Bluesapphirevirgo22 - E.Z@22

‼️When Jan Masong said;

“relationship will never work if one partner is independent and the other one is immature”

and to Si Ate Ching sa Thailand you really nailed it;

“Kung tinatakot ka, why stay?

Kung niloko ka, why stay?

Kung sinusumbat sayo ang tulong, it's not love! Why stay?

Kung walang plano sa future, why stay?”

Don't settle for less with a man who doesn't recognize your worth. You know your value. If you feel like your sanity is being affected, your peace is being taken for granted, and you're dealing with an immature man, then why stay?

And yes for Joshua Rey Noval please be a Man, not just a Boy!💔

Remember, relationships involve compromise, but not at the cost of individual growth and well-being.

#janMasong #teacherjaninthailand

#cttocredittotherightfulowner

I fucking hate most people. I don't get them. Their lack of empathy or even emotionally understanding anyone else, even on a basic level. I'm so goddamn sick and tired of being abused and feeling helpless to make it stop. And meanwhile assholes in my life want to play devil's advocate to people that they don't even like themselves, against me. I'm fucking sick and tired of being gaslighted and treated like shit by people in my life THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO BE ON MY SIDE. Seriously, WTF is wrong with people??? Anyone? Everyone??? I feel like I cannot trust anyone to have my back anymore, ever. I'm so fucking sick of questioning myself, after knowing how I've been abused and gaslighted. I'm far from fucking perfect, I've sinned. I'm only human. But I would never fucking do what people have done to me. I would rather fucking die than treat someone else the way I've been treated. I would NEVER hurt someone else the way I've been treated, even after they've hurt me already. I don't give a shit about revenge. I don't have it in me to hurt others, even if they've hurt me. That's not me. But for these fucking psychos that still want to hurt me, for whatever selfish, jaded, fucked up reasons... I just don't get it. I'm a feral cat backed into a corner at this point, and in order to make it stop the innocent involved are going to be hurt. Because I'm out of options and people = shit. Everyone needs to grow the fuck up. I just do not get how most people can live with themselves. I'm far from perfect, but I pay the price of self loathing daily and don't like hurting others, even if they 100% deserve it, because that's not me. But at some point something has to change. Sorry if this is pretty repetitive. I'm really upset and tired of being abused.

People is just fake as fuck and you all know that

Nature,💚💚💚

I thought relationships are easy. You just fall in love and live happily ever after. The end. But hell no. You have to deal with the fact that love is not enough, that both of you have terrible traits, that the excitment will not stay forever. Sometimes another person gives you butterflies and sometimes you are not sure, if your loved one is the one. And then you have to choose your relationship again and again until you either don't anymore or live happily ever after. I thought relationships are easy. But damn, they are hard work, confusing, the best and the worst.

▶️▶️ being "outside your comfort zone" is doing something unfamiliar and daunting while having the skills, support, and resources to get through it - safely and healthily. it helps you.

"pushing yourself past your limits" is doing something that distresses your body/mind without the skills, support, and resources you need. it puts you at risk of further illness, trauma, injury, etc. it hurts you.

and you are the only person on this planet who can decide which category something falls in. you do not need a doctor or therapist's approval in order to have limits. no amount of schooling or practice can make someone know your needs, mind, body, or life better than you.

please trust yourself. go outside your comfort zone and grow when you can, but otherwise? don't sweat it. you're a person. not a machine.

💙💙💙