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My heart.....

dan’s laugh thats like hhhhhHUHUH for a minute straight

There is no shame in loving without abandon. ✌️❤️

Yep

*to the tune of seventeen by troye sivan* oh oh oh oh oh oh quarantine

the “tumblr community invents a whole mafia movie apparently directed by martin scorsese with an official soundtrack, movie posters, screen caps, and all enough to make one question if that movie really did exist at all like a mandela effect” was not part of my 2022 bingo card

Having a soft heart is not a shameful thing. Being earnest about what you love isn’t either. Sometimes it feels tiring to care when so many others in the world act like nothing moves them. But it doesn’t mean you should become uncaring only to seem stronger, because allowing yourself to be moved, to love, to be sensitive and soft is a brave thing, especially in a world that often seems so cruel. Remember to treat yourself with that same softeners, that same care. It’s not a shameful thing to be vulnerable, to be seen.

“SHIPLASH - a definition”

—

MamaVirtueMoir

Shiplash - pronounced much like whiplash, but with a ship instead of whip.

The emotional jerking  back and forth a Shipping Fandom goes though.

The Fandom will Swing from these two emotions:

They are together - everything is roses and love. Nothing will ever come between them.  They are in love.  It is a fairy tale

They are not together - the world is ending, there will never be good days again.  My entire mood is dependent on these two people being together.

Most fandoms experience some form of SHIPLASH, but the VirtueMoir Fandom is a prime example. Going from they are in love to they they will never be together in the span of 30 min or less.

If you are suffering from a case of SHIPLASH some recommended treatments:

1. Remember that your OTP are just people living their life the best way they know how.  The public persona of your OTP can be completely different than what they have at home.  Your OTP will misinform and misdirect in order to maintain privacy.  This is their right, because they do not owe you the truth or any details about their private lives.  No matter how much you want them to.

2.  Get off the internet if you get too upset in a negative phase of the SHIPLASHING.  Don’t read every post.  Don’t read every tweet.  Some people thrive on drama.  Tune them out.

3.  Go on Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime or just TV to take your mind off of the things that distress you.  Binge watch some series that will engross you.  Or even better read a good book.

4.  Focus on your own life if you need to.  

5.  Come back a few days later, the SHIPLASH will have swung the other way again.  And you can enjoy the light-hearted fun of shipping you initially came here for.

Shipping should be fun and entertaining - if you don’t enjoy it.  Step away.  

If you have the impulse to ruin someone else’s shipping experience - Step away.  It does not really matter what someone else believes or thinks.  Only what you believe or think.  Share it on your blog.  

I haven't done any amazing art like most people on here because I am awful at that, but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! @danielhowell

🎂🎂❤️❤️❤️❤️

forbidden knowledge

Thanks @dansevilpianotea :)

1. Dan and Phil (plus some other YouTubers)

2. Music

3. Oversized clothes and hoodies

4. Books and films

5. My friends and family

Pass the happy! 🍄☺️ When you receive this, list 5 things that make you happy and send this to 10 of the last people in your notifications! :) <3

ayy thank you!

cloudy weather

little saph messages

old dnp liveshows

big jumpers

finding maths easy (rare)

i’m just gonna tag some people :)

@ditlmanchesterbutspooky @graydar @i-could-bee-an-angel @something-nat @panlesters @simonlikesdnp @simon--spooks @sarcasm-addiction