule

include white space

be realistic with time

plan for self-care

allow flexibility

my favorite planning hack: schedule your planning time! set aside 30 minutes each sunday evening to review and adjust your week ahead.

gentle hugs, mindy x

p.s. what's your favorite way to plan? digital or paper? 🎀

amazing post by @milkoomi

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it's super helpful and super cute!! check it out!! <3

dear diary⋆.ೃ࿔*:･✨

keeping a diary is so much FUN and helpful not only for my mental health but for overall GIRLINESS. as someone who's been keeping a diary consistently for two years now, i'll be giving some diary resources and tips on how to get started and maintain a diary.

WHY ITS FUN TO HAVE A DIARY ;

i love to read past entries bcuz first, im rly rly funny and its fun to go back and read what i was writing about at that time and just reminisce on points in my life. it makes for great entertainment and it showcases growth that i've made and the way that my character changed or grew.

its been a game-changer for my mental health bcuz i have a little outlet where i can be completely transparent and just yap endlessly with no one to stop me or invade on my privacy.

TOOLS FOR A PHYSICAL DIARY ;

fluffy pink and purple pens

yummy scented glitter pens

past-able things (examples include ; cut outs from magazines, photos that you've taken and printed, stickers, memo sheets)

some print able and past able resources ;

decoration for the actual diary like glitter, stickers, ribbons, and frills.

for the actual diary , look for diaries that are pretty (for example, fluffy diaries)

more examples ;

TOOLS FOR A DIGITAL DIARY ;

a good writing tool (FOR MY DIARY, I USE NOTION)

cute headers + photos to insert into my diary, i find all of my photos on pinterest.

digital diaries are easily a lot less work then physical diaries which is why i keep a digital diary but keeping a physical diary is SO much fun too.

THE ACTUAL WRITING PART ;

everyone will write in their diaries in a different way based on whatever feels the most natural, but for me i start off my entries with "dear diary" and then write in the journal as though i was writing to a friend so its super comfy and relaxed.

i actually have a couple of writing outlets, so i have a journal and i have a diary. my diary is mostly for my day-to-day life. its updated 2x a week (tuesdays and thursdays) in my journal, thats less about my day to day and just random things i wanna write about.

STUFF THAT I HAVE IN MY JOURNAL ;

all about me

girlhood and the little joys of life

why im the most beautiful girl (with proof)

stuff i like

vaunting about myself

sweetest inbox letters (cuz ur all so sweet)

list of things i've consciously manifested so far this year

my car collection

tattoos i wanna get and why

my unholier thoughts

PROMPTS AND IDEAS ;

angel numbers

favorite song lyrics

list of things to manifest

a love letter (to yourself, crush, etc)

letter to your future/past self

lipstick stain log

current obsessions

pressed flowers

favorite sweet treats (ranked)

list ur crushes and celebrity crushes

favorite quotes in general

ppl that u look up to

doodles

all in all i think that journalling is such a fun and beneficial hobby and hopefully this post can help u to start something that u might rly love. ✨