I yet again ask you gyns to try and use "tim" and "tif".
I see "trans man" and "trans woman" slipped into our collective vocabulary and was uncritically adopted. That's not good at all.
The only way to get rid of all the spam in the radical feminist hashtags is to report and block them. Tumblr support has been contacted by both me and many others and they have no ETA of when or how they will get rid and prevent them. Blocking them will eliminate them from showing in your home feed and and the hashtag itself. I am updating regularly.
Why don't "femboys" ever wanna dress like normal cute girls. Why don't they ever wanna wear Lululemon or whatever. Or H&M. Why do they only want to dress like absolute dogshit. Like the goofiest fucking anime girl caricature.
What an interesting post about a woman’s feelings! I wonder what her comments are like…
..oh!
The only thing holding me back from the edge these days is knowing the butch experience of adopting a trans identity is actually almost universal and not as isolating and soul crushing as it feels right now. Every day I wonder if the world will ever accept me as a woman again when I look and sound the way I do. Every day I’m recovering from the confusion and self hatred that prioritizing how others perceive my gender caused. When I think about the shitty reality of how much damage my trans identity did to my body and self image, I have to remind myself that I’m not alone. All around the world, there are other butches like me suffering silently. Some are quietly detransitioning, others are stuck with that trans identity, holding the regret at bay and pretending like its all ok. Acknowledging them and feeling compassion for them is what allows me to have compassion for myself. I have hope for myself because I have hope for all of us.
We all went through adolescence envying boys because of our crushes on straight girls, we all rejected patriarchal beauty standards, we all struggled with the rise of social media, and we all mistook puberty, mental illness, sexual trauma, and internalized lesbophobia for gender dysphoria. We walked the same path right into that doctors office asking for testosterone. Right now its hard to see this first wave of detransitioners speaking out get bullied. But I have hope that in 5 more years, this generation of young butch women will be bonding over the hair loss, the surgery regret, the deep voice, the body dysmorphia, the sexual dysfunction, and the isolation of being a medically masculinized female in today’s world. We wont care that we can’t go back in time anymore, because we’ll know we aren’t alone. The worries of our youth will be left behind, and together we’ll be able to close that chapter and go on living with purpose again.
istg men do this all the time
Why would you choose a bear over a man? Because since 1784 there have been 180 fatal bear attacks, while in 2021 alone, 81,100 women and girls were intentionally killed by men.
gendies and their long ass word transandrophobia or whatever…lol no that’s just misogyny. nah trans men aren’t more hated for whatever reason at the end of the day your community knows exactlyyy who to be awful too (hint: it’s cause they still know you’re a female!)
i would honestly rather be called a slur than "neurospicy"
“Doctors are human and fallible so that means that people should be allowed to just claim to have whatever illness they want if they feel like it!”
Male referring to himself as a misogynistic slur. Makes sense I guess - typical incel behavior.
It's so upsetting to see post after post about girls and women being unhappy with their appearances, mostly after facing judgement.
I'd like to remind you that your physical beauty, your appearance, is the least interesting, most boring thing about you.
How is your appearance going to help you get good grades? It won't, your knowledge will.
How is your appearance going to save the life of the victim of drowning? It won't, your knowledge will.
How is your appearance going to keep the conversation going? It won't. Your knowledge, interests, and personality will.
Saying you don't like yourself because your ugly is like saying you hate your birthday present because it got wrapped in ugly wrapping paper. It's on the inside that counts, that actually matters.
It's more than okay to be "ugly" or what society deems unattractive. Beauty is subjective anyway. You'll never win if you tried.
Call me Lark! Detrans lesbian w/ a DSD (chimerism), and 21 years old. Gender-critical. Diagnosed OCD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wildlife enjoyer and proud masc lesbian.
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