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The Importance of Teaching Women About Their Religious Affairs

Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Some women requested the Prophet ﷺ to fix a day for them as the men were taking all his time. فيه: أَبُو سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِىِّ، قَالَتِ النِّسَاءُ: يَا رسول اللَّه غَلَبَنَا عَلَيْكَ الرِّجَالُ، فَاجْعَلْ لَنَا يَوْمًا مِنْ نَفْسِكَ، Thus, he promised them one day for religious lessons and commandments. فَوَعَدَهُنَّ يَوْمًا لَقِيَهُنَّ فِيهِ، فَوَعَظَهُنَّ، وَأَمَرَهُنَّ، Ibn Baṭṭāl, Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1/178 #39 ابن بطال، شرح صحيح البخارى ١/١٧٨ #٣٩ https://shamela.ws/book/10486/149 Telegram: https://t.me/aljadwal Tumblr: https://al-jadwal.tumblr.com

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“I forgive people but that doesn’t mean I accept their behavior or trust them again. I forgive them for me, so I can let go and move on with my life.”

— Unknown

Practice Self Care First

قال الإمام ابن قدامة رحمه الله تعالى:

« إيَّاكَ أن تَشتَغِلَ بِمَا يُصلِحُ غَيرَكَ قَبلَ إصلَاحِ نَفسِك »

"مِنهَاجُ القَاصِدِين" || (ص: ٢٢).

Imam Ibn Qadamah said (May Allah Ta Ala have mercy upon him), “Don’t get busy in what fixes the affairs for others before you fix yourself.

Minhaj Al Qasiddin 22

[Reported by Ibn 'Abbās in Marfū' form]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said,

إِسْمَحْ يُسْمَحْ لَكَ

"Be gentle [1],

and gentleness shall be rendered to you."

[1] Easygoing, Forgiving

[سلسلة الصحيحة]

Explaning it,

Manāwī said,

"Deal with Allah's creation who are [all] dependent upon Him and so are His slaves with gentleness [i.e, forgiveness] and ease. [and] their Master [Allah] will render the same to you in this Dunyā and Akhirah."

[كتاب فيض القدير]