I Just Read This Super Sad Post About This Girl Who’s Asexual And Married And Everyone Is Basically

I just read this super sad post about this girl who’s asexual and married and everyone is basically telling her that she doesn’t deserve her husband/she’s just a prude/she should just do it anyway. So I want to tell you all right now that if people tell you this, or if they tell you you’ll never have a relationship, it is BULLSHIT. My husband is asexual and I’m not. He’s sex repulsed, we don’t have sex, we never have. And it doesn’t matter to me. You know what does? He does. His mental health and wellbeing matter to me. Because he is my best friend and he’s one of the smartest, kindest, funniest people I’ve ever met. And he’s had people tel him that he’s broken and it makes me SO ANGRY because they are WRONG. Being different doesnt mean you’re broken. If you don’t like sex/don’t want it/etc. Do not let anyone tell you that you’re inferior because you’re not. Do not let anyone convice you that you’ll never have a relationship because they’re wrong(if you want one). You are not broken, and it will be okay.

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8 years ago
“If A Man’s Wearing His Pants On His Head Or If He Says His Words Backwards From Time To Time, You

“If a man’s wearing his pants on his head or if he says his words backwards from time to time, you know it’s all laid out there for you. But if he’s friendly to strangers and keeps his home spick-and-span, more often than not he’s done something even his own ma couldn’t forgive.”

-No-Bark Noonan, for the lovely @carletoncolton!


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11 years ago
VOODOOLING’S JOHNLOCK GIVEAWAY.

VOODOOLING’S JOHNLOCK GIVEAWAY.

1ST PLACE WINNER:

- Two 8.5x11 prints as seen above

- Two 4x6 prints of any artwork previously done by me of your choice

- 1 print out of a drawing I will draw for you based on your prompt

2ND PLACE WINNER:

- One 4x6 print of any artwork previously done by me of your choice

- 1 print out of a drawing I will draw for you based on your prompt

RULES:

- I’m guessing you should be following me… I mean YES YOU SHOULD hehe

- Reblog only once

- Winners will be chosen by a number generator

GOOD LUCK!

EDIT: WHOOPS! YOU HAVE UNTIL JUNE 15TH TO REBLOG


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4 years ago
Day 1 - Parvati Holcomb, The Outer Worlds Happy Pride Month Of 2020!

day 1 - parvati holcomb, the outer worlds happy pride month of 2020!


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8 years ago

I was tagged by @earlgreytea68

Countries I have lived in: 

The United States. I've never so much as been out of it. I live in Michigan and haven't even taken the drive to Canada.

Favorite fandom fandoms: 

Fallout, The Elder Scrolls, Star Trek, Star Wars, Sherlock Holmes (ACD to BBC to Elementary), Hannibal...

Languages I speak: 

*average American voice* English. Just English.

Favorite film of 2016: 

I’m not much for playing of-the-year favorites in general, but especially with four months left. I did see Star Trek Beyond in theaters three times, though; it soothed something wounded in my Trekkie heart.

Last article you read: 

"What to do when you're not the hero anymore" by Laurie Penny

Shuffle your library and put the first three songs here: 

Cherry Blossom - Lana Dey Rey, What You Won't Do for Love - Bobby Caldwell, How's This? - Hyuna

Last thing you bought online: 

A set of two acrylic tortoiseshell combs and the ten dollarest bottle of rose soliflore perfume I could find.

Any phobias or fears: 

As the not-at-all good Doctor said in Hannibal, "Children transport us to our childhood." For that reason, being around young children for any length of time is... wearing, for me, to put it lightly.

How would your friends describe you: 

"That's what I like about you, you're logical". "Jack's a sweetheart". "Delightful. Quiet, but delightful." "Bona fide."

How would your enemies describe you: 

Pretentious ("gives herself airs"), rude, argumentative, unreliable, dishonest.

Who would you take a bullet for: 

Oh, probably the usual suspects? Family, friends, my S.O. There's really no accurately predicting what you'll actually do in a situation like that, though, if I've learned anything about shock.

If you had money to spare, what you would buy first: 

The best damn eleventh anniversary gift I could lay my hands on.

Now tag 10 people you want to get to know better:


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10 years ago

Help would be appreciated.

If any Star Trek fans could fill out my anonymous questionnaire (here), it would be greatly appreciated. It’s for a major assessment at school, so I would prefer if it were kept to serious responses. A summary of responses is provided upon completing the questionnaire, or may be seen here.

Thanks.


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11 years ago
Scrapbook #4: Crunk Dank (Click For Full-size Image, Click Here For Details.)

Scrapbook #4: Crunk Dank (Click for full-size image, click here for details.)

Other entries in this series: 16 15 14 13 12 11 10 9 8 7 6 5 3 2 1


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4 years ago

My friend: *updates me on her relationship encounters*

My asexual ass:

My Friend: *updates Me On Her Relationship Encounters*

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