Bluesapphirevirgo22 - E.Z@22

𝑳𝒆𝒕𝒔 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒈 😔 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒅𝒐 ,𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒚𝒑𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 , 𝑰 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒑𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 ,𝑬𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝑰 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌 ,𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒍 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉. 𝑺𝒐 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 ,𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝒇𝒊𝒓𝒔𝒕 💔

“Being willing is not enough. We must do.”

— Leonardo da Vinci

“biggest lesson: if you feel drained around them they’re not for you”

— Andrew Zaffina

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝. 𝐓𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐮𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. 𝐓𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐨 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧'𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. 𝐓𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐜𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮

Because no one understands you

“Life is to be lived, not controlled; and humanity is won by continuing to play in face of certain defeat.”

— Ralph Ellison

𝑰𝒎 𝑷𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚 , 𝑰𝒎 𝒕𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒈𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈,𝒉𝒐𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒄𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 ,𝒎𝒊𝒙𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒊𝒈𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒔 ,𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏 ,𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒈𝒐 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 , 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒂𝒘𝒌𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒉 𝒐𝒇 𝒖𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏 ,𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒖 𝒐𝒃𝒗𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 💔💔

I thought relationships are easy. You just fall in love and live happily ever after. The end. But hell no. You have to deal with the fact that love is not enough, that both of you have terrible traits, that the excitment will not stay forever. Sometimes another person gives you butterflies and sometimes you are not sure, if your loved one is the one. And then you have to choose your relationship again and again until you either don't anymore or live happily ever after. I thought relationships are easy. But damn, they are hard work, confusing, the best and the worst.

Strength is light ☀

To avoid disappointment, accept people exactly as they are, instead of idealizing about who you wish they would be.