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Jane Birkin in "Melancoly Baby" (dir. Clarisse Gabus - 1979).

RADFEM PSA!!!

DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME ARGUING WITH M*LES, EVER. In fact, don't engage with ANYONE that's annoying and full of it. Delete their comments and block them! Time is an infinitely precious resource and you can spend it on radicalizing other women, building networks and communities, educating yourself, drinking water or even staring at a wall-- that would be more productive than arguing with a broken Y chromosome.

I don’t want to go to work i want to sit at home with my Nintendo 3ds

this is not “iconic”, this is sad.

i feel so bad for her.

'whos your favourite Spider-Man?'

All. Of. Them.

When I say I love Spider-Man I mean I fucking LOVE Spider-Man, what about Spider-Woman you ask? I LOVE ALL OF SPIDER-WOMAN TOO!! I LOVE EVERY SPIDER SUPERHERO!! THEY'RE MY SILLIES!!

”Stay where you are.” “Get out of my private space.” “Do not touch my waist when you pass me by.” “You talked over me.” “Doctor, I want you to take my health issues seriously.” “You will not coerce me into sex.” “You realize rape by coercion is what you’re trying to do, right?” “That wasn’t funny, that was just misogyny/racism/homophobia.” “Why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn’t want to have sex with you?” “What an odd thing to say out loud.” “Your manipulation tactics will not work on me.” “I stand by my beliefs.” “You think your feelings are objective facts but they are not.” “You are harassing me. Stop.” “Do not call women bitches.” “That’s such a pornsick thing to say.” “I don’t owe you sex.”

Sentences I recommend practicing. Feel free to add your own.

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Imo like we tried subversively gender neutral language, we had good intentions, but it didn’t work and it’s time to try something else. The assumption that ungendered/neutral subject=male and relationship=heterosexual is just too strong under a patriarchy. It didn’t take very long at all after everyone started using “partner” for strangers to start assuming I meant a boyfriend when I used it, and I know from outing myself every single day of my life that sometimes you can EXPLICITLY gender your partner and people will just unconsciously fit it into the paradigm theyre more comfortable with. In the case of my girlfriend’s very obviously feminine name, sometimes that’s hearing “Julian” or vocalizing surprise at, as one of her uber drivers put it, how Julia isn’t “a very gender congruent name” but they’ll do it, and they’ll say “he” back to you when you use she. You don’t make social gains by using mailperson if everyone assumes the mailperson is a man anyway, you have to actively challenge Male As Default. Mailwomen or bust tbh.

God could you imagine how mad geologists must have been to slowly watch the "hey all the continents kinda fit like puzzle pieces :)" guy get proven right

A good portion of the problems on radblr can be solved by not answering bait anons and assuming every anon is who they say they are. Just saying.

im so tired. imagine forgetting sexism is a thing.

Protesters at Vancouver Women's Library asked a list of books to be removed. Here they are:

Admission Accomplished - Jill Johnston -Against Sadomasochism - Robin R. Linden, Darlene R. Pagano, Diana E. Russell, Susan Leigh Star -Amazon Odyssey: Collection of Writings - Ti-Grace Atkinson -Buddhism after Patriarchy - Rita M. Gross -The Female Man - Joana Russ -Female Sexual Sl*v*ry - Kathleen Barry -Feminism Unmodified - Catharine A. Mackinnon -First Buddhist Women: Poems and Stories of Awakening Susan Murcott -Gyn/Ecology - Mary Daly -The Idea of Prostitution - Sheila Jeffreys -The Industrial Vagina: The Political Economy of the Global Sex Trade - Sheila Jeffreys -Intercourse - Andrea Dworkin -The Lesbian Heresy - Sheila Jeffreys -Nine Parts of Desire: The Hidden World of Islamic Women - Geraldine Brooks -Not a Choice, Not a Job: Exposing the Myths about Prostitution and the Global Sex Trade - Janice Raymond -Not for Sale: Feminists Resisting Prostitution and Pornography-Of Women Born - Adrienne Rich -Pornography: Men Possessing Women - Andrea Dworkin -Radical Acceptance - Tara Brach -The Sexual Liberals and the Attack on Feminism - Janice Raymond -Women As Wombs: Reproductive Technologies and the Battle over Women’s Freedom - Janice Raymond

These are the books they are afraid of women reading. Keep this in mind. Read these books. Share them with others. Keep fighting.

lol @ the insinuation that men “turn to” the patriarchy as if it’s a weed strain rather than a violent system of oppression created to make women second-class citizens

men created it, it benefits them, they don’t commit unspeakable acts every second of every day because they’re “lonely and alienated” they do it because they want to and the systems they created allow them to with no consequences

there‘s a reason why it‘s „suck my dick“ and not „lick my pussy“ to demean someone.

there‘s a reason why we say „get fucked“ and „that‘s fucked“. fucked means: penetrated.

there‘s a reason why so much language surrounding penetrative sex is so violent: smashed, nailed, „rearranging someone‘s guts“, banging, screwing.

there‘s a reason why so many people have an aversion to gay sex, or even straight men engaging in passive anal acts.

there‘s a reason why lesbian porn catered to men usually involves dildos and strap-ons.

there‘s a reason why it‘s „big dick energy“ and „small dick energy“ and not big and small pussy energy.

there‘s a reason why a woman‘s vagina is considered „worn out“ when she had a lot of sexual partners while it doesnt impact a man‘s dick.

there‘s a reason why men say „i fucked your mom/sister“ as an insult: i stained your property, i dishonored your family.

there‘s a reason why women with a lot of sexual partners, or even women who arent virgins, are considered „dirty“ and dishonored, and why gay and bisexual men are seen as less manly.

there‘s a reason why women who are and were prostitutes or in porn are seen as less worthy while men who buy sex or do (straight) porn are seen as manly, which is considered good.

there‘s a reason why „whore“ and „slut“ are female specific terms.

penetration is seen as degrading.

and sex is often only considered as penetration. and the penis is considered to be superior, and a tool of degradation.

and to be penetrated is seen as a female trait, which in turn justifies women‘s degradation and misogyny. this is where a lot of homophobia stems from as well.

this is why the penis is not a neutral body part.

my ‘harmful ideology’ is putting women’s needs and health first and not allowing men to shut me up. so go fuck yourself bc i’ll never stop

"we need more men in--"

no. no we do not. we do not need more fathers, we do not need more men in healthcare, we do not need more men in universities, or boys in school or whatever

we do not need more men PERIOD

what we actually need is more women in all these fields getting paid their fucking dues

the less men there are, the less war, the less violence, the less terrorism, the less economic collapses, the more we have a chance at fixing these worldwide catastrophes and healing the earth (this has the entirety of human history's worth of documented and observable evidence)

women and girls are not only healing society but the earth; the fact that boys and men hate that school is no longer boy's club, the fact that they have made themselves useless if not destructive without their precious fabricated masculinity, the fact that they keep expecting a parade in their name for doing the barest of minimums isn't our problem, it isn't a human crisis, it is a crisis of the male identity

no one needs to resuscitate it; let it die a natural, deserved, overdue death

I know people think the conversion of barbieland to a patriarchy was stupid because greta was either unable or unwilling to acknowledge the real world systems that have historically supported it but personally I think the in-universe explanation that the barbies had lived in a matriarchy for so long that it was easy to brainwash them because they had no idea how bad it would be (and maybe even thought it would be a fun change of pace?) is INCREDIBLY relevant for zillennial girls who've grown up taking feminist victories for granted and are now embracing tiktok tradwife bullshit. imo.

honestly male dogs who’ve been abused by male humans are the real male feminist allies

🌈Happy Pride Month🌈

🌸To the lesbians told they are transphobic for refusing biological males

🌸To the lesbians hiding their true orientation for fear of discrimination from the same movement claiming to support them

🌸To the lesbians who wonder if maybe it would be easier to identify out of it and pretend they are a man in a woman’s body

🌸To all the lesbians feeling left behind by mainstream pride

🌈Happy pride month🌈

🌻To the gay men called transphobic for refusing biological females

🌻To the gay men who hide their true selves to appease their peers idea of how they ought to be

🌻To the gay men who wonder if maybe they should give in and try to change yet again

🌻To all the gay men feeling left behind by the mainstream pride

🌈Happy pride month🌈

🌺To the bisexuals who are told they are transphobic for refusing someone that believes in outdated gender roles as an identity

🌺To the bisexuals told they aren’t gay enough to be LGB and aren’t straight enough to be “normal”

🌺To the bisexuals who feel like they don’t fit and are always having to change and hide bits and pieces of themselves to be accepted

🌺To all the bisexuals feeling left behind by the mainstream pride

🌈Happy pride month🌈

🌼To the dysphoric people told their bodies are wrong and should be medically harmed

🌼To the dysphoric women and girls seeking to escape the trauma of sexism and misogyny

🌼To the dysphoric men seeking to escape the trauma and toxicity that seems to infest most masculinity

🌼To all the dysphoric people feeling left behind by the mainstream pride

🌈Happy pride month🌈

💐To all the people whose identities aren’t just an identity, but a part of them, a biological reality

💐To all the people who reject ‘queer’ because same sex attraction and dysphoria are not strange or weird

💐To all the people told to follow a political movement that claims to support them despite actions showing otherwise

💐To all the people left harmed by the medical industry as it preys upon individuals with dysphoria or those struggling to come to terms with their sexuality

💐To all the people told that their desire for simple acceptance and normalcy is politically incorrect

🌈Here’s to a pride month for everyone, and a hope for a better future for all- regardless of ones orientation, presentation, or politics🌈

gender dysphoria is the ONLY mental illness where the agreed-upon solution is to give in to the negative thoughts. nobody suggests treating anorexia with starvation, or treating suicidal ideation with encouragement to go through with it. but with people with gender dysphoria, the solution has suddenly changed to “listen to the negative thoughts and cut body parts off!”

yall the spiderverse movie is so good critics were not joking thaat shit was better than the godfather oh my god

NO WAY HOME CAN’T MULTIVERSE!!! SPIDERMAN ACROSS THE SPIDERVERSE!!!!!!

something about how miles wasn’t “supposed” to become spider-man but still does the most spider-man thing of making a hard choice to do the right thing it’s like poetry

My biggest thought post ATSV is just about poor Miles. He never asked for any of this to happen. He didn't ask to be Spider-Man, he didn't ask to blow up the collider, he didn't know about canon events and shouldn't have been expected to know any rules or regulations the rest of the spider people go by.

This whole situation could've been avoided if Miguel was rational and brought Miles in from the start rather than act like he was to blame for the multiverse going to shit.