“It’s One Thing To Be Bisexual And Quite Another To Live As A Bisexual Person, To Make That Space

Kaitlin Sobiesiak

“I am married and monogamous. Not much of a bisexual you say. Yet my bisexuality influences my perception and my decisions. More than having sexual relations with both genders, bisexuality is a mind frame, a reference point from which to view the world. Being bisexual has more to do with potential than actuality.”

- Amanda Yoshizaki, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“Characters rarely identified themselves as bisexual out loud - instead they behaved their bisexuality, usually through an illicit queer hookup (followed by a breakdown because they’re so “confused”). This taught me that bisexuality was something you do, rather than something you are. And since I hadn’t “done it” yet, I figured I was straight.”

- Jen Winston, Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much

*approaching the four horsemen of the apocalypse* are you looking for a fifth

when the guy is cooking and his gf comes up behind him and gets her hands in under his shirt to run them up to his chest and kiss his neck the mood is frankly divine and the vibes are simply pristine